Monday, October 7, 1957
MEDFORD (OREGON) MAIL TRIBUNE ITfE
Try and Stop Me
By BENNETT CERF-
THE LATE CHARLIE DUNKLEY, Chicago sports expert,
took a dim view of "society" patrons who showed off their
new cars, girls and clothes at racetracks. In the press box one
anernoon, ne iisnea a nand
i ful of nickels and dimes
j from his pocket, and ad
vised his confreres, "Get a
load of this." He then
tossed the coins into the
milling throng below, and
watched in delight while
mink-clad babes and their
pompous escorts risked life
and limb to retrieve twenty
or thirty cents in cash.
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! Stubby Kaye says that he
mow knows the meaning of
f"a ravins beautv" Sh'
tthe gal who just missed out in the finals of a Miq? America
I contest!
, Heard how little Willie treed the word "aotwltlistaading" m a sen
tence? -My lazy brother Joe wore oat his pants but notwith
standing." O 1957. by Bennett Cert IXetribate4 by King Features Syndics.
The Family Council
Editor's not: The Farall) Council consist of a Judge.' a psychiatrist,
three clergymen, a newspaper editor a women'! vlitor and two writers. Each
article is a summary of an actual report. The family Council does not give
advice; It merely reports on problems that Save been dealt with by
responsible agencies and counselors.
'
Nora R. Mother must pull
herself out of her depression.
Mm. L. T. But I do miss
my husband.
Nora R. I am worried
about my mother. My father
died about a year ago and Moth
er has not done very well at
picking up her life again.
Mother is only 55 and very
healthy. She could have an ac
tive useful life. She could hold
a job, good times, friends, but
she doesn't seem interested in
anything. I have tried to make
her come to little gatherings at
my house, but she is always so
quiet she makes everyone feel
depressed and embarrassed.
Mother spends every Sunday
visiting my father's grave. My
lister and I feel this is unneces
ry and very bad for her. We
ant to help her pull out of
,er depression, but I can't seem
j make her realize we can't
o it for her. She's got to make
in effort herself. Her gloom is
aot healthy.
Mm. L. T. I wish my
daughters wouldn't worry over
me and fuss over me so much.
I have to put on a fake smile
all the time I'm with them or
Navy Court Martial
Enters Third Week
San Francisco (W Seaman
Jimmy L. Henderson returned
to the stand today as his Navy
court martial for the murder of
Ens. Arthur L. Morris moved
Into its third week.
The 21-year-old Marin City,
Calif., sailor testified Friday in
his own defense. He told the
court he was driven to his ac
tions because he was driven to
his actions because he was sen
tenced to the brig for theft, and
because he felt he was the sub
ject of discrimination as a Ne
gro. Henderson shot Morris ' to
death, wounded another officer,
and assaulted a shipmate during
a mutinous outbreak aboard the
USS Uvalde at Treasure Island
on May 28.
they keep saying, "Snap out of
it, Mom, You've got to go on
living, you know."
Of course I know I have to
go on living, but I do miss my
husband. It's not as bad as ft
was at first. It doesn't hurt so
much any more, but I still feel
sad and blue very often. When
I visit his grave it comforts me.
I think about the good times
we had together. Of course, I
cry too, but then I feel better
as though I've had a visit
with him.
I don't feel like taking a job.
I like to just do my work at
home. Why must I have a job?
The Council Nora is carry
ing "health" 'a bit too far. Death
and sadness aren't exactly in
fashion, but they do exist and
some allowance must be made
for them. As a matter of fact,
it is doubtful whether Nora's un
due anxiety in the face of mour
ning is entirely "healthful."
Mourning has perhaps been
overdone and abused by those
inclined to seek pity or an es
cape from life, but to deny the
solace of tears and silence to
someone who is genuinely suf
fering from the loss of a loved
one is the height of cruelty.
Mrs. L. T.'s "quiet" and her
visits to her husband's grave
do not sound at all morbid or
bad for her. She is healing her
self and making many internal
adjustments necessary before
she picks up her new way of
life.
Bereaved persons often com
plain that friends and family
flutter and cluck around them
at the very time they would pre
fer to be left alone with their
tears. Then, when they have
recuperated somewhat, they con
look around for friends and so
cial life and everybody has dis
appeared. Nora and her sister should
stop fussing over their mother,
and, for their own sakes, try
to be a little more accepting of
grief and pain. When their mo
ther is ready to again face the
pleasures of life, she will indi
cate it in the way she looks,
talks and acts. They can then
help her with their suggestions
and social activities.
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