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FACING COUBT-MARTIAL on charges of mistreating
trainees, LL Gerald M. Wheatley (right), 23, Bridgeton,
N. J, eonfers with Lt. Henry L. Brown, Great Falls, S. C,
his lawyer, at Fort Jackson, S. C, infantry center.
The Family Council
Editor's note: The Family Council eonilU of udge, a psychiatrist,
three clergymen, a newspaper editor, a women's editor and two writers
Each article Is a summary of an actual report. The Family Council does
ot five advice; lt merely reports on problems that have been dealt
with by responsible aeenciea and counselors."
Trudy H. - Is it right to
marry someone you don't
love?
Mn. L. R. - She'll learn to
love him afterwards.
Trudy B. - I am 25 years
old and single. I'm eager to
get married, but only to Mr.
Right. Most of my friends are
married and have families al
ready. I think they are happy,
yet I don't envy them because
I know I wouldn't want any
of their husbands. They are
nice men, but hardly my idea
ot what I want in a husband.
Everybody, especially my
mother, keeps talking to me
about compromise. I realize
you have to make some com
promises, but there is a limit
to how far you can go. My
mother wants me to marry a
particular young men who is
in love with me. He is a nice
person, I know, but I simply
can't have any feeling for him.
Is it right to marry some
one you know you don't love?
Mrs. L. R. Sometimes you
have to teach yourself to love
someone. When a girl is as
old as Trudy and still hasn't
found Mr. Right, I think she
should find some desirable
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man and get married. After
wards, if he is kind and con
siderate, she will learn to love
him.
The young man who now
wants to marry Trudy has
been courting her for a year.
He is good -looking, comes
from a fine family and has a
good future in his family's
business. Trudy has had many
very nice young men seri
ously interested in her, but
she never cared for any of
them. Now they are all mar
ried and her chances aren't
getting better. '
I am getting tired of wait
ing for Trudy to make up
her mind. People keep asking
me what's the matter with
her.
Tht Council: There may be
some justice in Mrs. L.R.'s
idea that one must "learn to
love", but we doubt whether
the lesson is best learned af
ter the wedding ceremony.
It is possible, however, that
Trudy is one of those indi
viduals who excuses an ina
bility to experience love on
the grounds that she is search
ing for an ideal person. Those
who can love automatically
make compromises and accept
the shortcomings of others.
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Nixon, Family Back in Capital
Seattle -JUPD Vice President
Richard M. Nixon and his
family flew to New York and
Washington, D.C., today after
a whirlwind political visit to
Alaska.
The Nixons stopped over
tiere briefly Monday night
after a flight from Anchor
age, Alaska, where the vice
president addressed 600 Uni
versity of Afaska students
Monday.
Nixon urged all Americans
to vote in today's election.
"As for Republican chances
for victory," he said, "there
are many races where the
margin of victory will be de
termined by the number of
Democrats and Republicans
who turn out."
Nixon herded his family
aboard an eastbound plane
which left at 11:59 p.m. (pst)
on a non-stop flight to New
York.
At Fairbanks, the vice
president told the students
they should enter active poli
tics through either major par
ty and urged them to work to
elect "the best men for of
fice." Nixon defended the Repub
lican administration stating
Psychiatrists and others en
gaged in family counseling
find that the domineering
mother is a big factor in pre
venting her offspring from de
veloping their normal capacity
to love.
Mrs. L.R. shows a bit too
much interest in getting Tru
dy married off. We don't
blame her for her concern
about Trudy's future happi
ness, but we do think her
pressure on the grounds that
she is "tired of waiting" and
"people keep asking" is out
of order. This kind of intim
idation may be one of the
things which make Trudy feel
too frightened and guilty to
be able to form happy rela
tionships with men.
We don't see much happi
ness ahead for Trudy if she
forces herself to go through
with a marriage on the
strength of her mother's pres
sure, but we do believe she1
should make the effort to
know and understand real-life
individuals and should avoid
measuring them by an unreal,
ideal standard.
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that the country is not at war
and that "not one American
boy is fighting or dying any
place in the world, today."
Woman Needs
Trealment Now
Whittier, Calif .- (UPD -A 36-
year-old housewife on her
way to a doctor for treatment
of a nervous condition found
herself sorely in need of the
treament Monday when she
stalled her car on a railroad
track as a freight train ap
proached.
Mrs. Gladys E. Richards, of
nearby La Puenta, Calif., told
police she jumped out of the
stalled car when she saw a
Santa Fe 57-car freight train
barreling down the tracks to
ward her at 55 miles an hour
"But then I decided maybe
I'd better move the car so I
jumped back in and tried to
get it started again," she said.
She finally gave it up and
scrambled out of the doomed
car seconds before the train
plowed into it and hurled it
60 feet.
Mrs. Richards, struck and
slightly injured on the leg by
a piece of flying wreckage,
was taken to Carobil hospital
for treatment of the wound
and shock.
Court Records
DISTRICT COURT
Sheldon F. Biddle Jr., over
height $6.
Charles T. Smith, no operator's
license, $10.
Gerald W. Quinlin, driving while
license was suspenaea, $iu.
Margaret L. Bichey, violation ba
sic rule, $15
Floyd B. Lay. shooting from pub
lie highway. $30.
Jerry B. Morton, overload, $24.
Feme C. Kellow, violation basic
rule. $15.
Sharon L. Holsapple, no opera
tor's license. $10.
Allen R. Hiekeg, over-width. $15
Guy L. Warren, defective lights,
$10.
Thomas J. Oakes, violation basic
rule $13.
David H. Burns, failure to stop,
$10.
Dorothy M. Cain, failure to atop,
$10.
CIRCUIT COURT
Harold E. Colvin vs. Betty Jane
Colvin, divorce complaint.
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Missile-Age Soldiers Taught
I individual Must Work for Group
Fflit.nr' Tin),' This I. s.n,i4 nf
two dispatches on what training Is
like for inductees in our peacetime
Army, by a UPI correspondent who
accompanied Fifth Army Com
mander Lt. Gen. William H. (Hap)
Arnold on a tour of one of Amer
ica's largest training center.
By IRA LURVEY
UPI Correspondent
Ft. Lonard Wood, Mo.-fUPB-He
was a colonel and a chap
lain and he was temporarily
preoccupied with a black
poodle he promised a captain
he'd take care of for the after
noon. "We get about eight weeks
in which to reverse a man's
life," he said. "They come to
us after 18, 19, 20 years of
teaching that in America the
group exists mainly to serve
the individual. Then we have
to tell them that in an Army
and individual must work pri
marily for the group."
He said this was a problem
unique to a democracy.
"We never fully change
them." he said. "It's probably
just as well. But I do like to
feel we return them better
citizens, with more tolerance
and understanding of one
another."
The infantry colonel the
one with the combat badge of
merit said the same thing,
only differently.
Teach Them To Live
"We don't train them to die
for their country," he said.
"We try to teach them how
to live and we want them to
think. They may be stuck off
someplace by them selves.
They've got to be able to de
cide on their own what to do."
This is the missile-age Army.
The one that's supposed to
fight the war no one wants
or can describe.
Gone is the old "KD"
(known distance) range, where
one learned to shoot by pop
ping bullseyes from 200, 300
and 500 yards out.
They call it "Trainf ire" now
and the recruit learns by
walking through a woods, fir
ing at man-shaped targets
which suddenly pop up before
him. He doesn't even use a
sling.
"In combat, how many men
took time to get into their
slings when the enemy was
running down on them?" a
captain asked.
The difference, though is
deeper than riflery.
No Longer Cog
"The soldier no longer is
a cog, sometning to move
along in trenches," said Lt.
Gen. William H (Hap) Arn
old, Fifth Army commander,
"He must learn to be self suf
ficient, to think and take care
of himself. Why, he may be
commanded by no more than
a set of earphones in his hel
met."
What's it like, this peace
time Army, where a recruits
chief worry is whether he'll
get stuck with weekend K.P.?
"It's a milk Army, that's
what it is," a captain said.
"It used to be a coffee Army.
Now we have to put milk dis
pensing machines outside the
barracks."
"Did you ever hear of cal
ling time out in a war be
cause it was raining too
hard?" a captain asked.
'That's what we do here.
Can't let the boys get their
feet wet, you know."
Letting Off Steam
Maj. Gen. Thomas A. Lane,
Leonard Wood post command
er, said these were nothing
more than cases of men letting
off personal steam.
We can be proud of our
youths," Lane said. "They're
an inspiration to watch. All
they need is a challenge."
The key to a well-trained
Army, it is emphasized at Ft.
Leonard Wood, is military dis-
Actor Charged
As Woman Hater
Los Angeles (UPD The for
mer wife of actor Sterling
Hayden Monday charged the
42-year-old star was a chronic
"woman hater."
"If he had devoted the at
tention to our lives that he
did to hating his first wife act
ress Madeline Carroll and his
mother and women generally
maybe we could have had a
successful marriage," attrac
tive Betty de Nnnon Hayden,
36, said in an affidavit filed
in Superior Court.
She denied as "false accusa
tions, smutty insinuations and
distorted truths," Hayden's
charges made last week that
she had been intimate with
six men prior to their divorce
in 1955.
Mrs. Hayden's charges
were the latest of a series of
legal maneuvers between the
couple in connection with the
custody of their four children,
Christian, 10; Dana, 9; Gretch
en, 8, and Mathew, 6.
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