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TWO MEDFORD (OREGON) MAIL TRIBUNE Help Yourself to Happiness traders are Invited te present tJielr problems. All queries will receive Individual attention and should be accompanied by a stamped, self-addressed envelope, directed to MARY HARRIS StIFERT, M. A.. Department of Educa tion. The AMERICAN INSTITUTE OF FAMILY RELATIONS, 27 Sunset Boulevard. Los Angeles 27. California, Pertonal Trait ; Which . Ruin Marriage In the past quarter ceniury, thousands of people have bright their marital difficul ties to Dr. Paul Popenoe, well known biologist, counselor, au thor, and director of the Ameri can Institute of Family Rela tions. Frequently their prob lems were rooted in personality traits which masqueraded as sex incompatibility, in-law trou bles, financial disagreements, or religious differences. Counseling revealed repeatedly that many problems lay not in the reasons the couples gave, but rather in feelings and attitudes which hid deep within and of which the individuals often were not con scious. . '. ' ' " ; Dr. Roswell Johnson, director of the Department of Counsel ing, former president of the American Eugenic society; and author of "Looking Toward Mar riage," suggests that some half dozen qualities are responsible for the 'majority of marital break-ups. (1) . Selfishness; -,.The couple who ask ot'their every relation ship, "What do I get out of it?" are the ones -who . are often most surprised when selfishness kills their marriage. Love can not live with egocentricity. (2) Hostility and lack of sym pathy: Couples sometimes sup press their feelings to conceal hostility. - Suppressed hostility, coupled, with, lack of sympathy, may indeed be' dynamite! . (3) Suspicion: A marriage, rid den by suspicion or continuous questioning reveals lack of unity and is headed, sooner or later, for open difficulty. Love can not flourish under habitual doubt, i no ' matter, , how ... well hidden.'' ' i .-." -... ...'i. (4) InTaTlibility: Theman or woman who is always "right," who is unable to shoulder blame or responsibility, is the one whose marriage may be love less barren. The inseourity of infallibility must be replaced by CALENDAR Calendar notices . and news for tha society section of The Mail Tribune must be submitted in writing and deadline for the Sun day edition la 1 o.m Friday Dead line for the weekly calendar is 9 e m. of the day of publication and for week day. news is cm. the day before publication. Friday: 7:30 p m. Beta Sigma Phi, Mon Desir. 8 p m. Shady Cove-Trail Teenage club, Parrish .hall, Shady Cove. Saturday! 12 noon League of Women Voters, Jackson hotel, Pioneer room. for luggage Skyway is the lightt rt luggage in handsome!. Each beautifully fitted ease wipes clean. What" s more, holds more, ... , JUNKET. 12... 10.95 I WARDROBE, 21."i. 25 00 I alligator ! Burk's (Vlfcszy 55j 314 East Main confidences, to Insure happiness both inside and outside mar riage? (5) Stinginess: Egocentricity, the core of stinginess, is small degree to every personality, but in exaggerated amount, it can wreck a relationship. Subcon sciously the miser of material possessions may become the miser of love. He wants the most, but is willing to give the least: no marriage can flourish in such an atmosphere. (6) Impetuousness: The impa tient person, who rushes head long where angels fear to tread, may be a romantic lover but a wasljput as a marriage partner. A good marriage demands sta bility, thought, and patience. Year's Activities Drawing , to Close For Youth Counc i I ... " f The YMCA Youth council is drawing its school-year activi ties to a close this month. Two more dances have been planned before a new summer council is organized. ' There will be a dance for high school students with YMCA membership cards Saturday,' May 4 from 8:30 to 11:30 p.m. Admission is a dime. The last scheduled dance will be May 18, also for high-school students. Chairmen for these two dances are Misses Jacque Colton and Marilyn Anderson. The Youth council has been active this year in all kinds of projects. With profits from dances and game nights the council purchased a television set, a forty-cup automatic perco lator and a Youth council gavel for the YMCA. In conjunction with the Senior Tri-Hi-Y club, Delta Omega-.he organization donated nearly $75 to the Unit ed Medford Crusade. A meeting of all interested teen-agers is planned for May 15, at 7:30 p.m. to form a sum mer Youth council. There will be no dances at the Y this sum mer unless there is a large turnout. Officers will.be elected for the summer session." , Mrs. Nina Chandler $ Electa Club Hostess Electa Social club held last meeting at the home of Mrs. Nina Chandler. 532 Plum street Dessert was followed by a. busi ness meeting and cards. Mrs. F. B. Root presided. Next meeting will be at the home of Mrs. F. J. "Clifford, 1211 West Main street. May 24. The committee will be Mrs. D. C. Goodman, Mrs. W. O. Hughes and Mrs. C. W. Lovell. see yo-u. letter '.Tiwtto'd !u- luggage around the whole wide world ... and just as covered in fashionable Koroseal that you can pack more! Case for case, ounce for ounce, weighs less . -cm pvn WEEKENDER, 21. ..20.00 JULIET COSMETIC CASE... 17.95 Use Our Lay-Away Plan for Graduation Gifts II your luggage needs Phone SP 2-4472 Friday, May 3, 1957 Officers Elected By Garden Club Jacksonville Jacksonville Garden club has elected new officers, with Miss Claire Han ley to serve as president the coming year. Miss Hanley is a past president of the Oregon Federation of Garden clubs. Other newly elected officers are Mrs. Harold Reid, first vice president; Mrs. Lee Stone, sec ond vice-president; Mrs. Wilma Krebs, . secretary; Mrs. Paul Godward, treasurer; Mrs. James Noble, historian and Mrs. Albert Burch, librarian. , At the last meeting of the club, held at the Community hall, the 18th anniversary of founding was celebrated. Mrs. Noble gave the history of the organization and Mrs. Albert Burch gave a reading, the "Story of. the Old Trees That Go." Delmar Smith of Central Point was guest speaker, talk-, ing- on primroses. He told ' of the various varieties, their cul ture and care. . Mrs. Leonard McKee talked on insects of the garden. Mrs. Harold Reid and Mrs. C. P. Smets reported on the planting of window boxes at Camp White. The women of the club tour ed the gardens of Mrs. E. B. Hanley and Mrs. Hanley Heffer nan on Ross lane to see the hundreds of Japanese flowering cherries and lilacs. The spring meeting of the Siskiyou district. Oregon . Fed eration of Garden clubs, will be held in Jacksonville Tues day, May 14, with the Jackson ville group as, hostess club. Luncheon will be served by women of the Presbyterian church and the Rebekah lodge. J . Mrs. Leonard McKee, Mrs. CI W. Culey and Mrs. George Mero took charge of the tea table. Mrs. Noble and Mrs. Krebs poured. 4 Women's League To Hear Professor Dr. Charles P. Schleicher, pro fessor of political science at the University . of Oregon, will be the guest speaker at the annual meeting of the Medford League of Women Voters Saturday at 12 noon in the Jackson hotel Pioneer room. Members of the Oregon United Nations associa tion here for the OUNA state convention will also attend the luncheon to hear Dr. Schleicher speak. Dr. Schleicher recently return ed from a year in India where he was a Fulbright professor at Allahabad university. He also spent a year with the U.S. State Department and is author of the college text book, "Introduction to International Relations." He is on the executive com mittee of the Oregon Association of United Nations and will take part in the group's convention. The public is invited to at tend the luncheon meeting. Res ervations should be made in ad vance, however, according to Mrs. Robert Hiatt, league presi dent. Eagle Point HEC Meets at Clymers ' Eagle Point Eagle Point Home Economics club met April ! 24 at the home of Mrs. Glen Clymer, with Mrs. Arthur Kent and Mrs. Calvin Lusk as, co hostesses. It was announced that the dis play table at a meeting of Eagle Point Grange May 7 would be articles in remembrance of mother, and all members at tending are asked to take some thing for the table. ' The club will hold a rum mage sale May 18 in the Fehl building in Medford. Members are reminded to take their rum mage to the Grange hall by May 16, as that day has been desig nated as a work day. Clothes will be pressed and articles priced; members are asked to arrive early and take a sack lunch. Mrs. Lester Wertz led the group in singing, Mrs. Lottie Van Scoy read a poem "Start the Day Right" and Mrs. Roy Stanley read "The Legend of the Dogwood." - The program closed with a game. More Milk Needed By 1975, ther will be 38 mit lion more people in the United States alone. At present rates of milk consumption, this means that dairy farmers will have to either add an additional 6-mil-lion dairy cattle to their herds or will have to increase the per cow production by. 1323 pounds per year. Permanents $595 Haircuts $f00 up CRATERIAN Beauty Salon 41 S. Central Ph. SP 2-4830 High Fashion Houses Closing By BARBARA MILLER United Press Correspondent Paris U.R The closing of the Jacques Fath dressmaking establishment once the second largest in France brings the death toll of big-name fashion houses in Paris to an even dozen since the end of World War II. Even the most optimistic cou turiers are' wondering how long they will last. But all are confident that Par is will continue as the fashion center of the world. Dressmaker Pierre Cardin, 32, recently nominated by Christian Dior as most - likely-to-succeed, sees the future this way: "In five years', the haute cou ture industry will become an ex perimental laboratory for the ready-to-wear manufacturers." Cardin also predicted that only 5 of the present top 10 de signers will survive the interven ing years. , Lab" for Dior Fashion -dictator Dior, himself has gone so far as to say that the "haute couture" has already be come a "lab," although private customers account for some 60 per cent of his business. But he says he nets only $30 on a custom-made dress even though the. client paid $400. The difference goes for taxes, overhead, and hours of handsew ing on his creations. Dior esti mates that one machine serves 30 seamstresses in his work rooms. The couture industry's semi annual sales to wholesale manu facturers and store buyers bring in most of the revenue. Both leave large deposits or "caution money" before even catching a glimpse of a new line. They pay anywhere from $500 to $3,500 for their purchases. .The most famous houses also depend for revenue on foreign sales of everything from per fume and stockings to ties and corsets. ; Only Pierre Balmain has been able to remain "above" such dealings. He has the largest private clientele in Paris, and counts actresses Vivian Leigh and Marlene Dietrich among his faithful customers. Despite the disparity in profit between private and wholesale purchases, the ; fashion world hates to see the end of the cus tom order clientele whose dimin ishing incomes no longer can afford such high-priced ward robes. Haute couture dates to the days of Queen Marie Antoinette. Famous designers before World War II included Moly neux, Lelong, Schiaparelli, Cha nel, Piguet and Patou, who ca tered almost exclusively to in dividual customers. Each high society matron had her favorite designer, whose "look" was as obvious as if it were a label worn outside. But today's big-name design ers, all promote a somewhat simi lar ."look" an economic ne cessity dictated by the whole sale buyers but mourned by the couturiers themselves. "All these big gold-and-white salons will disappear and rela tively simple shops will take their place," Cardin predicted. "Today's dressmaker has to spend a fortune on upkeep and personnel to fill his enormous establishment. With private cus tomers fading out of the picture, the trimmings will no longer be necessary." This season, successful new comer Guy Laroche suited his actions to these words by hang ing cheap mattress ticking cur tains in the windows of his small narrow shop. ; WARD WEEK ENDS Monday SATURDAY ONLY 9:30 to 5 Sort 3.10 on 27.98 kit 2488 Contain all the tools and materia! you need to tile in the standard 5-ft. recessed bathtub area. Do it yourself. Girl Scouts Give Party A party for mothers was held April 29 by Troop 163 of the sixth grade, Roosevelt Annex, at the home of Mrs. Ed Barnett to aid the Juliette Low Friendship Fund. As the mothers arrived one of the Scouts measured their waists and each one paid a penny for each inch of her waist meas ure. The friendship fund pro vides an exchange program to bring Rangers and Senior Girl Scouts from all over the world to live, for a while, in the United States; and United States Senior Scouts have the same chance to live for a time in other coun tries. The exchange of camp counselors and trainers between countries has also become an important ' activity of the fund. Not too" long ago the Rogue Val ley" "area had as exchange coun selor, Miss Trinidad Sales, "of the Philippines. ""-"- -' Mrs. J. F. Fliegel, guest speak er, talked on. "How the school system works, cost of running it, and how it is used outside of classtime." Members of the troop reviewed the requirements com pleted by them to earn the var ious badges during the year. The troop has earned the ceramics, child care, homemaker, cook, my troop, cat and dog, garden flower, hospitality, and my com munity, in working toward the first class rank. Ten badges must be earned for first class rank, with five earned in one field." The troop has thirteen mem bers and is led by Mrs. Glen Bessonette and Mrs- Herman Ek erson. There was 100 per cent attendance by the mothers. The girls had sent out formal invita tions as part of the hospitality badge work. The refreshments were made and served by the girls. : . The troop will take part in the Roosevelt court-of-awards which will be Wednesday, May 22, at 7:30 p.m. in the Roosevelt audi torium. Members of Troop 77, fifth grade of Lincoln school, took a hike last Saturday to .complete .the put of doors and nature re quirements for 'the second class rank, the twenty-four girls tak ing the hike were accompanied by Mrs. Eugene Spencer, Mrs. William Johnson" and Mrs. Eric de Place. Three others, Mrs. Mar vin Heidemann, Mrs. William Lockington and Mrs. Don Poling, met the group .when they ' ar rived at the Medford day. camp site on Bear Creek south of town. The hike started at Lincoln school, about 9 a.m. and the girls were picked up by the par ents about 3:30 p.m. at the camp site. On the way to the campsite the girls, identified trees and garden flowers to "complete "the nature requirement."- Arriving at the site the troop, made "up of three patrols, -made sit-upons from newspapers; and then each patrol cooked a one-pot meal for lunch. Patrol leaders are Nancy Lee Atwood, Judy Chastain and Pat ty Fagone.-The troop members were instructed in" the use of the axe, and in building firs. Four members of the troop were un able to go. Happy Harvesters Announce Dane Central Point Happy har vesters square dance group will meet Saturday at 8 p.m. at the American Legion- hall. Potluck refreshments will- be served. Caller will be Paul Larsen and music will be live. One quart of milk supplies the following daily r e q uirements: 100 of the calcium; 35 of the protein, 55 of the phosphorus .and 4tO of the! B vitamins. during tMs tlemosirtrtrtion! Gardeners Plan Exhibit, Program For Show 5unday Phoenix The Phoenix' Gar den club flower show Sunday May 5 at the Community Hall in Phoenix will have as a spec ial feature a bird exhibit by Carl Richardson of Trail. Show hours are 1 to 8 p.m. In the fireplace room at the hall will also be a series of spec ial project exhibits. The after noon program at 3 p.m. will fea ture students from the Phoenix schools in vocal and instrumen tal numbers and pupils from Miss Pat's Dance studio will ap pear in several numbers. - A plant sale will be held at the beginning of the show and will continue until the plants are gone. A silver tea and cookie sale will also be held in connec tion with the show; . - - : . . . .. Diana Dors, Husband Announce Separation London U jJ Film blonde Diana Dors and her husbapd, Dennis Hamilton. - have - sra- rated, the London, Daily Mirror saia xoaay. The Mirror quoted Diana as saying "it could be that our present break-up is a sequel to our differences in Hollywood." Diana and her husband have not been home long from the film capital where they made headlines by throwing a. "party which highlighted a fight after she got pushed into a swiinming said Thursday. . Diana denied their bust-up Wood picker Pet Picks up bars d'ocuvrc picks, matches or" tooth picks. Press his brad, up comes pick. . II West Bend Aluminum CAKE PAN Trusty Crusty ' Make pie crust in perfect circle. Drop in-the dough. Zip plastic pie crust maker closed. A few rolls and you have your crust. 9 to 91 SI t ATI West Pastry Cloth Qaeeo-size doth plus rolline tin covep fits any pin up to 2'j" di Flakier pastry! $1.00. Sturdy, beech rolling pic $.7S. - w WEST BEND Aluminum LOAF PAN 44 SOUTH. CENTRAL J-y. ' 1 ' GRANDVIEW-LONE PINIT Former Principal Visits By LILLIAN KNIGHT Grandview-Lone Pine Hen ry Kammann. former principal of the Lone Pine school, visited Lee Merriman, the teachers, and various classrooms April 16. He was on his spring vacation from the Noche Bueno school in Mon terey, Calif., where he is princi pal this year. Mrs. Kammann and their two children came with him and they visited her brother and his fam ily who are living in the Kam mann home on Dark Hollowrd. and with friends in Medford and Ashland. - Mr. and Mrs. Zerald Lsurine have named their new daugher Peggy Sail. She was born April 20 and she and her mother came" home fr6m the hospital -' ;last Thursday. ,.."," Mr. and Mrs. Alfred Offord are the parents of a boy born April 24. He has been named Richard Ray. Ray Hilton, who was injured last, month when his, car went into the Rogue river at -Foots creek," is still receiving ' treat ment for his eye. - - The William Leever family spent the week end at their cab in on the Rogue river near. Mc Leod. They were joined by friends and later -when the chil dren were fishing, Billy Heyer- was due to her friendship with husky British actor . Tom Yeardye. 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