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Boulevard. Los Angeles 27. California,
Pertonal Trait ; Which .
Ruin Marriage
In the past quarter ceniury,
thousands of people have
bright their marital difficul
ties to Dr. Paul Popenoe, well
known biologist, counselor, au
thor, and director of the Ameri
can Institute of Family Rela
tions. Frequently their prob
lems were rooted in personality
traits which masqueraded as
sex incompatibility, in-law trou
bles, financial disagreements, or
religious differences. Counseling
revealed repeatedly that many
problems lay not in the reasons
the couples gave, but rather in
feelings and attitudes which hid
deep within and of which the
individuals often were not con
scious. . '. ' ' " ;
Dr. Roswell Johnson, director
of the Department of Counsel
ing, former president of the
American Eugenic society; and
author of "Looking Toward Mar
riage," suggests that some half
dozen qualities are responsible
for the 'majority of marital
break-ups.
(1) . Selfishness; -,.The couple
who ask ot'their every relation
ship, "What do I get out of it?"
are the ones -who . are often
most surprised when selfishness
kills their marriage. Love can
not live with egocentricity.
(2) Hostility and lack of sym
pathy: Couples sometimes sup
press their feelings to conceal
hostility. - Suppressed hostility,
coupled, with, lack of sympathy,
may indeed be' dynamite! .
(3) Suspicion: A marriage, rid
den by suspicion or continuous
questioning reveals lack of unity
and is headed, sooner or later,
for open difficulty. Love can
not flourish under habitual
doubt, i no ' matter, , how ... well
hidden.'' ' i .-." -... ...'i.
(4) InTaTlibility: Theman or
woman who is always "right,"
who is unable to shoulder blame
or responsibility, is the one
whose marriage may be love
less barren. The inseourity of
infallibility must be replaced by
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Friday:
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Teenage club, Parrish .hall,
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Saturday!
12 noon League of Women
Voters, Jackson hotel, Pioneer
room.
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both inside and outside mar
riage? (5) Stinginess: Egocentricity,
the core of stinginess, is small
degree to every personality, but
in exaggerated amount, it can
wreck a relationship. Subcon
sciously the miser of material
possessions may become the
miser of love. He wants the
most, but is willing to give the
least: no marriage can flourish
in such an atmosphere.
(6) Impetuousness: The impa
tient person, who rushes head
long where angels fear to tread,
may be a romantic lover but a
wasljput as a marriage partner.
A good marriage demands sta
bility, thought, and patience.
Year's Activities
Drawing , to Close
For Youth Counc i I ... " f
The YMCA Youth council is
drawing its school-year activi
ties to a close this month. Two
more dances have been planned
before a new summer council
is organized. '
There will be a dance for
high school students with YMCA
membership cards Saturday,'
May 4 from 8:30 to 11:30 p.m.
Admission is a dime. The last
scheduled dance will be May
18, also for high-school students.
Chairmen for these two dances
are Misses Jacque Colton and
Marilyn Anderson.
The Youth council has been
active this year in all kinds of
projects. With profits from
dances and game nights the
council purchased a television
set, a forty-cup automatic perco
lator and a Youth council gavel
for the YMCA. In conjunction
with the Senior Tri-Hi-Y club,
Delta Omega-.he organization
donated nearly $75 to the Unit
ed Medford Crusade.
A meeting of all interested
teen-agers is planned for May
15, at 7:30 p.m. to form a sum
mer Youth council. There will
be no dances at the Y this sum
mer unless there is a large
turnout. Officers will.be elected
for the summer session." ,
Mrs. Nina Chandler $
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Electa Social club held last
meeting at the home of Mrs.
Nina Chandler. 532 Plum street
Dessert was followed by a. busi
ness meeting and cards. Mrs.
F. B. Root presided.
Next meeting will be at the
home of Mrs. F. J. "Clifford,
1211 West Main street. May 24.
The committee will be Mrs. D. C.
Goodman, Mrs. W. O. Hughes
and Mrs. C. W. Lovell.
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Friday, May 3, 1957
Officers Elected
By Garden Club
Jacksonville Jacksonville
Garden club has elected new
officers, with Miss Claire Han
ley to serve as president the
coming year. Miss Hanley is
a past president of the Oregon
Federation of Garden clubs.
Other newly elected officers
are Mrs. Harold Reid, first vice
president; Mrs. Lee Stone, sec
ond vice-president; Mrs. Wilma
Krebs, . secretary; Mrs. Paul
Godward, treasurer; Mrs. James
Noble, historian and Mrs. Albert
Burch, librarian. ,
At the last meeting of the
club, held at the Community
hall, the 18th anniversary of
founding was celebrated. Mrs.
Noble gave the history of the
organization and Mrs. Albert
Burch gave a reading, the
"Story of. the Old Trees That
Go."
Delmar Smith of Central
Point was guest speaker, talk-,
ing- on primroses. He told ' of
the various varieties, their cul
ture and care.
. Mrs. Leonard McKee talked
on insects of the garden.
Mrs. Harold Reid and Mrs.
C. P. Smets reported on the
planting of window boxes at
Camp White.
The women of the club tour
ed the gardens of Mrs. E. B.
Hanley and Mrs. Hanley Heffer
nan on Ross lane to see the
hundreds of Japanese flowering
cherries and lilacs.
The spring meeting of the
Siskiyou district. Oregon . Fed
eration of Garden clubs, will
be held in Jacksonville Tues
day, May 14, with the Jackson
ville group as, hostess club.
Luncheon will be served by
women of the Presbyterian
church and the Rebekah lodge.
J . Mrs. Leonard McKee, Mrs.
CI W. Culey and Mrs. George
Mero took charge of the tea
table. Mrs. Noble and Mrs.
Krebs poured.
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Women's League
To Hear Professor
Dr. Charles P. Schleicher, pro
fessor of political science at the
University . of Oregon, will be
the guest speaker at the annual
meeting of the Medford League
of Women Voters Saturday at
12 noon in the Jackson hotel
Pioneer room. Members of the
Oregon United Nations associa
tion here for the OUNA state
convention will also attend the
luncheon to hear Dr. Schleicher
speak.
Dr. Schleicher recently return
ed from a year in India where
he was a Fulbright professor
at Allahabad university. He also
spent a year with the U.S. State
Department and is author of the
college text book, "Introduction
to International Relations."
He is on the executive com
mittee of the Oregon Association
of United Nations and will take
part in the group's convention.
The public is invited to at
tend the luncheon meeting. Res
ervations should be made in ad
vance, however, according to
Mrs. Robert Hiatt, league presi
dent. Eagle Point HEC
Meets at Clymers
' Eagle Point Eagle Point
Home Economics club met April
! 24 at the home of Mrs. Glen
Clymer, with Mrs. Arthur Kent
and Mrs. Calvin Lusk as, co
hostesses. It was announced that the dis
play table at a meeting of Eagle
Point Grange May 7 would be
articles in remembrance of
mother, and all members at
tending are asked to take some
thing for the table. '
The club will hold a rum
mage sale May 18 in the Fehl
building in Medford. Members
are reminded to take their rum
mage to the Grange hall by May
16, as that day has been desig
nated as a work day. Clothes
will be pressed and articles
priced; members are asked to
arrive early and take a sack
lunch.
Mrs. Lester Wertz led the
group in singing, Mrs. Lottie
Van Scoy read a poem "Start
the Day Right" and Mrs. Roy
Stanley read "The Legend of
the Dogwood." - The program
closed with a game.
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By 1975, ther will be 38 mit
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States alone. At present rates of
milk consumption, this means
that dairy farmers will have to
either add an additional 6-mil-lion
dairy cattle to their herds
or will have to increase the per
cow production by. 1323 pounds
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High Fashion
Houses Closing
By BARBARA MILLER
United Press Correspondent
Paris U.R The closing
of the Jacques Fath dressmaking
establishment once the second
largest in France brings the
death toll of big-name fashion
houses in Paris to an even dozen
since the end of World War II.
Even the most optimistic cou
turiers are' wondering how long
they will last.
But all are confident that Par
is will continue as the fashion
center of the world.
Dressmaker Pierre Cardin, 32,
recently nominated by Christian
Dior as most - likely-to-succeed,
sees the future this way:
"In five years', the haute cou
ture industry will become an ex
perimental laboratory for the
ready-to-wear manufacturers."
Cardin also predicted that
only 5 of the present top 10 de
signers will survive the interven
ing years. ,
Lab" for Dior
Fashion -dictator Dior, himself
has gone so far as to say that the
"haute couture" has already be
come a "lab," although private
customers account for some 60
per cent of his business.
But he says he nets only $30
on a custom-made dress even
though the. client paid $400.
The difference goes for taxes,
overhead, and hours of handsew
ing on his creations. Dior esti
mates that one machine serves
30 seamstresses in his work
rooms. The couture industry's semi
annual sales to wholesale manu
facturers and store buyers bring
in most of the revenue. Both
leave large deposits or "caution
money" before even catching a
glimpse of a new line. They pay
anywhere from $500 to $3,500
for their purchases.
.The most famous houses also
depend for revenue on foreign
sales of everything from per
fume and stockings to ties and
corsets. ;
Only Pierre Balmain has been
able to remain "above" such
dealings. He has the largest
private clientele in Paris, and
counts actresses Vivian Leigh
and Marlene Dietrich among his
faithful customers.
Despite the disparity in profit
between private and wholesale
purchases, the ; fashion world
hates to see the end of the cus
tom order clientele whose dimin
ishing incomes no longer can
afford such high-priced ward
robes. Haute couture dates to the
days of Queen Marie Antoinette.
Famous designers before
World War II included Moly
neux, Lelong, Schiaparelli, Cha
nel, Piguet and Patou, who ca
tered almost exclusively to in
dividual customers. Each high
society matron had her favorite
designer, whose "look" was as
obvious as if it were a label
worn outside.
But today's big-name design
ers, all promote a somewhat simi
lar ."look" an economic ne
cessity dictated by the whole
sale buyers but mourned by the
couturiers themselves.
"All these big gold-and-white
salons will disappear and rela
tively simple shops will take
their place," Cardin predicted.
"Today's dressmaker has to
spend a fortune on upkeep and
personnel to fill his enormous
establishment. With private cus
tomers fading out of the picture,
the trimmings will no longer be
necessary."
This season, successful new
comer Guy Laroche suited his
actions to these words by hang
ing cheap mattress ticking cur
tains in the windows of his
small narrow shop. ;
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Girl Scouts
Give Party
A party for mothers was held
April 29 by Troop 163 of the
sixth grade, Roosevelt Annex, at
the home of Mrs. Ed Barnett to
aid the Juliette Low Friendship
Fund. As the mothers arrived
one of the Scouts measured their
waists and each one paid a penny
for each inch of her waist meas
ure. The friendship fund pro
vides an exchange program to
bring Rangers and Senior Girl
Scouts from all over the world
to live, for a while, in the United
States; and United States Senior
Scouts have the same chance to
live for a time in other coun
tries. The exchange of camp
counselors and trainers between
countries has also become an
important ' activity of the fund.
Not too" long ago the Rogue Val
ley" "area had as exchange coun
selor, Miss Trinidad Sales, "of
the Philippines. ""-"- -'
Mrs. J. F. Fliegel, guest speak
er, talked on. "How the school
system works, cost of running it,
and how it is used outside of
classtime." Members of the troop
reviewed the requirements com
pleted by them to earn the var
ious badges during the year. The
troop has earned the ceramics,
child care, homemaker, cook,
my troop, cat and dog, garden
flower, hospitality, and my com
munity, in working toward the
first class rank. Ten badges must
be earned for first class rank,
with five earned in one field."
The troop has thirteen mem
bers and is led by Mrs. Glen
Bessonette and Mrs- Herman Ek
erson. There was 100 per cent
attendance by the mothers. The
girls had sent out formal invita
tions as part of the hospitality
badge work. The refreshments
were made and served by the
girls. : .
The troop will take part in the
Roosevelt court-of-awards which
will be Wednesday, May 22, at
7:30 p.m. in the Roosevelt audi
torium. Members of Troop 77, fifth
grade of Lincoln school, took a
hike last Saturday to .complete
.the put of doors and nature re
quirements for 'the second class
rank, the twenty-four girls tak
ing the hike were accompanied
by Mrs. Eugene Spencer, Mrs.
William Johnson" and Mrs. Eric
de Place. Three others, Mrs. Mar
vin Heidemann, Mrs. William
Lockington and Mrs. Don Poling,
met the group .when they ' ar
rived at the Medford day. camp
site on Bear Creek south of town.
The hike started at Lincoln
school, about 9 a.m. and the
girls were picked up by the par
ents about 3:30 p.m. at the camp
site.
On the way to the campsite
the girls, identified trees and
garden flowers to "complete "the
nature requirement."- Arriving at
the site the troop, made "up of
three patrols, -made sit-upons
from newspapers; and then each
patrol cooked a one-pot meal for
lunch.
Patrol leaders are Nancy Lee
Atwood, Judy Chastain and Pat
ty Fagone.-The troop members
were instructed in" the use of the
axe, and in building firs. Four
members of the troop were un
able to go.
Happy Harvesters
Announce Dane
Central Point Happy har
vesters square dance group will
meet Saturday at 8 p.m. at the
American Legion- hall. Potluck
refreshments will- be served.
Caller will be Paul Larsen and
music will be live.
One quart of milk supplies the
following daily r e q uirements:
100 of the calcium; 35 of the
protein, 55 of the phosphorus
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Gardeners Plan
Exhibit, Program
For Show 5unday
Phoenix The Phoenix' Gar
den club flower show Sunday
May 5 at the Community Hall
in Phoenix will have as a spec
ial feature a bird exhibit by
Carl Richardson of Trail. Show
hours are 1 to 8 p.m.
In the fireplace room at the
hall will also be a series of spec
ial project exhibits. The after
noon program at 3 p.m. will fea
ture students from the Phoenix
schools in vocal and instrumen
tal numbers and pupils from
Miss Pat's Dance studio will ap
pear in several numbers. -
A plant sale will be held at
the beginning of the show and
will continue until the plants
are gone. A silver tea and cookie
sale will also be held in connec
tion with the show; .
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Diana Dors, Husband
Announce Separation
London U jJ Film blonde
Diana Dors and her husbapd,
Dennis Hamilton. - have - sra-
rated, the London, Daily Mirror
saia xoaay.
The Mirror quoted Diana as
saying "it could be that our
present break-up is a sequel to
our differences in Hollywood."
Diana and her husband have
not been home long from the
film capital where they made
headlines by throwing a. "party
which highlighted a fight after
she got pushed into a swiinming
said Thursday. .
Diana denied their bust-up
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Former Principal Visits
By LILLIAN KNIGHT
Grandview-Lone Pine Hen
ry Kammann. former principal
of the Lone Pine school, visited
Lee Merriman, the teachers, and
various classrooms April 16. He
was on his spring vacation from
the Noche Bueno school in Mon
terey, Calif., where he is princi
pal this year.
Mrs. Kammann and their two
children came with him and they
visited her brother and his fam
ily who are living in the Kam
mann home on Dark Hollowrd.
and with friends in Medford and
Ashland. -
Mr. and Mrs. Zerald Lsurine
have named their new daugher
Peggy Sail. She was born April
20 and she and her mother came"
home fr6m the hospital -' ;last
Thursday. ,..","
Mr. and Mrs. Alfred Offord
are the parents of a boy born
April 24. He has been named
Richard Ray.
Ray Hilton, who was injured
last, month when his, car went
into the Rogue river at -Foots
creek," is still receiving ' treat
ment for his eye. - -
The William Leever family
spent the week end at their cab
in on the Rogue river near. Mc
Leod. They were joined by
friends and later -when the chil
dren were fishing, Billy Heyer-
was due to her friendship with
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