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MAIL TRIBUNE, Or. Mo4ay, Nov. 16. 1939 3 Family Council 3S VsTte""' yiV iKLi25 . Frank F. My wife won't apologize. t Sylvia F-I can't go on be ing a hypocrite. Fraak F-What is a man to do when he has a wife who is determined to speak her mind frankly to every one no matter whom she hurts? In a recent family argu ment my wife said, some harsh things to my sister-in-law. I think she was right in what she said, but she shouldn't have said it. As a result there is a family feud. We don't visit one another. We are losing touch with one another. I have begged Sylvia to apologize or at least respond tc the invitations my sister-in- law issues from time to time, but she is the most stubborn woman who ever lived. Does i. pay to have a lifelong feud for no important reason? Sylvia F. My husband may think it is "no important reason," but it happens to be very important to me. My sister-in-law has hurt me many times in many ways and I have tried to overlook it, but I can't go on being a hypocrite. ; I was willing to take it from that woman as long as she didn't interfere with my life. But when she had the nerve to criticize me to my husband for the way I man age my children I felt I had to tell her off in a way she would never forget. I am not trying to keep my husband from seeing his brother if he wants to. That's his business. But I won't apologize because I used a little bad language to a wo man who has hurt me. , . The Council: It's too bad Sylvia felt forced to use "a little bad language." She could so easily have kept her self entirely in the right by telling : her - sister-in-law in good language that she doesn't want her interference in her family affairs and that she certajnly expects her to have the good taste and good sense not to criticize her to her husband. , . However, that part of the damage is done. Now the sis ter-in-law has shown that she doesn't want to perpetuate the feud. Her invitations are clear enough indication that she is ready to call it quits. When sisters-in-law feud the real sufferers are invari ably the husbands. The wo men get a certain satisfaction about being stirred up over something and over the vari ous points they score in the campaign. The husbands are torn in their loyalties. They must stand up for their wives, but this imposes a breach with their brother. It is. nonsense for Sylvia to say she is not standing in the way of her husband's . rela tionship with his brother. He cannot feel comfortable and happy about seeing his broth er without her. It implies dis loyalty to her.: This places Frank in an ugly position whatever he does. BURN DEBRIS Medford Lions club Echo, at Lake of the Woods recently. Main members Herb Seitz, Allen Jewett ' and taining the camp is an annual project of the Anthony Cappello, left to right, are shown Lions club. The debris was collected during at work burning, one of the piles of debris the week end trips to the camp to prepare collected at the Girl Scout camp, Low it for the winter. Quotes From the News By UNITED PRESS INTERNATIONAL St Louis-Former British Prime Minister Clement Attlee, after being asked whether he thought the United States should recognize Communist China: "It's no good ignoring it. Recognition does not mean ap proval." Memphis, Tenn.-Sen. Allen J. Ellender (D-La.), denounc ing Cuban land reform policies:' i "Recent events in Cuba involving land reforms are tanta mount to confiscation of American property there." Miami-Charlotte Heidal, former Army private who had her sex changed by surgery and now is married, disclosing that she has left several jobs because, of gossip: "It hurt to always know that people were yak-yak-yaking behind my back. That hurts any woman." . Houston, Tex.-Dr.' Russell Wolfe, discussing his patient, old Confederate Walter G. Williams, at Williams'' 117th birth day party: "He doesn't need peace and quiet. He needs a party to help him get well." Wall Street Chatter New York -(DPD--The steel strike may have: changed the shape of the 1959-60 business pattern by making the peak of activity lower and the pe riod of good business of long er duration, observes W. E. Hutton & Co. As forvthe stock market, the firm doesa't look: for the Dow-Jones industrials be tween now and the end of the year to go down as. low as the September lows or as high as the August tops. 1 Van I Alstyne, Noel & Co., says American Cyanamide still represents one of the - better grade growth situations, and purchase for both . medium and longer term enhancement is recommended for investors as well as traders. It is difficult to be a hypo crite to ' smile and behave pleasantly when one is seth ing .with anger. We would, therefore, suggest that Sylvia try to do a more difficult, but better thing let love help her overcome her anger.. Her love for her husband is the force that can save her from this foolish, destructive' feud.. (Copyright 1959, General . Features Corp.) Fitch says the promising long-term, outlook for the truck-trailer industry gives shares of Fruehauf Trailer, a worthwhile measure of specu lative attraction. On the compact car front, Chrysler " has priced its Val iant station' wagon far be low the Rambler model of American Motors, reports E. F. Hutton & Co. . May Be Too Much Augusta, Ga. - (CPD - Mrs. Mamie Eisenhower is worried about the strain of President Eisenhower's forthcoming 11 nation tour, according to sales ladies at a store where she shopped last week. . Two . saleswomen quoted her as saying: "I think, it's too much for him. I don't 'think he should do it." ' - ; : Mrs. Eisenhower went - to the store to buy a bed jacket for her mother, Mrs., John F. Doud, who is in Denver. ' Canute became king, of England, Denmark and Nor way in 1016. Scientist Says Dog Should Be With Spaceman V i Washington-UPD-A scientist said today that, every space man should have a space dog as companion and life-saver. This proposal was made at the annual meeting of the American Rocket society by Dr. Leslie Kaeburn of Space labs, Inc., Van Nuys, Calif. The dog, Kaeburn said, would serve as a "space ca nary" to warn of danger if it should develop aboard the spacecraft. "Just as coal miners once took canaries along with them as a safety measure to see if the air underground was fit to breathe,, the astronaut should be accompanied by an animal instrumented to warn him 6r a ground observer if his physiological condition be comes ' abnormal," Kaeburn said. . . ' Would Be Friend He added that a dog would be the astronaut's best friend in other ways, too, providing him with companionship and comfort in the lonely reaches of space. v Instruments with tiny radio transmitters would be im planted surgically in the dog to report on the state Of his heart, .nervous system, brain, lungs,' blood pressure and temperature. . .. Spacelabs scientists said they had successfully implant ed a two-ounce radio, three inches long and three-eighths of an inch wide, in a dog to report 'its heart action. . The dog, a a lVfc-year-old male beagle named Orbit, now regularly sends electrocardio grams which can be received over considerable distances. He has suffered 'noill ef fects," Spacelabs said. . . Casselton, N. .D. . - (UPD -Sen. William Langer, a Re publican maverick and North Dakota's most famous son, was buried Saturday. 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