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MAIL TRIBUNE, MadforJ, Or. Monday, Oct. 5, 1959 Family Council Mildred G. - I want ro mance. Mrs. D.G. - She's gotten too casual and sophisticated about men. Mildred G. -1 am 25, single and have never been in love. I'm beginning to think I just have no love in me. In spite of this I've always had plenty of dates. I enjoy the company of men and I love going out. And I would like to have a home, children and a normal life. So I'm be ginning to think I ought to marrv and learn to love later. A very nice man wants to marry me now. My parents think he's iust the greatest He's nice looking, a gentle man and I'm really fond of him in a way. Yet at times I think he's just too-too nice. The truth is he bores me. Mother says I won't be bored after I'm married, but I hate to aive ud all hope for a real romance. After all, every girl wants that. Mrs. D.G-We're iust about fed up with Millie. She's been dating since 15 - always love ly boys. Many of them are nnw haDDilv married to friends of hers. I feel that Millie has gotten inn casual and sophisticated about men. She thinks she'll always be young and pretty miH nonular. She has this dream man in mind and doesn't bother to try to feel anything for good old Tom, Dick or Harry. It seems that Millie doesn't just let herself go and fall in love the way a lot of girls do. She never had crushes on football heroes, movie stars or singers. She used to think the other girls were nuts. Well, now it's time she tried imitating them. The Council: We can't rec ommend a girl's marrying a man who bores her, and we certainly would discourage a marriage made with the idea that "all hope for a real ro mance" was being given up. But we think that Mrs. D.G. shows some understand ing of her daughter's problem when she complains of her re fusal to fix some emotion on a real live person.- - The fact that Mildred goes out with men and they like her is a pretty sure sign that sh:. has some genuine feeling for them. She does not choose to call this feeling "love" be cause she has a certain con cept of love that is connected with her concept of the ideal man and the ideal romance. If she ever did find a man who seemed to fit the ideal picture, she would quickly become disillusioned because her concept is rigid and real people are not. Mildred" expects love to come to her from the outside and refuses to recognize that it grows from ' within. It would grow from within naturally 'and gradually, de veloping from the pleasapt associations she has with her men friends - if she did not obstruct this growth. Boredom develops when a relationship doesn t grow. Mildred should realize that she, as much as the man, is responsible for her sense of boredom. She has not brought a certain vital spark to the relationship and she feels its lack. We think she ought to try to rid herself of her ideas about men and romance and give herself more fully to her actual relationships. She will then find that she does, after al!, have love in her. (Copyright 1959, General Features Corp.) Three Appear in Circuit Court Dudley Dan Solomon, 22, of 408 East D st., Jackson ville, was one of three men appearing before Judge Ed ward C. Kelly Friday irr cir cuit court. . Solomon was arraigned on district attorney's informa tion on a charge of contribut ing to the delinquency of a minor. He waived his right to appearance before a grand jury, and the case was con tinued pending his plea. Lor en L. Sawyer was appointed his attorney. Judge Kelly suspended im position of sentence for three years in the case of John Cor bell, 19, of Grants Pass, who had pleaded guilty Aug. 21 to a charge of contributing to the delinquency of a minor. The imposition of sentence n James Ear! Quates, 23, of Georgiana, Ala., was suspend ed for two years. 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