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Teen-age Tyranny Not A New Thing By ANN LANDERS Dear Ann Landers: I wonder how many mothers are in the same boat. I have knocked mv- sen out tor 15 years trying to please my chil dren. But no matter what I I do, it's never enough. There must be a sign Ion my back say ing, "kick me." I get up at 6:30 every morn ing to prepare breakfast for my r i I On Brdge Jacoby north 2 A J1007 A8652 K K.76 ' WEST EAST AKQ 4 8 653 VJ73 VKQ10 48632 J7 J985 AQ104 sorrH (d A A42 V 94 AQ1094.3 32 East and West vulnerable. North and South 40 on. score South West North East 3 Pass Pass Pass Opening lead A K I Defense Can Count Hand By OSWALD JACOBY Newspaper Enterprise Assn. It is much more difficult for a defender to count a hand than for declarer, but a good defensive player should be able to do so if he will just take time to see why declarer makes certain plays. South's three-diamond opening was due to the score situation. He didn't think his opponents would be able to compete against him and he decided to gamble that diamonds would be the spot to play the hand. He won the first trick with the ace of spades and led a trump to dummy's king. Then he played the ace and another heart and East was in the lead. So far East had no problems. He put his partner in with a spade and West led the jack of dubs. Dummy's king lost to East's ace and at this point it was up to East to reconstruct the hand ami declarer's play had given him all the clues necessary. Declarer surely held the ace of diamonds and if his suit were sev en cards in length there would be little hope of beating him. So East decided to play declarer for six trumps only. What was his spade holding'.' Could it be a singleton? No! If it were, declarer would have re turned to his hand by ruffing a spade. Could it be a doubleton thousand times no! Declarer would have tried to set up a spade for a discard. Hence. West had opened a dnu blelon spade. East led a spade for his partner to ruff, won the next club lead and led his last spade. This would have built up another trick tor the delense il West had held the trump ten. hut as it was, down one was perject ly satisfactory. l.parn In count cards defensively with tips found in Jacoby's new fij-nane hnnlc "Win at Rridce." lust send your name, address, and 30 cents to: Oswald .Jacoby Heart er Service, c-o this newsnauer P.O. Box 489. Dept. A. Radio City station. -ew lorn r.i, Q The bidding has been: East South West North 1 Double Pass 2 Pass 2 A Pass 3 A Pass 3 Pass 4 A Pass S A Pass 6 A Pa ? You, South, hold: AAQ81 VAK65 A3 10852 What do you do?- A Bid six spades. Your part ner Is trying to ret to seven, but he gave you a chance tt quit at four spades earlier so his hand il limited. TODAY'S QUESTION Again you double one dia mond. This time West bids one no-trump and North and East pass. What do you do now? Answer Tomorrow Here's Where You Con Get The Money-Soving Homeowners Policy jjfl See ffvfift Friendly f W Bill 1 W MeKibbin teen-agers. All I get is com- DKl you leave it out all nicht? The cantaloupe is soggy. The ce real is runny. Tne eggs arc too nara. When I leave a meeting early lo pick them up at the club (for the 50th time this summer ) I get a sour look and a "Where have you been anyway? We've been waiting five minutes." How did the children of todav get the upper hand? My teen agers make me feel like an em ploye. 1 find mvself always striv ing to please and never quite making the grade. Please tell me where I got off the track. MOTHER, 19H3 MODEL Dear Mother: Children are not horn with "the upier hand." It is given to them given bv par ents who dim t have the courage 10 esiannsli the rules for the family. This is called discipline. And when rules of behavior arc worked out equitably and sea soned with love, discipline pro duces respectful, well-adjusted children. Teen-age tyranny is not new, but it is vastly more prevalent than il used to be. This is what Henry James wrote 81 years ago in "Point of View:" "There is nothing in America but young people. The country is made for the rising genera tion; life is arranged for them; they are the destruction of soci ety. People talk of them, consid er them, defer to them, b o w down Vi them. They are always present, and whenever Ihev are present there is an end lo every thing else. And by children, I don't mean simple infants; I mean anything less than 20." Dear Ann Landers: My hus band's boss is a man in his laic 40s. He has an oily, egotistical manner which offends me. This man has a wife and three children, but you'd never know it the way he carries on. His cur rent romance is a shapely red head who works in the enst-ac-counting department and who is at least 20 years younger than he is. She drives his car all over town and she's been wearing some mighty expensive clothes lately. The problem is this: My hus band has been staying downtown about three evenings a week having dinner with this couple. I don t like it and have said so. My husband says the boss is three times seven and what he does is his own business. 1 say birds of a feather flock together and 1 don't want anyone to get funny ideas about my husband. Who is right.? MRS. WHY" IN VITE GOSSIP? Dear Mrs. Why: When your husband pals around with this pair he gives tacit approval to Former Sergeant Finds Life In Communist China Too Tough HONG KONG (VVV - A for mer U.S. Army sergeant who spent 10 years in Communist Community Calendar TUESDAY WOTM. Merrill Chapter 18. 8 p.m.. chapter night, publicity committee program, Merrill Rec reation Hail. WOTM. 8 p.m.. chapter night and enrollment, Moose Home. Wear formats. AMERICAN LEGION ACX. No. 8, 8 p.m., business meeting, Legion Hall. Bring cookies. WEDNESDAY . MARINE CORPS LEAGL'E, 8 p.m., meeting, election, VFW Hall. PLAYERS CLCB, 8 p.m.. meet ing, American Legion Hall, ZL'LEI.MA NILE CLl'B, 1 p.m., luncheon meeting. Winema Hotel. Millinery style show. DEGREE OF HONOR, Carna tion Club, 7:30 p.m., meeting. Unite Mays, 5206 Bryant St. MIDLAND.' GRANGE, 8 p.m.. meeting. Grange Hall. the whole shoddv business, . A married man should be at hpme having dinner with his family not acting as a cover for phil andering friends. Dear Ann Landers: I was mar ried for one year and recently had the marriage annulled legal ly and in my church as well. How do 1 go about announcing the news? Shall 1 see if I can have it published in the newspaper Shall I send out engraved an nouncements in mail? Is it proper to keep the name Mrs. John Doe? Or shall I go back to Miss Mary Smith? I have a child. Please advise me. None of my friends knows the answers. -LOAD OFF MY SHOULDERS Dear Load: You do not an nounce an annulment. Your family and friends will get the word soon enough, If they don't already knpw. Since -you have a child you should not be "Miss" anybody. You could make. It Mrs. Mary Doe, however. Then if John re marries you won't be gelling his wife's telephone calls and her de partment store hills. China "looking for Utopia" said Saturday he had gone hungry so his children could eat meat and had watched friends being taken to prison for criticizing the regime. Albert C. Bclhomme, a Belgian citizen who married a Chinese woman and now has three chil dren, returned from China Fri day. He said he left so his chil dren could have a belter future. The 34 - year - old Belhomme. whose mother lives in Ashland. Pa., showed by his description of life in China that even favored foreigners find it hard to get by on their higher rations and pay. "I was looking for Utopia," he told a news conference. "And it isn't to be found. I think I've stopped looking now." Belhomme. who plans to return to Belgium with his family, was the second American soldier lo leave China this month. Lowe!! D. Skinner of Akron. Ohio, reached Hong Kong Aug, 1 and now is in the United States. Belhomme said he retuseu re patriation at the end of the Ko rean War. along with 20 other U. S. soldiers, because he was looking for "a better society bet ter conditions than I'd experi enced in the past." He said the brainwashing ha re ceived as a prisoner did not in fluence him much. "It was mainly my own rj'iest for a better life, and a to'ioh of adventurism," he said. Although Bclhomme's des-'ip-tion of life in China was grim, he said "I think it was worth while. Although 1 saw hard times, 1 found my wife there." The news conference was lie d in the luxurious new Hilton Hotel here and Belhomme contrasted his surroundings with those in China. "You have a different type of life there definitely not what it is here." He gave tliese examples of life in China: . Although he made about four times the pay of the average Chinese worker, he had to hungry so his three sons, who range in age from one to six could have meat. Reds Suspected Him Friends and neighbors were taken to prison and concentration camps for criticizing the Peking regime, and he himself was -...cused of being a counter- ! revolutionary who retained capi talist ideas. FRIENDLY HELPFULNESS To Every Creed and Purse WARD'S Klamath Funeral Home Marguerite Ward and Sons 92S High Ph. TU 2-4404 He was forced to go on strike i for more .than nine months in the Tsinan paper mill, where he worked as an electrician, in order lo get an "attendance bonus" that amounted to a 75 per cent raise. Since the Chinese "great leap forward" campaign, living condi tions have been especially bad. with improvements in the past year slill falling short of 1957 of their troubles on Russia's fail levels, ure to live l.p to contracts and Chinese officials blame many sending poor goods to China. 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