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THUHoDAY, JULY 12. 1962 Mtuf ORD MAIL lhiuoNt. M&DFORD, OREGON MEDFORD MAIL TRIBUNE. MEDFORD. OREGON THURSDAY. JULY 12. 1962 B 5 Family Council Cditor'i nnic: Tha r a m 1 1 y Counrll cotlktitt of a Judge, a piychiatrut, thrti rlrriymen. fhrft edttori and a women'i editor. Kirh article la a summary of a family ditarrermenl preaented to the Counrll. The council dcala with problemi, major and minor, encountered by guidance coun selor and anclal workers. Kdlted hv Mra. Alma Ilenny. tcopyrifht by General Feature! Corp.) Mr. D. W. - There's no need for him to pick a college 3,000 miles away. Stuart W. - It's the only way I'll get a chance to stand on my feet. e Mr. D. W. - Back in 1944 all our children perished Europe under Hitler. With our whole family wiped out, my wife and I succeeded in reach' ing this country in 1945 thanks to a series of miracles, friends and rescue organiza tions. Stuart, our only re- maining child, was born on these shores shortly after our arrival. He'll be graduating from high school next year and has his heart set on attending college Just as far from home as he can get. This puts fright into our hearts at being separated from him for long periods. It isn't as if he can't get the right courses near home. There are plenty of good colleges around our city We're pleading with him to apply to one that's nearby e Stuart W. - My parents have guarded me, shielded me and coddled me so much that I'm a laughing stock among my friends. They've been able to go to camp in the summer, but year after year, I've had to go wherever my parents go. This includes two weeks at a boarding house In the mountains during my dad's vacation. We Join the others who escaped from Europe and they all remi nisce. I've always had to like their friends, but if they don't like mine I had to give them up. But college lies ahead and I've been counting on il for my big break, a chance to grow up. A college boy is supposed to be a man and the only way I can have some independence is through dis tance between my parents and me. I'll write, phone and visit. But I want to see how It feels to stand alone for a while. e e The Council) The usual answers won't do In dealing witn so unusual a situation Normally, of course, our plea to Mr. W. would be, "Let go, and our encouragement would be directed to Stuart in his birthright to be "free. mit Mr. and Mrs. W. arc heirs to a catastrophe Inflict ed by a madman. They were forced to do an Inhuman amount of "letting go." Their present clinging may be con sidered almost normal in view of what has gone before. So our answer here must be softened In order to fit this understandably hyst e r 1 c a I parent-child relationship. The question now facing Mr. W. is this. Do you regard Stuart as a human being or as a trophy, your "prize" from the struggles overseas? Thus far you've been treating him like a museum piece, some thing to be looked at, dis played, separated from (he give-and-take of everyday life. The truth Is, and you've been dreading to face It, that your son is an American high school boy looking forward, like millions of his peers, to plunging into the fray of the future and finding his place as an effective adult. In re fusing to let go once again, you are thinking too much of the past, too much of your selves, and tr little of rr'm. We mtis: point out to Stuart, however, that the special circumstances of his birth make it apparent that while he may eventually acnleve Independence of his parents, they'll probably nev er be Independent of him. He is a vital symbol in their lives - their link with history, their souvenir of what might have been. Once he grasps the concept of their bruised emotional stale, he'll be able to make decisions which are fair to himself and at the same time not too exacerbating to his parents. For one thing, he can make his friends stop laughing and start under standing. Inasmuch as Stuart Isn't planning to study orchid growing, which might necessi tate registration in Hawaii, we suggest he sign up in a college somewhere lietwcen the other end of the nation and around the corner from home. How about a campus, Stuart, where week end trips, either by you or your par ents, can bring you (ace to face occasionally? It's not only a humane compromise. Il saves letter writing. States tax collections ' tailed $1 billion in the IIIH1 fiscal year, an Increase of $1 billion over 11)60. ghti Vlf tf No Sales wfct-ii to Dealers Limit Reserved WORLD'S LARGEST STAMP REDEMPTION CENTER! HOURS: 8am,09 pm very PIRYf mum larts T m Everything Baked BAKERY Right in the Stora . , . Not Fresh Daily . . . Fresh Hourly HIE 1 O Choose. 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