MAIL TRIBUNE, Or.
Mo4ay, Nov. 16. 1939
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Family
Council
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. Frank F. My wife won't
apologize. t
Sylvia F-I can't go on be
ing a hypocrite.
Fraak F-What is a man to
do when he has a wife who
is determined to speak her
mind frankly to every one
no matter whom she hurts?
In a recent family argu
ment my wife said, some
harsh things to my sister-in-law.
I think she was right
in what she said, but she
shouldn't have said it. As a
result there is a family feud.
We don't visit one another.
We are losing touch with one
another.
I have begged Sylvia to
apologize or at least respond
tc the invitations my sister-in-
law issues from time to time,
but she is the most stubborn
woman who ever lived. Does
i. pay to have a lifelong feud
for no important reason?
Sylvia F. My husband
may think it is "no important
reason," but it happens to be
very important to me. My
sister-in-law has hurt me
many times in many ways
and I have tried to overlook
it, but I can't go on being a
hypocrite. ;
I was willing to take it
from that woman as long as
she didn't interfere with my
life. But when she had the
nerve to criticize me to my
husband for the way I man
age my children I felt I had
to tell her off in a way she
would never forget.
I am not trying to keep
my husband from seeing his
brother if he wants to. That's
his business. But I won't
apologize because I used a
little bad language to a wo
man who has hurt me. ,
. The Council: It's too bad
Sylvia felt forced to use "a
little bad language." She
could so easily have kept her
self entirely in the right by
telling : her - sister-in-law in
good language that she doesn't
want her interference in her
family affairs and that she
certajnly expects her to have
the good taste and good sense
not to criticize her to her
husband. , .
However, that part of the
damage is done. Now the sis
ter-in-law has shown that she
doesn't want to perpetuate
the feud. Her invitations are
clear enough indication that
she is ready to call it quits.
When sisters-in-law feud
the real sufferers are invari
ably the husbands. The wo
men get a certain satisfaction
about being stirred up over
something and over the vari
ous points they score in the
campaign. The husbands are
torn in their loyalties. They
must stand up for their wives,
but this imposes a breach with
their brother.
It is. nonsense for Sylvia to
say she is not standing in the
way of her husband's . rela
tionship with his brother. He
cannot feel comfortable and
happy about seeing his broth
er without her. It implies dis
loyalty to her.: This places
Frank in an ugly position
whatever he does.
BURN DEBRIS Medford Lions club Echo, at Lake of the Woods recently. Main
members Herb Seitz, Allen Jewett ' and taining the camp is an annual project of the
Anthony Cappello, left to right, are shown Lions club. The debris was collected during
at work burning, one of the piles of debris the week end trips to the camp to prepare
collected at the Girl Scout camp, Low it for the winter.
Quotes From the News
By UNITED PRESS INTERNATIONAL
St Louis-Former British Prime Minister Clement Attlee,
after being asked whether he thought the United States
should recognize Communist China:
"It's no good ignoring it. Recognition does not mean ap
proval." Memphis, Tenn.-Sen. Allen J. Ellender (D-La.), denounc
ing Cuban land reform policies:' i
"Recent events in Cuba involving land reforms are tanta
mount to confiscation of American property there."
Miami-Charlotte Heidal, former Army private who had
her sex changed by surgery and now is married, disclosing
that she has left several jobs because, of gossip:
"It hurt to always know that people were yak-yak-yaking
behind my back. That hurts any woman." .
Houston, Tex.-Dr.' Russell Wolfe, discussing his patient,
old Confederate Walter G. Williams, at Williams'' 117th birth
day party:
"He doesn't need peace and quiet. He needs a party to
help him get well."
Wall Street Chatter
New York -(DPD--The steel
strike may have: changed the
shape of the 1959-60 business
pattern by making the peak
of activity lower and the pe
riod of good business of long
er duration, observes W. E.
Hutton & Co.
As forvthe stock market,
the firm doesa't look: for the
Dow-Jones industrials be
tween now and the end of
the year to go down as. low as
the September lows or as high
as the August tops. 1
Van I Alstyne, Noel & Co.,
says American Cyanamide still
represents one of the - better
grade growth situations, and
purchase for both . medium
and longer term enhancement
is recommended for investors
as well as traders.
It is difficult to be a hypo
crite to ' smile and behave
pleasantly when one is seth
ing .with anger. We would,
therefore, suggest that Sylvia
try to do a more difficult, but
better thing let love help her
overcome her anger.. Her love
for her husband is the force
that can save her from this
foolish, destructive' feud..
(Copyright 1959, General .
Features Corp.)
Fitch says the promising
long-term, outlook for the
truck-trailer industry gives
shares of Fruehauf Trailer, a
worthwhile measure of specu
lative attraction.
On the compact car front,
Chrysler " has priced its Val
iant station' wagon far be
low the Rambler model of
American Motors, reports E.
F. Hutton & Co. .
May Be Too Much
Augusta, Ga. - (CPD - Mrs.
Mamie Eisenhower is worried
about the strain of President
Eisenhower's forthcoming 11
nation tour, according to sales
ladies at a store where she
shopped last week.
. Two . saleswomen quoted
her as saying:
"I think, it's too much for
him. I don't 'think he should
do it." ' - ; :
Mrs. Eisenhower went - to
the store to buy a bed jacket
for her mother, Mrs., John F.
Doud, who is in Denver. '
Canute became king, of
England, Denmark and Nor
way in 1016.
Scientist Says
Dog Should Be
With Spaceman
V i
Washington-UPD-A scientist
said today that, every space
man should have a space dog
as companion and life-saver.
This proposal was made at
the annual meeting of the
American Rocket society by
Dr. Leslie Kaeburn of Space
labs, Inc., Van Nuys, Calif.
The dog, Kaeburn said,
would serve as a "space ca
nary" to warn of danger if it
should develop aboard the
spacecraft.
"Just as coal miners once
took canaries along with them
as a safety measure to see if
the air underground was fit
to breathe,, the astronaut
should be accompanied by an
animal instrumented to warn
him 6r a ground observer if
his physiological condition be
comes ' abnormal," Kaeburn
said. . . '
Would Be Friend
He added that a dog would
be the astronaut's best friend
in other ways, too, providing
him with companionship and
comfort in the lonely reaches
of space. v
Instruments with tiny radio
transmitters would be im
planted surgically in the dog
to report on the state Of his
heart, .nervous system, brain,
lungs,' blood pressure and
temperature. .
.. Spacelabs scientists said
they had successfully implant
ed a two-ounce radio, three
inches long and three-eighths
of an inch wide, in a dog to
report 'its heart action. .
The dog, a a lVfc-year-old
male beagle named Orbit, now
regularly sends electrocardio
grams which can be received
over considerable distances.
He has suffered 'noill ef
fects," Spacelabs said.
. . Casselton, N. .D. . - (UPD -Sen.
William Langer, a Re
publican maverick and North
Dakota's most famous son,
was buried Saturday.
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