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THE OREGON 1 SUNDAY JOURNAL, PORTLAND, SUNDAY I.IORmNG, APRIL 21, 1C07. 7 r?r Charlee Byng-Hall. " IN. April 11. Consuelo Van' ii;rbllt, Duchess of Marlborough. las now practically completed l iana for a unique charity on Mcale. She haa done It o quiet t u.e facta are made known now for ;.i.t time. The ducbeea hasn t i the directorate of the-ohurch ... aa aonie American papers have i say inc. nor la aha going to work in iunki, nor to devote her time and i.-v to It. She has. It Is true, given f h!p to the army "firewood de-.- s ment" for several years, but so have r v other aristocratic women or jsng l. No, the charity on which she has t embarked la her own. She la the .mm head in planning, In manage This new benevolent enterprise of the , hess takes the form of a home In i.don for women and children of a n. lal and previously almost neglected .ml They are the wlvea and children r imprisoned criminals innocent sur fers for the misdeeds of husbands and tiers and to make a home "tor them, r at least some of them, the Duchess r Marlborough baa Just taken a 21- re lease of a roomy building In .dslelgh. street St Pancraa. This is w being entirely reconstructed by r orders, and negotiations are also in i ogress for the two bulldinga on either le. When all these nave been opened, .,1 time has proved theli1 usefulness. e duchess, out of her American mil' : ns may erect special bulldinga or add ;r her leases the adjoining houses on : : 9 same block. For with her this la . .it a new charitable occupation of the i.enten season, nor the passing and rcd duty of a great lady of the land, t a lifework In carrying out which .e hopes to solve one of London's ,Hny aortal problems. , . s 1 ue to Family Troubles. Headers, of course, are familiar with family troubles of -the Duke and tiehess of Marlborough. The duchess i the friendship of Queen Alexandra, v marriage ber aunt la the Marchlon- s of Lansdowne, wife of the former .reign minister. Ehe Is the acknowl-.-a leader among women In political ciety. Lady Lansdowne t Is also a rat friend of the queen,' and may ortly become mistress of the robes at iirt- The queen and Lady Lansdowne -e ply sympathise with the ducheea hey have cheered ber up and advised r on more than one occasion. Soon after the estrangement between e Marlborough, the queen suggested nt the duchess devote ber time to irfl work tn order to get her mind off r troubles. Her mother, Mr. O- H. P. Imont, was with the duchess at the me and together they went to the hurcb army and had a talk with Its -u1er, the Rev. Wilson Carl lie. The it-hens wanted occupation which would t bring her before the public Mr. .trill took her to No. Banner street, t. Luke's, where In the midst of the ty slums the army has its .; little ranch devoted to the aid of prisoners' Ives and families. The work is ear- j on in a modest way without publlo y by Mrs. Hodder, wife of Captain ..Ider, the man In charge of the fire ord department of the Church Army.! The ducheae waa asked to help, and !p she did. Be went feverishly Into! e work. She bought 200 blankets, ooo yards of cottons to be made Into eet and underclothing, boots and oea everything In fact that Mrs. .drier said was needed. And she be- i n visiting the wlvea of the Jail birds. ickety stairs and noisome slums aha imbed by the score. Dark, evll-emell-g and evil-looking alleys and tumble- wn rookeries knew her. - Then Mrs. Belmont stepped In and 'opped her. It waa dangerous work, .ere was not only fear of Infection, ut fear that she would give way phys- ally under the heavy self-imposed iska. There "waa no thought, on the A Dying Race : Australian Bushnien J1HE race of the red Indian In this I country Is usually pictured aa a I pathetic instance of a dying peo- pie, . yet the Indiana have I in creased rather than diminished in .imbera during the past 10 years. On .e other hand, several important racea re swiftly passing out of existence, nd will soon be known to history only, f thee tho most interesting ia. per- .pa. the race of aboriginal black of uatralia and the islands close to the nallest . of the , world' continental .asses of land. . Scientists estimate at another century will see tho last r the Australian " Their customs are very different from hose of the black race of Africa, and ' 1 evident that the migration must tv taken place thousand of year irk. If tho Australian black a did not in iblt their native soil at a time when a trail waa Joined to the Asian main nd by a narrow chain of lofty moun ilns whose rocky tops even now 11 not ery far below the surface of the Pacific ean.- ' ' - S " '""'" Aa far as religious feeling go the ustrallan black employs devil worship . i it crudest form. ' Tho devil, or Jlngy." aa the native term . th evil irlt, 1 constantly ' avoided," and the . .irlou fact that th black never stops i any on camp for more than three i ye ia baaed on the supposition that a devil 1 always on his track hunting m. The number three I th rnystlo xuro in the dull .brain of these na ve, and the "rule of three" is th One r which their every act i governed, hue they stay in eaclrbush-camp for iree daya. They dig three grave for ich dead native ia order to " fool Jingy.'i The body is placed in th mld- grave upon a thick bed of leave and i ie knees are tied up Against tho breast - 1th lashlr.gs of tree bough and the j.rmi are crossed over th breaut The t rad la turned toward the east and In iris the native worship of the sun la i Ume visible. : Spears and tho dead mn's boomerang are piled on top the ich of earth thrown over tho grave and s burial Is done with. . The black man ' Australia can count ap to three, but ond that hla brain seems Impossible load. - -.. " Me race la anything but a handsome . and is made even horrible in ap nince by a nunrber of deforming cum v The men are rudely tatooed, and 1 places frequently fester and turn bad anrea. The women ahow the i shoulder and breast which haa queer sip of flesh, nearly white in color, n gtrl child la born th women it and. with aharp fllnta, gash the t shoulder and breast and white sand put Into the wounds. On healing tushes turn almost white and n hideous lumps. These ere the dls nve marks of beauty and fashion for "i'H black of Australia. " li h the males their prime ornament i ear th thin splinter bone of the 1 ! of the kangaroo. This Is usu r.ir Inrhee long, and is bored .ht through the part of the nose toting the noatrila. This Is th i f a htirhelnr among these native. - Ci-t they like kangaroo, 'possum, fish, whale, seal, llurda. grub ' " fact almost anything will do. tbtiu- MM&j&r- hJl LAi4': courageous little woman's part, of at tack, perhaps murder, by some drunken ruffian In that crime-infested district. It was Christmas time, and though her strenuous work - waa stopped, the duchess continued being the good angel. 8he ordered a basket of provisions real Christmas fare to- be sent to avery family on the army's roll whose .father was la prison. It will be . remembered - that the duchess children, the Marquis of Bland ford and Lord Ivor Churchill, were taken away . from her by the duke. After Chrlstmaa this blow completely overwneimea ner. uccupaiion xor ner mind had been taken from her by Mrs. Belmont's Insistence for her welfare. Her (relatives, her friends were In despair. VAgaln Queen Alexandra came to aid the stricken young American. Her majesty sent for Mr. Carllle. "Tho duchess is Interested In -your work among prlaoners" families. she said, "bo why not turn it over to her entirely? She ta not strong enough to aid aa a helper or visitor. . But give - her this little charity of yours as a nucleua to greater things, snd she will be too busy directing the affairs and managing them to think of her troubles. Mr. Carllle Immediately followed her majesty's suggestion. - In his frantically energetic way ha rushed to Sunderland House. The duchess was at luncheon with Mr. and Mra. Belmont - Mr. Car ina joined them. He imparted aomo of his enthusiasm oven to Mr. Belmont. The duchess doubted If she could alone successfully manage such char Takei Entire Charge. Mr. Carllle waa impetuous, brusque. I cannot help that," he said. "It Is turned over absolutely to you. Do with it what you will. I have nothing more to do with It. I will help you, of course, if you want advice. But it ia yours from now on to do with It aa yon like." - The queen sent privately for the ducheea. The two talked for an hour or more In Buckingham palace not as highly placed ladles, but aa women. Next day the Duchess of Marlborough motored with her mother down to No. ( Banner street and took over ; the a, these careless, laiy people often, tarve to death whore human beinga of even fair Intelligence would not experi ence any hardships. When food Is plen ty they stuff until 111 and and waste more thaa they eat '':"" - ' "' The weapons used for tho chase and war are the earn and very poor. Aa a matter of . fact the Australian blacks never put up any fight against the white men. They are not fit to be compared with the American red men, but ran like rabbi ta from the first white settler. They rank among the lowest of the human racea. being above only the pigmies In Central Africa and the THERE have been many lovely women, from the "divinely fair" Helen of Troy -to the lateat beauty whoso pictured charm in - the shop window set thousands of susceptible heart going plt-a-pat; but is doubtful whether any of them all have been more richly dowered by na than ha two Irish airla whose ra- mnA intoxicating loveliness burst on an atonlana woria ana sei n summ a century and a hair ago. iney nave h, Ai,f but the memorv of their brief and brilliant career of conquest 1 almost a f resn aa wnen tneir amnes thawed cold and cynical Horace Walpole Into a rapture of enthusiasm, and made kin hn nrofesaed to be Droof against female fascinations, declare they were the nenaomest women oiive. Maria and Elisabeth (or Betty) Gun ning were the daughter of a thriftless t.ia milreen. whoaa life waa aoent in playing hide-and-seek with writ-servers. and whose conversation was mienaraea with boast of th Plantagenet blood In hi vein and of hi girls "th love liest lr. In all th world!": while their mother was a vain, vapouring woman whose chief anxiety in life was to remind everyone sne met mat ane waa the sister of a viscount and a kins woman of Lord Sllgo. In a home which was little better than "gloririen Dam, wim Dauirr a con stant visitors, and under the training of a.tk ti,r,nla the two TrisK mslda vrew from childhood into a young womanhood of dassltng beauty, tne toasts and Heart breakers of all th squlreene for miles around Castle Coote, In Roscommon; ma vhn Maria waa 1? and .hep a year younger, their parenta scraped a Tew pOUnas lURCitrer w IBBW Ultra CO Dublin and introduce tbem to such society a It had to offer. The Rage of Dublin. ;; ; -. 'Around these early day of their debut in the' world of fashion many pictur esque romance, have been woven. Maria, It ia said, soon mad the ac quaintance of an unprincipled adven turer called Feversham, and wa eloping with him to England when she was saved by the accident of th chaise ar riving too late for the pocket On her crestfallen return Journey she met at a wavBldo boatelrv Ann Jtallamv. the. aa- ex, " ' ' 1 I " , - v ALtertT XaTH. fTO V c i " . I I i tjMaa"""" tz-a-- "' 'L0PGWGYCH0?PINO 1 ' W 5UG6 KTED THE - WOOD 1V3 TH"E ' ; SsJUCHE5S OPtmMWWGB FOR MINyV . jwCmLPREN OF - ffXr XZ' -"" ft & C:i( V " U t f ( JQ J - - l Y il ' .ttHVVVU " . ' ' 1 . V-'.' " ' ' -i . . ' ' " " " ' - . L ' . Church Army's little nuafeus aa her own, her vary own charity. , There fol lowed many daya of hard office work. And it waa on one of these days that the new project of the -duchess, now being carried out, waa bom. . tree people of the Philippine Islands. They use a stone-beaded spear, weak and short but are quick in thrusting and throwing with theae weapons. 1 The boomerang, or klley, ia the only inter esting weapon they have, and with the eodja, or atone hatchet- are the .only weapons ' they have Invented : when turned out by white settlers. - They never wore clothee in their nat ural atate, but occasionally a kangaroo skin ia put on by chiefs aa an ornament or sign of power and pride. The babies are swung on the mother back tn a skin - of kangaroo called the "booka." The men are allowed all the wlvea that tress, who not only cured her of her infatuation, but , Introduced . her to Thomas Sheridan, th manager of the Dublin theatre; and Sheridan eem to hav provided from hi stage wardrobe the dresses in which th slater made their curtsies to the lord lieutenant at Dublin eaatle. They had certainly not been many day In the Irish capital be fore their beauty and grace had taken it by storm, and every man, from the viceroy to the chairmen and porter, fell a slave to their fascinations. When the girls danced at the castle ball their conquest was triumphant and complete, "With Betty a with Maria. wrltea Mr. Frankfort Moore, 'the art of the dance had become part of her na ture. Her languorous eyes were In eympathy with the voluptuous move ment of her feet and lithe body, and the curves made by her arm formed an Invisible chain that held everyone en tranced. Tho cares of her finger, tho coyness of her curtate," th allurement of herenovement all th grace and charms Inwoven that make tip the poem of the minuet became visible by the art of that exquisite girl, until all oth er dancers' became commonplace by comparison.' ; st , Soon not only Dublin, but all Ireland (for their fame spread fast snd far), was raving over, th . new-found beanttes, who. like twin refulgent stars, had flamed Into the social nrmament and paled every other 'luminary. But Ireland waa too poor a province for the mother ambition.' Her daughters, she aid. muat go to London, where danllng coronet were to be won, end to London he speedily took them with borrowed money.- ' ,'4 .' Take London Society J Storm. Thus It waa that In June. 17S1, there appeared in th metropolis, to quote Horace Walpole. "two Irish girl of no fortune, who make more noise than any of their predecessors sine the day of Helen." And Indeed thl wa a 'tailld, statement of the sensation caused by the "fair Hibernlana," whos fm had preceded them. Bo : great wa th furor they caused that tney couia not take a walk without being followed by such a crowd of admirer that they were eBranalla . ta but a retreat In Banner street is a big whitewashed building the Houseless Poor ' asylum. This waa started in. lSlt .and the orig inal work ia still carried on. but by the Church Army, which baa Its kindling wood brigade's headquarters there.. Mrs. each can support and on a man' death the women simply migrate to the' family of some other native, usually a near rel ative of the dead man. , There are now about 6,000 natives employed by white settlers in Australia near the wilder sections , of "the Interior. K V The on social function of the Aus tralian buehman waa the "korroborreea." or war dance. A cleared space of about half an acre waa always mad by th women, who piled np brushwood ao that about ZOO fire would be lighted Just after sundown. Then the males, carry ing spear and war hatchet. - would slowly danc around and In between the fire of brushwood. On these occasions the warriors "painted themselves with a sort of whit clay and tied on-th tall of dog and etuck emu feather In their woolly hair.' r? - ; .- , "There were mob at their door to see them get into ; their ' . chairs," ay a chronicler, "and peopl go early to et place at the theatre when it 1 known that they will be there."- i - Great noble vied with each other for their smile, and a royal prince, the Duke of Cumberland," made open love to Maria, and waa disconsolate when hie advancea were coldly received. At Vauxhall and other places of fashion able resort they were mobbed by crowds of titled women, many of whom did not crupl to give outspoken vent to their Jealousy. "'; '' -' " ; ' "'v "' " Which of th two beautiful ' Invader waa th more beautiful waa a question which haa never been decided. From one end of London to the other It was hotly debated; life-long friend quar reled and. cam to blow over it and it waa contested with sword and pistol in many a duel at Chalk Farm and else where. Half ' the world declared . em phatically that Maria was the more lovely; the other half s stoutly pro tested that-Betty wa th fairer. Both had the nml small moutha, high fore heads, dainty aquiline noses,, and arched eyebrow; the oame exquisite blending of . "milk and roses," and the same superb and graceful., figure. Of the two, Betty bad the riper and fuller charms, but Maria wa, perhaps, th more elegant . . -. ' . - . v.,., "y " The Dticheia of Hamilton. ; To Betty fell th flrt matrimonial prise; for, among her crowd of -eultora. she chose the Duke of Hamilton end Brandon, whom Walpol describe aa "debauched, extravagant and damaged In fortune and person, - but who was surely one of the most Impetuous lovers who oyer went to the altar. Bo . Im patient was he that when he could re strain his ardour no longer, he instated late one night on sending for a parson and having the nuptial knot tied at once. "The parson refused to perform the ceremony without either a license or a ring. The duke swore ho would aend for the archblehop. . At last they were married with a ring of the bed curtain at half an hour after twelve at May fair chapel,' where '. to many other hasty couple had been mad ona . "VVbaa bar eraea waa . nreaentad at CHILDREN 07- BfclTTtSJl ; PRLSOWE&A . Hodder, six years ago, personally started befriending the families of men in Jalt. The work grew to auch prop ttona that she called the attention of the Church Army to it Four roome In a building across the street were rented Real and Imaginary Burdens ' - By Carolyn Precott " : SHE has been married Just two years and . she think . ehe has all the troubles in the world, though th rest of ber friends do not seem to see thing -(n that light which make her furious! She doesn't under stand why w laugh at her 'when she applies to herself tho title, "The most overburdened woman In .the world." ' Poor little woman! Here are some of the thing that make her so pathetically unhappy; - . ,' ; . " .,? "She ha given up her girlish freedom, nd ever sine hef marriage haa been a i a . . court so' great waa th sensation she cauaed that "the . noble mob in the drawing-room clambered onto chairs snd table to get a look at her"; while her journey with her ducal husband to Scotland waa one long triumphal prog' resslon, "TOO people sitting up all night merely to see her get Into her post chaise the next morning at the door of a Yorkshire Inn where she had spent th night"-. , '.."' ' ... . . It would be difficult to imagine a more dramatic transformation than that of Betty Ounnlng from her poor, dis mantled Irish horn to tho splendor of a ducal palace, where she waa raised to a position of almost ultra-royal etate and excluslveness. The , duke and ducheae, we are told, "at their own house, walk In to - dinner before their company, sit together at the tipper end of their own table, eat off tho aame plate, and drink to nobody tfeneath the rank of an earl." She waa not destined, however, to remain Ducheea of Hamil ton long, for within a few year (In 17SS) her husband died, and 12 month later ahe wa wooed and won by Colonel Campbell . (after refusing the offer of another ducal coronet, that of Bridge water). , Already she wa losing .her charm, for Walpol apeak of her at thl time possessing ."but little re main of beauty, though not yet 1 think, above al-and-twenty." , The Ducheat of Argyll ' She had been married to Colonel Camp bell leas than two years when he suc ceeded to the dukedom of Argyll; and thus for the second time a duchess' coronet fell to th poor Irish girl whose face had been indeed her fortune. Thl title eh enjoyed for 20 years; and when she died she left behind her four sonsj of whom two became in turn Duke of Marlborough and two Duke of Argyll. To return to Maria, tho elder of the two beautiful latere, whose brilliant career waa destined to come to an early and tragic eclipse. - Maria had always frankly . declared that ah meant to have a duke at least for her husband; but her heart had the last word to aay in the matter, for eh completely lost It to the Karl of Cov entry, a handsome young peer, whose wife ah beoame ia lea . than three CHRISTMAS 'GIVEN BY TJtE DUCHEeSoJ OF W.lVimWH TO THE WlVE5 AND' and Mrs. Hodder's pet -charity estab lished there. It is this little beginning which the Duchess.of Marlborough haa takenv over for her own. Todpy's roll contains the names of over a hundred families.. . . ' ' ' "bond slave" to ber husband and hla family. ' They com to dinner at least once every two weeks and then she "aa to break her neck to think of something they like. Think of It!" She has lost 'her .independence, for every time she stay out after , It la dinner time her husband ask her erher she haa been. . She haa - been made over a happy, care-free girl to a household drudge, sewing and attending to the hundred and on household carea that' are dally cast upon her shoulder. , . And,, worst of all, her flat Is so small 1 week after her alster'a hurried and un conventlola nuptials in Mayfalr chapel. Shortly after her marriage the count ess accompanied her husband to France, where, it I euriou to learn, her beauty made little, impression. "The French," aye Walpole, whose cynicism, how ever, made hla testimony net always reliable, "would not admit that lUdy Coventry had much pretense , to . be beautiful. " Poor Lady Coventry waa un der piteous disadvantages, for beside being very silly, ignorant of the world and of .good breeding, apeaktng no French, and suffered to wear neithea red nor powder, she had that perpeluaf drawback upon her beauty her lord. who la sillier in a wiser way, and aa Ignorant" ..' ' : ; Certainly her ladyship' frinknes at time wa responsible for startling In discretions,' on on occasion when George II asked her if h wa not sorry that there were to be no more masquerade. "No," wa her answer, "I am tired of them; indeed, I am surfeited with moat London alghta. There la only one left that I want to see, and that is a coronation!" ...- '' ' . - ' . ' i ' . .. Cosmetics Cause Her Death. It would have 'been fortunate for Lady Coventry if ehe had never been al lowed to use "red" and "powder," for It la said that poisonous cosmetic not only destroyed her beauty but her life. For only eight short year waa ahe al lowed to enjoy th splendor of th position her beauty had won, and th tory of her last day 1 on of th moat pathetic la the annals of fair women, let Horace Walpole tell It "Poor Lady Coventry," he wrltee, "concluded her short race with the same attention to her looks. She lay . constantly on a couch, with a pocket glass In her hand, and when- that told her how great the change was, she took to her bed. Dur ing the last fortnight she had no light In her room but the lamp of a teakettle: and at last took things In through the curtains of her bed, without suffering them to be withdrawn. Thus died at the age Of 17 one of the most radiantly lovely women who ever walked the earth, the victim of a vanity which en deavored to Improve the supreme handi work of nature. . ..,,..'. I Consuelo would have been the Lady Bountiful, Indeed, but for the staying hand of her lieutenant, Mrs. Hodder. The very poor remain contentedly in the gutter for all time if given abund ant food 'and clothing In return or nothing. Blowly the duchess learned the science of real charity: learned how to reclaim the lowest of the low. In a week she waa not the fine lady, but tho superintendent of tho Prisoners' Fami lies Aid society, with Mra Hodder aa her assistant superintendent. Daily sho attended the office and da Friday morn ings she held the weekly levee. On that day atl the mothers and their children on the roll have to attend and report At the dally sesalona only new cases or emergencies are looked after. It was after the flrat week that the , ducheea astonished her. lieutenant by outlining her plana She announced that . the society would continue In Banner street only until aha was able to secure new and proper quarters. Firstly, sho explained, there should be a building devoted to children. Hero the little ; ones should live until their father'' sentence ended and the family could once more be united. Here they should be taught to work, to read and write and to ploy.'" ' Tho next item of tho duchess' plan was a maternity homo, properly and thoroughly equipped aa a real home, rather than a eoid. whitewashed matei- . nlty hospital, ' . ' Lastly, sho declared she ' would have ' a woman's home. Here prisoner's wives were to bo housed, at least those whose health or condition needed something , better than the wretched accommoda tion of a single dingy room or. filthy hoveL And hero there should be an employment bureau and skilled women to teach tneae prisoners' wlvea sewing, domestic economy, ironing, artificial flower making and such like simple in dustries. .., v ., t ' -. ' w Rent Big Apartment Vi "s - For -many a day the duchess, Mra r Belmont and Mrs. Hodder drove round In tho duchess' motor-car visiting ad dresses of suitable buildings given them by real estate agents.. None: suited until Kndslelgh ; street was reached There are situated some largo house almost under the shadow, of the - old gray church of St Pancraa. No. 1 wad vacant It contains 14 large rooms and la four etorles in height In addition to a commodious basement The two housea on each aide are. at present occu pied, though ona la "to bo let" So Che -duchess closed the deal for No. II. buy ing the lease, which haa 11 ' years to -run. The tenants of one of the other housea want tl.000 before they agreo to move, and with other little anags tn . sight Consuelo ha handed the matter . over to an agent and will gO ahead with . the one house. The four big , room now rented In Banner atreet will be. continued until such time as the duchess decides to move everything to Endaleigh street". But her office, the headquarter of her new charity, will be moved at once to No. It, and' there also will be estab lished the employment bureau. On tho register of names to be kept there wilt ' also, be placed the-'occupation t beet v suited to each woman. The duchesa will -then advertise In the dally paper or . her little office staff will answer adver- - tlsements. Many of the wqmen. If they an do nothing else, will ' go ' into do mestic service, knowing full well that ' their children are comfortable and well cared for at .ha Chlldren'a home. - The entire responsibility, r-xnehao and management will be In the hands of tho " ducheas. Sho may ask the aid of help era from the Church Army from, tho ' dainty dames of . high society or ah may be satisfied with the simple help - ' of the woierr-to whom she lias now become the guardian" and ministering . angeL that she can't even have an . afternoon tea. . : .-.'. i I . : Isn't ' this' poor little woman ' to-be pitied T :.- -.t. ".'' - " And yet all her friends had about made up tbelr minds that she ' ought to be the happiest tittle woman In the world, with her handsome, worshiping husband and her pretty ljjttle electric lighted, team heated apartment -the nicest . In the two cltlee, but ' people' Idea of happlneea differ, evidently. ' . The woman belonged to tlv club, waa. an- Inveterate matinee-goer, kept one maid and had a conscientious . dream maker. ' It thla ought not to make a woman happy. I .do not. know, what WOUld. " . v. "V-" .- We had alwaye imagined that ehe had a pretty good time, and were amased to hear her complaint ',' "She haa too good a time. ' That'a what la tl.e matter wita her," my friend exclaimed. . And perhaps she's right There la auch a thing aa failure to real ise one's blessing In an overaupply oC them. Nv ' .- - ,' ; ' . .. . Thla I probably th secret of a great deal of the dlacontent In thl world., specially among women.' If they were to contrast their live with thoee of com of the women In this world they might learn a lesson that -would do' them a great deal of good. Think of the German peasant women, for instance, who are frequently yoked with oxen and are compelled to plow the fields, or of the Bavarian-fagot gath erera, who dally etagger under loads that would teat the strength of a horse; or of the women hodoarriers of Munich, or of those other Oerman women who labor as roadmenders.- Think -of tho Italian women who act aa express carrier, ear- ' rytng heavy load upon their head or lugaing them In heavily constructed carta, or even of the women who work In Austrian mines, bringing from the dark earth the heavy loads of coal. And right here In our ' own country, think of tne hundreds of women who wear out their Jives In sweatshops and mill for 11 or SO cent a day, scarcely nough to keep the body and soul alive. ' Oh. woman, woman! Tour matrimonial burden are generally aa light and .rothy as th foam of the Ice cream soda watv and would vanish Jtiat a quickly In tne iac or real trouDi. Few American women know what real burden are. They live a care-free, happy existence, for tho American husband as a class Is the beet, husband tn the world and the American wife I The luckiest woman In the world. And the sooner she find this out the better. The life of the French wife I not at all what on might fancy It neither le . the Briwah matron's life jail - beer and skittles. The Oerman "hdusfrau" must work and work, no matter how wealthy her lord and master may be. but the American wife haa within her grasp the power to make but of life almost anything she wants. If. as my friends say. "she knows, when she's well off." It 1 asserted that death by starvation I sot painful. But thl should not de ter any one from sending the starving Chinese food. " . ,