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About Medford mail tribune. (Medford, Or.) 1909-1989 | View Entire Issue (Dec. 22, 1958)
i 4A Monday, December 22, 1958 MAIL TRIBUNE, MEDFORD. ORE. Family Council f IT . , yf Martin S. - My wife and I were married ten years ago at the age of 18. Both our parents were against it, but we eloped. My parents had money put aside for my college educa tion, but after I married they said the money would be for my sister, since I wouldn't be able to go to college because our first child was on the way We now have three chil dren and our youngest is six. I haven't gotten very well settled in life from the finan cial point of view, and I am sure I could do much better if I could get a college degree in business administration. My father died a year ago, and my mother would like to take us into her home. Then my wife would be able to go to work. We could get through the four years easily, but my wife doesn't want to live with my mother. Martha. S. - I don't think it's a good idea to live with in-laws, no matter how good relations are. As it happens my relations with my mother-in-law are not of the best. She doesn't talk about it, but I feel she hasn't really forgiven me for marrying Martin be fore he had a chance to get in his schooling. My mother-in-law is not par ticularly good with the chil dren, anyway. She seems to make a big fuss over them and give them lots of affec tion and treats, and then she'll suddenly turnon them and become very strict. They say they don't know where they are with her. They don't like the idea of going to live with her. I wouldn't mind going to work, but I feel that the chil dren are still too young to be left to their own devices after school. Besides my job could n't cover expenses if we had to pay rent. The Council:. Martin's drive in wanting to go after his col lege education at this period of his life deserves some credit and encouragement from his wife. It seems to us that if this marriage were more firmly founded in mutual under standing and helpfulness, Mar tha would be so eager to have her husband fulfill his ambi tions that she would be more than willing to make any necessary sacrifice. Martha's arguments do strike us as hedging. It is understood that conditions might not be ideal in a mother-in-law's home, but where there is a will to accomplish a goal, a helpful wife might try manipulating the situation so that everyone concerned could achieve greater happi ness within limitations. Whether or not she quite realizes it herself, we suspect that Martha really doesn't want her husband to go to col lege. She should ask herself whether this is so and investi gate the reasons for it. Per haps she is afraid that her husband will go too far be yond her, or perhaps she feels that his attending school at a late age is a rebuke to her for the hasty marriage. We be lieve that she would be much happier with herself if she gave up this kind of self-centered brooding and threw her self with enthusiasm into the job of helping her husband achieve the kind of success he really wants. (Copyright 1958, General Features Corp.) Plane Crash Ends Holiday Flight LaFollette, Tenn. - (UPD - A flying holiday trip to Florida ended in death for all six members of a Toledo, Ohio, family when their plane smashed into a fog-shrouded mountain near here. The family's Piper Co manche, its wing coated with ice, dashed into the side of a mountain about 14 miles from here Saturday. Victims were identified as businessman Leo Black, 35, his wife Donna Ruth, 32; their sons Michael, 10, and Jeffry Paul, 5; and daughter, Kath ryn, 8; and Mrs, Violet Mur rell, Mrs. Black's .mother. About 100 rescuers scaled the icy slopes of the mountain after dark Saturday to recov er the bodies. An Air Force helicopter was sent in, but was unable to help because of the rough terrain. STUNT MAN KILLED Marseille, France - (UPD -Roger Froidevaux, a 53-year-old Swiss stunt man trying to beat his own helicopter-diving record, killed himself Sunday in a 160-foot plunge from a copter into Marseille harbor. The aging stunt man set a local record of 145 feet for helicopter diving several months ago. M 1 mM Season s : : : ROXBURY CIKieCGDILAYES Everybody loves chocolates - . . especially when they are Roxbury. Assorted light and dark choco late creams, nougats and chews in attractive holi day gift wrapped boxes. 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