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TWO MEDFORD (OREGON) Help Yourself to Happiness Badrs are In-rite to vrtscnt their roblms to this column. All eeartei will rorlvo IndivlduaJ attention and kbould ba accompanied hr a stamped, lelf-addretttd envelope, directed l MARY HARRIS S1E rFRT. Department of Rducatlnn. AMERICAN OgTITCTE OP FAMILY RELATIONS. aZST Sunset Boulevard, Los Anile 27, California. Loam to Blind en Your Own Two Fttt Readers are invited to present their problems. All queries will receive individual attention and should be accompanied by a stamped, self - addressed enve lope, directed to MARY HARRIS SEIFERT. M. A., Department of Education. AMERICAN INSTI TUTE OF FAMILY RELA TIONS, 5287 Sunset Boulevard, Los Angeles. 27, California. "Poor Joe drew a dud when he married Jane. She leans on him for everything." ' "The way Marily babies Jack is terrible. That guy won't lift a finger to help himself." The divorce courts, the mar riage counselling eliices, and the doctor's consulting rooms are full of over-dependent people who have forgotten that marri age is a cooperative enterprise. A good marriage is one in which two individuals strive to satisfy and fulfill the needs, not only of themselves, but also of the other partner. It has been said that a mutual love is an in surance for happiness, because such a love doubles security against the pains and conflicts of the outside world. Troubles are less formidable when Jane and Joe face them together, each drawing strength from and sup plementing', the powers of the other. "When the balance between two elements in the love bond is unequal," says Dr. Karl Men ninger in his "Love Against Hate," when one party or the other is deficient in his capacity to give love, the other partner is imposed upon and unconsciously resents it. In such instances we speak of a husband being bur dened with an over-dependent wife, or vice versa." In other words, when a part ner withdraws her or his emo tional support and cooperation from a marriage situation, that individual lets his partner down and lays him open to self-destruction, and the marriage to ruin. "The sense of achievement," ayf Dr. Menninger," which springs from proper reception of his ideas, his love, his construe- ACCOUNTING SERVICE Large m Small Accounts Accepted C. I. Mac Phono Ashland 9-6941 SPARKL. No. 8 Gold 9' ea. 3 for 25' 'ZZEt 19' ea., 4 for 75' No. 20 Gold 9 3 ,0,25 36 in. 25' ea., 2 for 45' CAPS All Kinds Toy The 317 EAST See The Spectacular Big IFiirewaDirlks SUbcidw 4th of July 8:30 P.M. Senior High Stadium YIY1CA Camp Benefit ADULTS $1.00 MAIL TRIBUNE tive efforts, his geniality is an absolute necessity. It reassures him, but it does more; it affords him an opportunity to give love that is welcomed, and makes him capable of more and more love, and hence of less and less hate and feelings of guilt." Ideal marriage is one in which the partners are cooperatively dependent as well as construc tively independent of each other. sharing each others' problems and strength. Girl Scout Camp Registrations Still Available There are still openings at Camp Low Echo for both scouts and non-scout campers, accord ing to a statement from Girl Scout headquarters. Registra tion can be made at the Scout House in Medford. Open house will be held at Low Echo Sunday, July 1 from 11 a.m. until 4 p.m. Families are to bring picnic lunches, and coffee and punch will be served in the main lodge. Members of the camp committee will lead tours around the camp. Men workers are still badly needed this week end, it is stat ed. The metal roofing on the lodge must be completed, and there is still maintenance work and some trees to be cleared. Men without families will not need to take food. Cots and mat tresses are available, but work ers must take bed rolls. Plans Announced For Annual Picnic The annual picnic will be held by Zion Lutheran church con gregation and guild members Sunday, July 1, at the Girl Scout day camp site. It will be held at 11 a.m. following the usual Sunday school classes. ' Those attending are to take a picnic lunch and table service: coffee, punch and ice cream will be provided. A program of sporta will be arranged. To Convention Mr. and Mrs. Dwaine Smith will leave tomorrow morning for San Francisco to attend the west ern states convention sponsored by the California Photographers association. Mr. and Mrs. Smith, who operate Classic studios here, will return to Medford July 4. pkg i( 6 for 25f House MAIN MdiT. June 29. I95S Society Thrifty Elizabeth Wears Same Frocks 'Bought Last Year By MARGARET SAVILLE United Press Correspondent London (U.R) Queen Eliza beth II is making do with last year's summer cottons at least for wear around the house. Britain's economy - minded queen, one of the richest wo men in the world, is bringing out the inexpensive cotton frocks she bought for her Niger ian tour last year. She plans to wear them in the palace gardens on hot days. But some new clothes also must be in order, for the Queen has on schedule a state visit to Sweden in June. She and the Duke of Edinburgh will sail in to Stockholm on the royal yacht "Brittania," to be guests of King Gustaf Adolf and Queen Louise. Many of the clothes she has ordered from fashionable May fair salons are in the pastel shades, favored by many chic European women this summer. The Queen's selections in clude on afternoon dress of primrose lace, a crinoline skirt ed evening gown of several shades of rosy chiffons, a pearl grey suit and an ivory-white silk coat and dress. With her characteristic thrift, the Queen will wear these again at home for such events as As cot race week, the Buckingham palace garden-parties, the char ity balls and debutante dances. Princess Margaret prefers yel lows for her new summer clothes. One new dress is of pale gold silk, with high draped cum merbund waistline and a wide skirt. She wears it with a match ing fabric hat, and champagne colored mink jacket when it is cool. Convention Honors Taken by Oregon; Meeting Planned Oregon shared in the honors at the international convention of Epsilon Sigma Alpha sorority convention held in Albuquerque, N. M., earlier this month. Mrs. George Marling, Bend, state president, was appointed chairman of the rushing work shop committee and several Ore gon chapters received prizes. Beta Epsilon, Portland, re ceived an award for the most re activated members and also took third place in education. Gamma Mu, Albany, took third place in chapter history. Gamma Xi, Portland, third in the song con test. The state won first place for the most reactivated members. Delegates to the convention included Mrs. Tom Markris and Mrs. Robert Shangle of Alpha Lambda. Medford. Mrs. Chet Jines, Grants Pass and Mrs. Fred Stammen, Eugene, both former members of the Medford chap ter, also attended. Memphis. Tenn., was chosen the convention city for 1957. Alpha Lamba chapter will hold a special meeting Monday, July 2, at 8 p.m. in the home of Mrs. Lyman Smith, 317 Howard street. The Leather Industries of Am erica said white shoes are mak ing a national comeback this summer. They either are all white or white combined with other color .... Jackson, Mich. U.R) Mrs. Mabel Moore, 78, broke her right leg in a fall to the sidewalk after colliding with a hit-and-run pe CHILDREN 50 vSssf - t - -( V- President and Mrs. Eisenhowers to Anniversary At By PATRICIA WIGGINS United Prass Correspondent Washington U.R) Presi dent and Mrs. Eisenhower will celebrate their 40th wedding an niversary at their farmhouse Sunday in a settting far remov ed from the two - room Army quarters where they set up housekeeping as. a first lieuten ant and his 19-year-old bride. The President and first lady will observe the anniversary with an exchange of personal gifts. But probably the one thing making each happiest about the date is their stay at the Gettys burg, Pa., farm itself a further step in the President's recovery. Mr. Eisenhower's "promotion" to the farm house from Walter Reed hospital could give them the same kind of boost they felt when his promotion to first lieutenant came through 40 years ago on their wedding day. Mr. Eisenhower's convales cence at the white frame and fieldstone farm house, incident ally, may well be longer than the 10 days leave he got for his honeymoon back in 1916. Honeymoon Short Then, tension on the Mexican border and a rising threat of war with Germany kept the honey moon short and also caused the young couple to move up their wedding day from November to July. Lt. Eisenhower then was a 29-year-old officer fresh from West Point on his first Army assign ment at Fort Sam Houston, Tex. The moved-up wedding meant the successful end of his cam paign for the hand of Denver's popular Mamie Geneva Doud. The campaign had begun Jess than one year before. Lt. Eisenhower met his future bride when her family was spending the summer of 1915 in San Antonio, just a few miles from his Army post. The persist ent young officer soon narrowed the field of competition and they became unofficially en gaged on Valentine's day the 50th Anniversary To Be Observed Mr. and Mrs. James F. Neeley of Medford will observe their golden wedding anniversary with reception Sunday, July 1. It will be held at the home of their son-in-law and daughter, Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Snoop, 130 White Oak drive, between two and five o'clock. Mr. and Mrs. Neeley, who came to the valley many years ago from Texas, formerly lived on the Jacksonville highway. For the past two years they have been traveling. Scholarship Robert Pearson, former Med ford High school student, has been awarded a scholarship at the University of Nevada by the Armanko Office Supply com pany, a release from the school states. Young Pearson, who was graduated from high school here in 1948. is i son of Mr. and Mrs. Glen Pearson. Dead line Sunday Classified Is at ax noon baiuraay. V 'if ffC MM IS tf pi y Y Dwight Eisenhower Observe Farm Home next year. His present to her was a full-sized copy of his West Point class ring amethyst set in gold. Official Engagement The official engagement was announced St. Patrick's day. By that time Lt. Eisenhower had stretched his $167 a month sal ary to buy his fiancee a ring with a small diamond cluster. Mamie Doud became Mrs. Eisenhower at high noon that July 1 in a small family wed ding at what later became the "summer White House" in Den ver. She had no attendants and wore the gown which is now on display in the Smithsonian In stitution a floor-length chan- tilly lace with tight sleeved bo lero jacket and a wide pink satin cummerbund. Two Pretty Squares Two graceful squares of filet crochet; together they form many smart designs for home or fair. Pattern 7365: . Two different filet-crochet squares. 8-inches in No. 30 cotton. Make lovely scarves, doilies, bedspreads and tablecloths. Chart, directions. Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in coins for this pattern add 5 cents for each pattern for 1st class mailing. Send to Medford Mail Tribune, Household Arts Dept., P.O. Box 168, Old Chel sea Station. New York 11, N.Y Print plainly NAME, ADDRESS AND PATTERN NUMBER. Two FREE patterns printed in the new Alice Brooks Needle craft book for 1956! Stunning designs for yourself, for your home just for you. our readers! Dozens of other designs to order all easy, fascinating hand work! Send 25 cents for yrur copy of this wonderful book right away! to mm if Parker Woods S y.SWA, if ii n Central im sm. .-m4 y - m Nation's TeacKers Say Youth Generally Good Washington, D. C. Any gen eral assumption that children and youth of this generation have "gone to the dogs" is a serious mistake according to evi dence in the report of a study released here Thursday by the National Education association (NEA). Admittedly, the report concludes, there are trouble spots and serious conditions in many communities and schools, but the picture for the nation as a whole is not nearly as bad as has been painted. The study provides ample evi dence that the great majority of boys and girls are not juvenile delinquents. Nearly two-thirds (64 per cent) of the public school teachers of the United States re port that real trouble makers ac count for fewer than one in every 100 of their pupils: 92 per cent say behavior in their commun ities is not as bad as the im pression given by press, radio and the movies; and 95 per cent describe the pupils they teach as either "exceptionally well be haved" or "reasonably well be haved" as a group. Surrey Extensive - The 60-page . report, entitled "Teacher Opinion on Pupil Be havior," was prepared by the NEA Research Division in co operation with the NEA Com mission for the Defense of De mocracy Through Education. It is based on questionnaires filled out by 4270 classroom teachers representative of rural and urban school systems, of every size and grade level, and of the various geographic regions of the United States. Replies were received from everyone of the 48 states. WThile the situation for the nation as a whole turns up in a rather favorable light, sheer big ness of the education enterprise and trouble with pupils seem to go hand in hand. Teachers in big school districts, in big schools and with big classes reported significantly more trouble with pupils than teachers in email school districts in small schools and with small classes. This was one of the clearest and most def inite relationships established by the study. Evidence indicates mat wnen class size moves zrom 30 to 40 pupils, problems tend to double. Teachers in the larg est cities reported over twice as many trouble makers per class room as those in the smaller cities. Bigness Is Factor A similar pattern was obtained on the question, "During the past 12 months has any act of vio lence against you been commit ted by a pupil in your school?" Less than one per cent answered affirmatively in cities under 5000 population. On the other hand, 3.3 per cent of the teach ers in cities over 500,000 popu lation, said "yes." Over 28 per cent of the teachers in school districts containing 1,000,000 or more people reported at least one act of physical violence against a faculty member in their school had occurred in the past 12 months. An evaluation of 18 acts of misbehavior occurring now as compared with 10 years ago and 20 years ago Indicates that three Two Return Mrs. Marvin JacObsen and small son, Dana Lee, 344 North Ivy street, have returned to Med ford after spending two weeks with friends and relatives in the Los Angeles area. Mrs. Jacob- sen formerly lived in southern California. Dr. R. C. Kedzie, who became professor of chemistry at Michi gan State University in 1863, im ported the first sugar beets into Michigan. LUGGAGE SALE! 1 msy to So we are reducing a large group of individual bags and sets 50 BAGS TO CHOOSE FROM! These are all from our regular stock. This is your big chance to save on vacation luggage. GREEN STAMPS WITH EVERY PURCHASE yirk's 314 East Main acts impertinence and diseour testy to teachers, failure to do homework and other assignments and drinking intoxicants are definitely occurring more fre quently now than they did 10 years ago. These three, plus steal ing of a serious nature, sex of fenses and cheating on home work, are definitely occurring more frequently now than they did 20 years ago. Again, the situ ation appears to be considerably worse in the large school dis tricts, the large schools and in urban areas than in small schools and districts and in rural areas. The actors most frequently as sociated with misbehavior in school, in the opinions of class room teachers are related to the home and family life of the chil dren and youth. When asked to rank causes of misbehavior, irre sponsible parents, unsatisfactory home conditions, lack of parental supervision due to mother work ing and lack of training in moral and spiritual values headed the list in that order. Ranked 5 through 8 were lack of special classes for academically retard ed pupils, lack of special classes for those of low intelligence. overcrowded classes and In creased availability of automo biles to teenagers. Sew-Easiest! Beginner-easy jiffy-sew no waistline seam! Popular deep-yoke fashion for the Jr. Miss.' Strictly the rage this sea son the bloused bodice eased into fullness by soft gather! Nip-in the waistline with your favorite belt! Sew it, wear It right away! Pattern 9389: Jr. Miss Sizes 9, 11, 13, 15, 17. Sizes IS takes 5V yards 35-inch fabric. This easy-to-use pattern gives perfect fit. Complete, illustrated Sew Chart shows you every step. Send Thirty-five cents in coins for this pattern add 5 cenU for each pattern for lst-class mail ing. Send to Marian Martin care of Medford Mail Tribune, Pat tern Dept., 232 West 18th St., New York 11, N.Y. Print plain ly NAME, ADDRESS with SIZE and STYLE NUMBER. Luggage Repairing if tiriii&itfet L 1 ! I 5 off! Luncheon Meeting Held on Wednesday By Townsend Club Twentv members and visitor! attended the weekly meeting of Medford Harmony Townsend club Wednesday. A potluck luncheon was served prior to the business meeting. C. E. Naffziger presided. The Washington News Flash was read by Mrs. Josephine Whaley. Piano numbers were given by Mrs. Marie Kilbourn, a guest at tending. There will be no meeting on Wednesday, July 4. A special district council meet ing for Sunday, July p. will be announced in full detail prior to that date. 1 CHEESE BURGERS To make blue-cheese burgers grill or broil seasoned hamburg ers until almost done. Spead tops with following topping and fin ish broiling. 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