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Monday, October 7, 1957 MEDFORD (OREGON) MAIL TRIBUNE ITfE Try and Stop Me By BENNETT CERF- THE LATE CHARLIE DUNKLEY, Chicago sports expert, took a dim view of "society" patrons who showed off their new cars, girls and clothes at racetracks. In the press box one anernoon, ne iisnea a nand i ful of nickels and dimes j from his pocket, and ad vised his confreres, "Get a load of this." He then tossed the coins into the milling throng below, and watched in delight while mink-clad babes and their pompous escorts risked life and limb to retrieve twenty or thirty cents in cash. 3 ! Stubby Kaye says that he mow knows the meaning of f"a ravins beautv" Sh' tthe gal who just missed out in the finals of a Miq? America I contest! , Heard how little Willie treed the word "aotwltlistaading" m a sen tence? -My lazy brother Joe wore oat his pants but notwith standing." O 1957. by Bennett Cert IXetribate4 by King Features Syndics. The Family Council Editor's not: The Farall) Council consist of a Judge.' a psychiatrist, three clergymen, a newspaper editor a women'! vlitor and two writers. Each article is a summary of an actual report. The family Council does not give advice; It merely reports on problems that Save been dealt with by responsible agencies and counselors. ' Nora R. Mother must pull herself out of her depression. Mm. L. T. But I do miss my husband. Nora R. I am worried about my mother. My father died about a year ago and Moth er has not done very well at picking up her life again. Mother is only 55 and very healthy. She could have an ac tive useful life. She could hold a job, good times, friends, but she doesn't seem interested in anything. I have tried to make her come to little gatherings at my house, but she is always so quiet she makes everyone feel depressed and embarrassed. Mother spends every Sunday visiting my father's grave. My lister and I feel this is unneces ry and very bad for her. We ant to help her pull out of ,er depression, but I can't seem j make her realize we can't o it for her. She's got to make in effort herself. Her gloom is aot healthy. Mm. L. T. I wish my daughters wouldn't worry over me and fuss over me so much. I have to put on a fake smile all the time I'm with them or Navy Court Martial Enters Third Week San Francisco (W Seaman Jimmy L. Henderson returned to the stand today as his Navy court martial for the murder of Ens. Arthur L. Morris moved Into its third week. The 21-year-old Marin City, Calif., sailor testified Friday in his own defense. He told the court he was driven to his ac tions because he was driven to his actions because he was sen tenced to the brig for theft, and because he felt he was the sub ject of discrimination as a Ne gro. Henderson shot Morris ' to death, wounded another officer, and assaulted a shipmate during a mutinous outbreak aboard the USS Uvalde at Treasure Island on May 28. they keep saying, "Snap out of it, Mom, You've got to go on living, you know." Of course I know I have to go on living, but I do miss my husband. It's not as bad as ft was at first. It doesn't hurt so much any more, but I still feel sad and blue very often. When I visit his grave it comforts me. I think about the good times we had together. Of course, I cry too, but then I feel better as though I've had a visit with him. I don't feel like taking a job. I like to just do my work at home. Why must I have a job? The Council Nora is carry ing "health" 'a bit too far. Death and sadness aren't exactly in fashion, but they do exist and some allowance must be made for them. As a matter of fact, it is doubtful whether Nora's un due anxiety in the face of mour ning is entirely "healthful." Mourning has perhaps been overdone and abused by those inclined to seek pity or an es cape from life, but to deny the solace of tears and silence to someone who is genuinely suf fering from the loss of a loved one is the height of cruelty. Mrs. L. T.'s "quiet" and her visits to her husband's grave do not sound at all morbid or bad for her. She is healing her self and making many internal adjustments necessary before she picks up her new way of life. Bereaved persons often com plain that friends and family flutter and cluck around them at the very time they would pre fer to be left alone with their tears. Then, when they have recuperated somewhat, they con look around for friends and so cial life and everybody has dis appeared. Nora and her sister should stop fussing over their mother, and, for their own sakes, try to be a little more accepting of grief and pain. When their mo ther is ready to again face the pleasures of life, she will indi cate it in the way she looks, talks and acts. 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