THUHoDAY, JULY 12. 1962
Mtuf ORD MAIL lhiuoNt. M&DFORD, OREGON
MEDFORD MAIL TRIBUNE. MEDFORD. OREGON
THURSDAY. JULY 12. 1962
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Family
Council
Cditor'i nnic: Tha r a m 1 1 y
Counrll cotlktitt of a Judge, a
piychiatrut, thrti rlrriymen.
fhrft edttori and a women'i editor.
Kirh article la a summary of a
family ditarrermenl preaented to
the Counrll. The council dcala
with problemi, major and minor,
encountered by guidance coun
selor and anclal workers. Kdlted
hv Mra. Alma Ilenny. tcopyrifht
by General Feature! Corp.)
Mr. D. W. - There's no need
for him to pick a college 3,000
miles away.
Stuart W. - It's the only
way I'll get a chance to stand
on my feet.
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Mr. D. W. - Back in 1944
all our children perished
Europe under Hitler. With our
whole family wiped out, my
wife and I succeeded in reach'
ing this country in 1945
thanks to a series of miracles,
friends and rescue organiza
tions. Stuart, our only re-
maining child, was born on
these shores shortly after our
arrival.
He'll be graduating from
high school next year and has
his heart set on attending
college Just as far from home
as he can get. This puts
fright into our hearts at being
separated from him for long
periods. It isn't as if he can't
get the right courses near
home. There are plenty of
good colleges around our city
We're pleading with him to
apply to one that's nearby
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Stuart W. - My parents
have guarded me, shielded
me and coddled me so much
that I'm a laughing stock
among my friends. They've
been able to go to camp in
the summer, but year after
year, I've had to go wherever
my parents go. This includes
two weeks at a boarding house
In the mountains during my
dad's vacation. We Join the
others who escaped from
Europe and they all remi
nisce.
I've always had to like their
friends, but if they don't like
mine I had to give them up.
But college lies ahead and
I've been counting on il for
my big break, a chance to
grow up. A college boy is
supposed to be a man and the
only way I can have some
independence is through dis
tance between my parents
and me. I'll write, phone and
visit. But I want to see how
It feels to stand alone for a
while.
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The Council) The usual
answers won't do In dealing
witn so unusual a situation
Normally, of course, our plea
to Mr. W. would be, "Let go,
and our encouragement would
be directed to Stuart in
his birthright to be "free.
mit Mr. and Mrs. W. arc
heirs to a catastrophe Inflict
ed by a madman. They were
forced to do an Inhuman
amount of "letting go." Their
present clinging may be con
sidered almost normal in view
of what has gone before. So
our answer here must be
softened In order to fit this
understandably hyst e r 1 c a I
parent-child relationship.
The question now facing
Mr. W. is this. Do you regard
Stuart as a human being or
as a trophy, your "prize" from
the struggles overseas? Thus
far you've been treating him
like a museum piece, some
thing to be looked at, dis
played, separated from (he
give-and-take of everyday life.
The truth Is, and you've been
dreading to face It, that your
son is an American high
school boy looking forward,
like millions of his peers, to
plunging into the fray of the
future and finding his place
as an effective adult. In re
fusing to let go once again,
you are thinking too much
of the past, too much of your
selves, and tr little of rr'm.
We mtis: point out to
Stuart, however, that the
special circumstances of his
birth make it apparent that
while he may eventually
acnleve Independence of his
parents, they'll probably nev
er be Independent of him. He
is a vital symbol in their
lives - their link with history,
their souvenir of what might
have been. Once he grasps
the concept of their bruised
emotional stale, he'll be able
to make decisions which are
fair to himself and at the same
time not too exacerbating to
his parents. For one thing, he
can make his friends stop
laughing and start under
standing. Inasmuch as Stuart Isn't
planning to study orchid
growing, which might necessi
tate registration in Hawaii,
we suggest he sign up in a
college somewhere lietwcen
the other end of the nation
and around the corner from
home. How about a campus,
Stuart, where week end trips,
either by you or your par
ents, can bring you (ace to
face occasionally?
It's not only a humane
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