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' FACING COUBT-MARTIAL on charges of mistreating trainees, LL Gerald M. Wheatley (right), 23, Bridgeton, N. J, eonfers with Lt. Henry L. Brown, Great Falls, S. C, his lawyer, at Fort Jackson, S. C, infantry center. The Family Council Editor's note: The Family Council eonilU of udge, a psychiatrist, three clergymen, a newspaper editor, a women's editor and two writers Each article Is a summary of an actual report. The Family Council does ot five advice; lt merely reports on problems that have been dealt with by responsible aeenciea and counselors." Trudy H. - Is it right to marry someone you don't love? Mn. L. R. - She'll learn to love him afterwards. Trudy B. - I am 25 years old and single. I'm eager to get married, but only to Mr. Right. Most of my friends are married and have families al ready. I think they are happy, yet I don't envy them because I know I wouldn't want any of their husbands. They are nice men, but hardly my idea ot what I want in a husband. Everybody, especially my mother, keeps talking to me about compromise. I realize you have to make some com promises, but there is a limit to how far you can go. My mother wants me to marry a particular young men who is in love with me. He is a nice person, I know, but I simply can't have any feeling for him. Is it right to marry some one you know you don't love? Mrs. L. R. Sometimes you have to teach yourself to love someone. When a girl is as old as Trudy and still hasn't found Mr. Right, I think she should find some desirable on national Coverage - NBC, Statewide Coverage Coverage - KMED Staff and Medford Amateur GEDDES 1 PORTER HATFIELD HOLMES HcCAULEY NILSEN DURNO HUDS07I DUNCAN, Marijai.e DUNCAN, ROBERT LATTIE HYE HOPKINS 1 Sponsored 1440 man and get married. After wards, if he is kind and con siderate, she will learn to love him. The young man who now wants to marry Trudy has been courting her for a year. He is good -looking, comes from a fine family and has a good future in his family's business. Trudy has had many very nice young men seri ously interested in her, but she never cared for any of them. Now they are all mar ried and her chances aren't getting better. ' I am getting tired of wait ing for Trudy to make up her mind. People keep asking me what's the matter with her. Tht Council: There may be some justice in Mrs. L.R.'s idea that one must "learn to love", but we doubt whether the lesson is best learned af ter the wedding ceremony. It is possible, however, that Trudy is one of those indi viduals who excuses an ina bility to experience love on the grounds that she is search ing for an ideal person. Those who can love automatically make compromises and accept the shortcomings of others. o Invites you to follow RB3ED HERE IS YOUR by: O AMERICAN LAUNDRY O CRATER LAKE MOTORS O HUGGINS MOBIL GAS CCMHP Your Better, Family Music Station Nixon, Family Back in Capital Seattle -JUPD Vice President Richard M. Nixon and his family flew to New York and Washington, D.C., today after a whirlwind political visit to Alaska. The Nixons stopped over tiere briefly Monday night after a flight from Anchor age, Alaska, where the vice president addressed 600 Uni versity of Afaska students Monday. Nixon urged all Americans to vote in today's election. "As for Republican chances for victory," he said, "there are many races where the margin of victory will be de termined by the number of Democrats and Republicans who turn out." Nixon herded his family aboard an eastbound plane which left at 11:59 p.m. (pst) on a non-stop flight to New York. At Fairbanks, the vice president told the students they should enter active poli tics through either major par ty and urged them to work to elect "the best men for of fice." Nixon defended the Repub lican administration stating Psychiatrists and others en gaged in family counseling find that the domineering mother is a big factor in pre venting her offspring from de veloping their normal capacity to love. Mrs. L.R. shows a bit too much interest in getting Tru dy married off. We don't blame her for her concern about Trudy's future happi ness, but we do think her pressure on the grounds that she is "tired of waiting" and "people keep asking" is out of order. This kind of intim idation may be one of the things which make Trudy feel too frightened and guilty to be able to form happy rela tionships with men. We don't see much happi ness ahead for Trudy if she forces herself to go through with a marriage on the strength of her mother's pres sure, but we do believe she1 should make the effort to know and understand real-life individuals and should avoid measuring them by an unreal, ideal standard. (Copyright 1958, o o the Up-to-the-minute rare starting at SCORE CARD MADDEN - CHRISTIAN WENDT HAMILTON MILLER SHEEHAN frALSH DOERNBACH ROBINSON 1 WILKES STACEY STARK 1 that the country is not at war and that "not one American boy is fighting or dying any place in the world, today." Woman Needs Trealment Now Whittier, Calif .- (UPD -A 36- year-old housewife on her way to a doctor for treatment of a nervous condition found herself sorely in need of the treament Monday when she stalled her car on a railroad track as a freight train ap proached. Mrs. Gladys E. Richards, of nearby La Puenta, Calif., told police she jumped out of the stalled car when she saw a Santa Fe 57-car freight train barreling down the tracks to ward her at 55 miles an hour "But then I decided maybe I'd better move the car so I jumped back in and tried to get it started again," she said. She finally gave it up and scrambled out of the doomed car seconds before the train plowed into it and hurled it 60 feet. Mrs. Richards, struck and slightly injured on the leg by a piece of flying wreckage, was taken to Carobil hospital for treatment of the wound and shock. Court Records DISTRICT COURT Sheldon F. Biddle Jr., over height $6. Charles T. Smith, no operator's license, $10. Gerald W. Quinlin, driving while license was suspenaea, $iu. Margaret L. Bichey, violation ba sic rule, $15 Floyd B. Lay. shooting from pub lie highway. $30. Jerry B. Morton, overload, $24. Feme C. Kellow, violation basic rule. $15. Sharon L. Holsapple, no opera tor's license. $10. Allen R. Hiekeg, over-width. $15 Guy L. Warren, defective lights, $10. Thomas J. Oakes, violation basic rule $13. David H. Burns, failure to stop, $10. Dorothy M. Cain, failure to atop, $10. CIRCUIT COURT Harold E. Colvin vs. Betty Jane Colvin, divorce complaint. MARRIAGE LICENSE APPLICATIONS Jewell David Lowe, 1999 Eagle Point rd., Ashland, and Laura Edith Hahn, no address given. Fred Hanklin Bean and Vera Elizabeth Bean, both 411 Church St., Phoenix. 7:30 Tonight - UPI, Local Radio People NBC Missile-Age Soldiers Taught I individual Must Work for Group Fflit.nr' Tin),' This I. s.n,i4 nf two dispatches on what training Is like for inductees in our peacetime Army, by a UPI correspondent who accompanied Fifth Army Com mander Lt. Gen. William H. (Hap) Arnold on a tour of one of Amer ica's largest training center. By IRA LURVEY UPI Correspondent Ft. Lonard Wood, Mo.-fUPB-He was a colonel and a chap lain and he was temporarily preoccupied with a black poodle he promised a captain he'd take care of for the after noon. "We get about eight weeks in which to reverse a man's life," he said. "They come to us after 18, 19, 20 years of teaching that in America the group exists mainly to serve the individual. Then we have to tell them that in an Army and individual must work pri marily for the group." He said this was a problem unique to a democracy. "We never fully change them." he said. "It's probably just as well. But I do like to feel we return them better citizens, with more tolerance and understanding of one another." The infantry colonel the one with the combat badge of merit said the same thing, only differently. Teach Them To Live "We don't train them to die for their country," he said. "We try to teach them how to live and we want them to think. They may be stuck off someplace by them selves. They've got to be able to de cide on their own what to do." This is the missile-age Army. The one that's supposed to fight the war no one wants or can describe. Gone is the old "KD" (known distance) range, where one learned to shoot by pop ping bullseyes from 200, 300 and 500 yards out. They call it "Trainf ire" now and the recruit learns by walking through a woods, fir ing at man-shaped targets which suddenly pop up before him. He doesn't even use a sling. "In combat, how many men took time to get into their slings when the enemy was running down on them?" a captain asked. The difference, though is deeper than riflery. No Longer Cog "The soldier no longer is a cog, sometning to move along in trenches," said Lt. Gen. William H (Hap) Arn old, Fifth Army commander, "He must learn to be self suf ficient, to think and take care of himself. Why, he may be commanded by no more than a set of earphones in his hel met." What's it like, this peace time Army, where a recruits chief worry is whether he'll get stuck with weekend K.P.? "It's a milk Army, that's what it is," a captain said. "It used to be a coffee Army. Now we have to put milk dis pensing machines outside the barracks." "Did you ever hear of cal ling time out in a war be cause it was raining too hard?" a captain asked. 'That's what we do here. Can't let the boys get their feet wet, you know." Letting Off Steam Maj. Gen. Thomas A. Lane, Leonard Wood post command er, said these were nothing more than cases of men letting off personal steam. We can be proud of our youths," Lane said. "They're an inspiration to watch. All they need is a challenge." The key to a well-trained Army, it is emphasized at Ft. Leonard Wood, is military dis- Actor Charged As Woman Hater Los Angeles (UPD The for mer wife of actor Sterling Hayden Monday charged the 42-year-old star was a chronic "woman hater." 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