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16 MAIL TRIBUNE, Madford, Or. Monday, June 1, 1959 Fourth Dies From Collision Roseburg - (UPD - A car-pickup truck collision May 22 just north of Winston on Highway 42 claimed a fourth victim Friday night. John David Terry, 26, Roseburg, died in community hospital here of injuries suffered in the crash. Three others were killed outright. They were Everett K. Ward, 54, Roseburg; his wife, Gwendolyn Caroline Ward, 47, and William George Redenius, 63, also of Rose burg. Terry was driver of the automobile, state police said. Redeniug was his passenger and the Wards were in the pickup. Family Council SANDRA S.-1 am too busy for Aunt Carol. JOHN S.- We mustn't hurt ; her. - SANDRA S.- I am having a terrible problem with a very nice maiden lady in her SOs, who happens to be my husband's aunt- Aunt Carol lives alone not very far from us. She is a typist and works at home all day. Of course, it is boring and lonely for her so she thinks nothing of calling me up or "dropping in" a few times a day. I have three small children and a busy household to Tun. Aunt Carol sometimes gives usually she just wastes my ; iime with gdssip. I have hint ed to her as nicely and tact ful as I could that I am real ly too busy for these visits, but she doesn't pay attention and sometimes I think she is really hostile to me and wants to make trouble. My husband does nothing. JOHN 8. - What am I sup posed to do about it? I can't go tell my aunt not to bother my wife. I told Sandra that she can say anything she likM hut Rhe must not hurt Aunt Carol's feelings. This aunt has always been n trnnH f rionH tn m o anH m v folks. She helped see me through college and before my father died he told me to always look out for her be cause there is really nobody else in the family she can de pend upon. I always remind Sandra she certainly likes to have Aunt Carol "drop in" when she comes to babysit for us. After all, you can't always take and never give. It is hard for Aunt Carol being the way she is with no close friends, You can really go crazy with just the four walls to talk to. THE COUNCIL: The per son who has the biggest problem in this case is Aunt Carol and we don't believe that Sandra is helping things much be being too timid to speak up. John isn't helping either when he advises San dra to say "anything" but not hurt Aunt Carol's feelings. , The fact is that some things must hurt, and one of them -, is the knowledge that we ' need someone who doesn't particularly need or want us. There are harsh ways and v:j ........ . -tm aiuu w ay m ui irimig uxx m person who has become some v what of a pest, but even the kind way will hurt. It can only be hoped that the in jured party will benefit by the pain, will suddenly come to an understanding that will bring about an inner change. A maiden lady in her 50s who works at home all day and has no close friends is in an extremely bad fix and those who allow her to im pose herself upon them are not doing her a good turn. There are hundreds of ways in which this woman can ex- a l l t f . . i . pana ner me, dux sne must wake up and realize it her self. If she insists upon tak ing Sandra's words in the wrong spirit, she will just wrap herself in anger and self-pity and look for some body else to use in the same - way. Sandra's idea that Aunt Carol is "really hostile" and wants "to make trouble" is probably false and based on irrational fear of an older woman who might represent her mother. Sandra may help xjci acj-i ill gelling rw oi mis fear if she is aboveboard in a kindly way with Aunt Car ol. She might even be help ful by suggesting that an ac complished typist like Aunt Carol would do well to get a job outside her home. It would probably bring her more money as well as social contacts. 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