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"Poor Joe drew a dud when he
married Jane. She leans on him
for everything." '
"The way Marily babies Jack
is terrible. That guy won't lift a
finger to help himself."
The divorce courts, the mar
riage counselling eliices, and the
doctor's consulting rooms are
full of over-dependent people
who have forgotten that marri
age is a cooperative enterprise.
A good marriage is one in
which two individuals strive to
satisfy and fulfill the needs, not
only of themselves, but also of
the other partner. It has been
said that a mutual love is an in
surance for happiness, because
such a love doubles security
against the pains and conflicts of
the outside world. Troubles are
less formidable when Jane and
Joe face them together, each
drawing strength from and sup
plementing', the powers of the
other.
"When the balance between
two elements in the love bond is
unequal," says Dr. Karl Men
ninger in his "Love Against
Hate," when one party or the
other is deficient in his capacity
to give love, the other partner is
imposed upon and unconsciously
resents it. In such instances we
speak of a husband being bur
dened with an over-dependent
wife, or vice versa."
In other words, when a part
ner withdraws her or his emo
tional support and cooperation
from a marriage situation, that
individual lets his partner down
and lays him open to self-destruction,
and the marriage to
ruin.
"The sense of achievement,"
ayf Dr. Menninger," which
springs from proper reception of
his ideas, his love, his construe-
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him, but it does more; it affords
him an opportunity to give love
that is welcomed, and makes him
capable of more and more love,
and hence of less and less hate
and feelings of guilt."
Ideal marriage is one in which
the partners are cooperatively
dependent as well as construc
tively independent of each other.
sharing each others' problems
and strength.
Girl Scout Camp
Registrations
Still Available
There are still openings at
Camp Low Echo for both scouts
and non-scout campers, accord
ing to a statement from Girl
Scout headquarters. Registra
tion can be made at the Scout
House in Medford.
Open house will be held at
Low Echo Sunday, July 1 from
11 a.m. until 4 p.m. Families
are to bring picnic lunches, and
coffee and punch will be served
in the main lodge. Members of
the camp committee will lead
tours around the camp.
Men workers are still badly
needed this week end, it is stat
ed. The metal roofing on the
lodge must be completed, and
there is still maintenance work
and some trees to be cleared.
Men without families will not
need to take food. Cots and mat
tresses are available, but work
ers must take bed rolls.
Plans Announced
For Annual Picnic
The annual picnic will be held
by Zion Lutheran church con
gregation and guild members
Sunday, July 1, at the Girl Scout
day camp site. It will be held
at 11 a.m. following the usual
Sunday school classes. '
Those attending are to take a
picnic lunch and table service:
coffee, punch and ice cream will
be provided.
A program of sporta will be
arranged.
To Convention
Mr. and Mrs. Dwaine Smith
will leave tomorrow morning for
San Francisco to attend the west
ern states convention sponsored
by the California Photographers
association. Mr. and Mrs. Smith,
who operate Classic studios here,
will return to Medford July 4.
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MdiT. June 29. I95S
Society
Thrifty Elizabeth
Wears Same Frocks
'Bought Last Year
By MARGARET SAVILLE
United Press Correspondent
London (U.R) Queen Eliza
beth II is making do with last
year's summer cottons at
least for wear around the house.
Britain's economy - minded
queen, one of the richest wo
men in the world, is bringing
out the inexpensive cotton
frocks she bought for her Niger
ian tour last year. She plans to
wear them in the palace gardens
on hot days.
But some new clothes also
must be in order, for the Queen
has on schedule a state visit to
Sweden in June. She and the
Duke of Edinburgh will sail in
to Stockholm on the royal yacht
"Brittania," to be guests of King
Gustaf Adolf and Queen Louise.
Many of the clothes she has
ordered from fashionable May
fair salons are in the pastel
shades, favored by many chic
European women this summer.
The Queen's selections in
clude on afternoon dress of
primrose lace, a crinoline skirt
ed evening gown of several
shades of rosy chiffons, a pearl
grey suit and an ivory-white
silk coat and dress.
With her characteristic thrift,
the Queen will wear these again
at home for such events as As
cot race week, the Buckingham
palace garden-parties, the char
ity balls and debutante dances.
Princess Margaret prefers yel
lows for her new summer
clothes. One new dress is of pale
gold silk, with high draped cum
merbund waistline and a wide
skirt. She wears it with a match
ing fabric hat, and champagne
colored mink jacket when it is
cool.
Convention Honors
Taken by Oregon;
Meeting Planned
Oregon shared in the honors
at the international convention
of Epsilon Sigma Alpha sorority
convention held in Albuquerque,
N. M., earlier this month.
Mrs. George Marling, Bend,
state president, was appointed
chairman of the rushing work
shop committee and several Ore
gon chapters received prizes.
Beta Epsilon, Portland, re
ceived an award for the most re
activated members and also took
third place in education. Gamma
Mu, Albany, took third place in
chapter history. Gamma Xi,
Portland, third in the song con
test. The state won first place for
the most reactivated members.
Delegates to the convention
included Mrs. Tom Markris and
Mrs. Robert Shangle of Alpha
Lambda. Medford. Mrs. Chet
Jines, Grants Pass and Mrs. Fred
Stammen, Eugene, both former
members of the Medford chap
ter, also attended.
Memphis. Tenn., was chosen
the convention city for 1957.
Alpha Lamba chapter will
hold a special meeting Monday,
July 2, at 8 p.m. in the home of
Mrs. Lyman Smith, 317 Howard
street.
The Leather Industries of Am
erica said white shoes are mak
ing a national comeback this
summer. They either are all
white or white combined with
other color ....
Jackson, Mich. U.R) Mrs.
Mabel Moore, 78, broke her right
leg in a fall to the sidewalk after
colliding with a hit-and-run pe
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President and Mrs.
Eisenhowers to
Anniversary At
By PATRICIA WIGGINS
United Prass Correspondent
Washington U.R) Presi
dent and Mrs. Eisenhower will
celebrate their 40th wedding an
niversary at their farmhouse
Sunday in a settting far remov
ed from the two - room Army
quarters where they set up
housekeeping as. a first lieuten
ant and his 19-year-old bride.
The President and first lady
will observe the anniversary
with an exchange of personal
gifts. But probably the one thing
making each happiest about the
date is their stay at the Gettys
burg, Pa., farm itself a further
step in the President's recovery.
Mr. Eisenhower's "promotion"
to the farm house from Walter
Reed hospital could give them
the same kind of boost they felt
when his promotion to first
lieutenant came through 40
years ago on their wedding day.
Mr. Eisenhower's convales
cence at the white frame and
fieldstone farm house, incident
ally, may well be longer than
the 10 days leave he got for his
honeymoon back in 1916.
Honeymoon Short
Then, tension on the Mexican
border and a rising threat of war
with Germany kept the honey
moon short and also caused the
young couple to move up their
wedding day from November to
July.
Lt. Eisenhower then was a 29-year-old
officer fresh from West
Point on his first Army assign
ment at Fort Sam Houston, Tex.
The moved-up wedding meant
the successful end of his cam
paign for the hand of Denver's
popular Mamie Geneva Doud.
The campaign had begun Jess
than one year before.
Lt. Eisenhower met his future
bride when her family was
spending the summer of 1915 in
San Antonio, just a few miles
from his Army post. The persist
ent young officer soon narrowed
the field of competition and
they became unofficially en
gaged on Valentine's day the
50th Anniversary
To Be Observed
Mr. and Mrs. James F. Neeley
of Medford will observe their
golden wedding anniversary
with reception Sunday, July 1.
It will be held at the home of
their son-in-law and daughter,
Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Snoop, 130
White Oak drive, between two
and five o'clock.
Mr. and Mrs. Neeley, who
came to the valley many years
ago from Texas, formerly lived
on the Jacksonville highway. For
the past two years they have
been traveling.
Scholarship
Robert Pearson, former Med
ford High school student, has
been awarded a scholarship at
the University of Nevada by the
Armanko Office Supply com
pany, a release from the school
states. Young Pearson, who was
graduated from high school here
in 1948. is i son of Mr. and Mrs.
Glen Pearson.
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Dwight Eisenhower
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Farm Home
next year. His present to her
was a full-sized copy of his
West Point class ring amethyst
set in gold.
Official Engagement
The official engagement was
announced St. Patrick's day. By
that time Lt. Eisenhower had
stretched his $167 a month sal
ary to buy his fiancee a ring
with a small diamond cluster.
Mamie Doud became Mrs.
Eisenhower at high noon that
July 1 in a small family wed
ding at what later became the
"summer White House" in Den
ver. She had no attendants and
wore the gown which is now on
display in the Smithsonian In
stitution a floor-length chan-
tilly lace with tight sleeved bo
lero jacket and a wide pink
satin cummerbund.
Two Pretty Squares
Two graceful squares of filet
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Nation's TeacKers Say
Youth Generally Good
Washington, D. C. Any gen
eral assumption that children
and youth of this generation
have "gone to the dogs" is a
serious mistake according to evi
dence in the report of a study
released here Thursday by the
National Education association
(NEA). Admittedly, the report
concludes, there are trouble spots
and serious conditions in many
communities and schools, but the
picture for the nation as a whole
is not nearly as bad as has been
painted.
The study provides ample evi
dence that the great majority of
boys and girls are not juvenile
delinquents. Nearly two-thirds
(64 per cent) of the public school
teachers of the United States re
port that real trouble makers ac
count for fewer than one in every
100 of their pupils: 92 per cent
say behavior in their commun
ities is not as bad as the im
pression given by press, radio
and the movies; and 95 per cent
describe the pupils they teach
as either "exceptionally well be
haved" or "reasonably well be
haved" as a group.
Surrey Extensive
- The 60-page . report, entitled
"Teacher Opinion on Pupil Be
havior," was prepared by the
NEA Research Division in co
operation with the NEA Com
mission for the Defense of De
mocracy Through Education. It
is based on questionnaires filled
out by 4270 classroom teachers
representative of rural and urban
school systems, of every size and
grade level, and of the various
geographic regions of the United
States. Replies were received
from everyone of the 48 states.
WThile the situation for the
nation as a whole turns up in a
rather favorable light, sheer big
ness of the education enterprise
and trouble with pupils seem to
go hand in hand. Teachers in
big school districts, in big schools
and with big classes reported
significantly more trouble with
pupils than teachers in email
school districts in small schools
and with small classes. This was
one of the clearest and most def
inite relationships established by
the study. Evidence indicates
mat wnen class size moves zrom
30 to 40 pupils, problems tend
to double. Teachers in the larg
est cities reported over twice as
many trouble makers per class
room as those in the smaller
cities.
Bigness Is Factor
A similar pattern was obtained
on the question, "During the past
12 months has any act of vio
lence against you been commit
ted by a pupil in your school?"
Less than one per cent answered
affirmatively in cities under
5000 population. On the other
hand, 3.3 per cent of the teach
ers in cities over 500,000 popu
lation, said "yes." Over 28 per
cent of the teachers in school
districts containing 1,000,000 or
more people reported at least
one act of physical violence
against a faculty member in their
school had occurred in the past
12 months.
An evaluation of 18 acts of
misbehavior occurring now as
compared with 10 years ago and
20 years ago Indicates that three
Two Return
Mrs. Marvin JacObsen and
small son, Dana Lee, 344 North
Ivy street, have returned to Med
ford after spending two weeks
with friends and relatives in the
Los Angeles area. Mrs. Jacob-
sen formerly lived in southern
California.
Dr. R. C. Kedzie, who became
professor of chemistry at Michi
gan State University in 1863, im
ported the first sugar beets into
Michigan.
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acts impertinence and diseour
testy to teachers, failure to do
homework and other assignments
and drinking intoxicants are
definitely occurring more fre
quently now than they did 10
years ago. These three, plus steal
ing of a serious nature, sex of
fenses and cheating on home
work, are definitely occurring
more frequently now than they
did 20 years ago. Again, the situ
ation appears to be considerably
worse in the large school dis
tricts, the large schools and in
urban areas than in small schools
and districts and in rural areas.
The actors most frequently as
sociated with misbehavior in
school, in the opinions of class
room teachers are related to the
home and family life of the chil
dren and youth. When asked to
rank causes of misbehavior, irre
sponsible parents, unsatisfactory
home conditions, lack of parental
supervision due to mother work
ing and lack of training in moral
and spiritual values headed the
list in that order. Ranked 5
through 8 were lack of special
classes for academically retard
ed pupils, lack of special classes
for those of low intelligence.
overcrowded classes and In
creased availability of automo
biles to teenagers.
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Luncheon Meeting
Held on Wednesday
By Townsend Club
Twentv members and visitor!
attended the weekly meeting of
Medford Harmony Townsend
club Wednesday. A potluck
luncheon was served prior to
the business meeting.
C. E. Naffziger presided. The
Washington News Flash was
read by Mrs. Josephine Whaley.
Piano numbers were given by
Mrs. Marie Kilbourn, a guest at
tending. There will be no meeting on
Wednesday, July 4.
A special district council meet
ing for Sunday, July p. will be
announced in full detail prior
to that date.
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cheese; blend well with i cup
softened butted, k teaspoon dry
mustard, li teaspoon dry mus
tard, teaspoon salt and 2
teaspoons Worcestershire sauce.
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