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LEGAL NOTICES IN THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE STATE OF OREGON FOR LANE COUNTY Juvenile Department. In the Matter of APOLLO ALEXANDER GILLILAND, A Child. Case No. 24JU04509 PUBLISHED SUMMONS TO: Macy Chantel Orth IN THE NAME OF THE STATE OF OREGON: A peti- tion has been filed asking the court to terminate your parental rights to the above-named child under ORS 419B.500, 419B.502, 419B.504, 419B.506 and/or 419B.508 for the purpose of placing the child for adoption. YOU ARE REQUIRED TO PERSONALLY APPEAR before the Lane County Circuit Court, 2727 Martin Luther King Jr., Blvd., Eugene, Oregon 97401, on May 1, 2025 at 10:00 A.M. for a hearing on the allegations of the petition and to per- sonally appear at any subsequent court-ordered hearing. YOU MUST APPEAR PERSONALLY in the courtroom on the date and at the time listed above. AN ATTORNEY MAY NOT ATTEND THE HEARING IN YOUR PLACE. THEREFORE, YOU MUST APPEAR EVEN IF YOUR ATTORNEY ALSO APPEARS. This sum- mons is published pursuant to the order of the circuit court judge of the above-enti- tled court, dated February 6, 2025. The order directs that this summons be pub- lished once each week for three consecu- tive weeks, making three publications in all, in a published newspaper of general circulation in Lane County. Date of first publication: April 10, 2025 Date of last publication: April 24, 2025 NOTICE READ THESE PAPERS CAREFULLY If you do not appear personally before the court as directed above, then you must appear May 15, 2025, at 10:00 a.m. at the same address listed above. If you fail to appear for both dates or do not appear at any subsequent court-ordered hearing, the court may proceed in your absence and, without further notice, TERMINATE YOUR PARENTAL RIGHTS to the above-named child either on the dates specified in THIS SUMMONS OR ON A FUTURE DATE and may make such orders and take such action as authorized by law. To request appointment of an attorney to represent you at state expense, you must ask the judge at the May 1, 2025, at 10:00 a.m., hearing listed in this summons. RIGHTS AND OBLIGATIONS (1) YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO BE REPRESENTED BY AN ATTORNEY IN THIS MATTER. If you are currently repre- sented by an attorney, CONTACT YOUR ATTORNEY IMMEDIATELY UPON RECEIVING THIS NOTICE. Your previous attorney may not be representing you in this matter. IF YOU WISH TO HIRE AN ATTORNEY, please retain one as soon as possible to represent you in this proceed- ing. If you need help finding an attorney, you may call the Oregon State Bar's Lawyer Referral Service at (503) 684- 3763 or toll free in Oregon at (800) 452- 7636. IF YOU CANNOT AFFORD TO HIRE AN ATTORNEY and you meet the state's financial guidelines, you are entitled to have an attorney appointed for you at state expense. TO REQUEST APPOINTMENT OF AN ATTORNEY TO REPRESENT YOU AT STATE EXPENSE, YOU MUST IMMEDIATELY CONTACT the Lane County Circuit Court at 2727 Martin Luther King Jr., Blvd., Eugene, Oregon 97401, Phone: 541-682-4020 between the hours of 8:00 a.m. and 5:00 p.m. for fur- ther information. IF YOU ARE REPRESENTED BY AN ATTORNEY, IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO MAINTAIN CONTACT WITH YOUR ATTORNEY AND TO KEEP YOUR ATTORNEY ADVISED OF YOUR WHEREABOUTS. (2) If you contest the petition, the court will schedule a hearing on the allegations of the petition and order you to appear personally and may sched- ule other hearings related to the petition and order you to appear personally. IF YOU ARE ORDERED TO APPEAR, YOU MUST APPEAR PERSONALLY IN THE COURTROOM, UNLESS THE COURT HAS GRANTED YOU AN EXCEPTION IN ADVANCE under ORS 419B.918 to appear by other means including, but not limited to, telephonic or other electronic means. An attorney may not attend the hearing(s) in your place. PETITIONER'S ATTORNEY Alex Pierce Assistant Attorney General Department of Justice, 975 Oak Street, Suite 200 Eugene, OR 97401. 541-686- 7973 ISSUED this 3rd day of March, 2025. Issued by: Alex Pierce, OSB# 175653 Assistant Attorney General IN THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE STATE OF OREGON FOR LANE COUNTY Juvenile Department. In the Matter of LUCIAN VINCENT ASHE, A Child. Case No. 24JU05833 PUBLISHED SUMMONS TO: Gavin Noah Ashe Without Fixed Residence. IN THE NAME OF THE STATE OF OREGON: A petition has been filed asking the court to terminate your parental rights to the above-named child under ORS 419B.500, 419B.502, 419B.504, 419B.506 and/or 419B.508 for the pur- pose of placing the child for adoption. YOU support.eugeneweekly.com ARE REQUIRED TO PERSONALLY APPEAR before the Lane County Circuit Court, 2727 Martin Luther King Jr Blvd., Eugene, OR 97401, on April 3, 2025 at 10:00 A.M. for a hearing on the allegations of the petition and to personally appear at any subsequent court-ordered hearing. YOU MUST APPEAR PERSONALLY in the court- room on the date and at the time listed above. AN ATTORNEY MAY NOT ATTEND THE HEARING IN YOUR PLACE. THEREFORE, YOU MUST APPEAR EVEN IF YOUR ATTORNEY ALSO APPEARS. This summons is published pursuant to the order of the circuit court judge of the above-entitled court, dated February 9, 2025. The order directs that this sum- mons be published once each week for three consecutive weeks, making three publications in all, in a published newspa- per of general circulation in Lane County. Date of first publication: February 27, 2025 Date of last publication: March 13, 2025. NOTICE READ THESE PAPERS CAREFULLY If you do not appear personal- ly before the court as directed above, then you must appear on April 17, 2025, at 10:00 A.M., at the same address listed above. IF YOU DO NOT APPEAR PERSONALLY BEFORE THE COURT OR DO NOT APPEAR AT ANY SUBSEQUENT COURT-ORDERED HEARING, the court may proceed in your absence without further notice and TERMINATE YOUR PARENTAL RIGHTS to the above-named child either on the date specified in this summons or on a future date and may make such orders and take such action as authorized by law. RIGHTS AND OBLIGATIONS (1) YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO BE REPRESENTED BY AN ATTORNEY IN THIS MATTER. If you are currently represented by an attorney, CONTACT YOUR ATTORNEY IMMEDIATELY UPON RECEIVING THIS NOTICE. Your pre- vious attorney may not be representing you in this matter. IF YOU WISH TO HIRE AN ATTORNEY, please retain one as soon as possible to represent you in this pro- ceeding. If you need help finding an attor- ney, you may call the Oregon State Bar's Lawyer Referral Service at (503) 684- 3763 or toll free in Oregon at (800) 452- 7636. IF YOU CANNOT AFFORD TO HIRE AN ATTORNEY and you meet the state's financial guidelines, you are entitled to have an attorney appointed for you at state expense. TO REQUEST APPOINTMENT OF AN ATTORNEY TO REPRESENT YOU AT STATE EXPENSE, YOU MUST IMMEDIATELY CONTACT the Lane County Circuit Court at 2727 Martin Luther King Jr Blvd., Eugene, OR 97401, and (541) 682-4020 between the hours of 8:00 a.m. and 5:00 p.m. for further infor- mation. IF YOU ARE REPRESENTED BY AN ATTORNEY, IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO MAINTAIN CONTACT WITH YOUR ATTORNEY AND TO KEEP YOUR ATTORNEY ADVISED OF YOUR WHEREABOUTS. (2) If you contest the petition, the court will schedule a hearing on the allegations of the petition and order you to appear personally and may sched- ule other hearings related to the petition and order you to appear personally. IF YOU ARE ORDERED TO APPEAR, YOU MUST APPEAR PERSONALLY IN THE COURTROOM, UNLESS THE COURT HAS GRANTED YOU AN EXCEPTION IN ADVANCE under ORS 419B.918 to appear by other means including, but not limited to, telephonic or other electronic means. An attorney may not attend the hearing(s) in your place. PETITIONER'S ATTORNEY Rebecca Z. May Senior Assistant Attorney General Department of Justice 975 Oak Street, Ste. 200 Eugene, OR 97401 (541) 686-7973 ISSUED this 19th day of February, 2025. Issued by: Rebecca Z. May, OSB #074571 Senior Assistant Attorney General IN THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE STATE OF OREGON FOR LANE COUNTY Juvenile Department. In the Matter of LUCIAN VINCENT ASHE, A Child. Case No. 24JU05834 PUBLISHED SUMMONS TO: Esther Virginia Reyes Without Fixed Residence. IN THE NAME OF THE STATE OF OREGON: A petition has been filed asking the court to terminate your parental rights to the above-named child under ORS 419B.500, 419B.502, 419B.504, 419B.506 and/or 419B.508 for the purpose of placing the child for adop- tion. YOU ARE REQUIRED TO PERSONALLY APPEAR before the Lane County Circuit Court, 2727 Martin Luther King Jr Blvd., Eugene, OR 97401, on April 4, 2025, at 10:00 A.M. for a hearing on the allegations of the petition and to personally appear at any subsequent court-ordered hearing. YOU MUST APPEAR PERSONALLY in the courtroom on the date and at the time listed above. AN ATTORNEY MAY NOT ATTEND THE HEARING IN YOUR PLACE. THEREFORE, YOU MUST APPEAR EVEN IF YOUR ATTORNEY ALSO APPEARS. This summons is published pursuant to the order of the circuit court judge of the above-entitled court, dated February 9, 2025. The order directs that this sum- mons be published once each week for three consecutive weeks, making three publications in all, in a published newspa- per of general circulation in Lane County. Date of first publication: February 27, 2025 Date of last publication: March 13, 2025. NOTICE READ THESE PAPERS CAREFULLY If you do not appear personal- ly before the court as directed above, then you must appear on April 17, 2025, at 10:00 A.M., at the same address listed above. IF YOU DO NOT APPEAR PERSONALLY BEFORE THE COURT OR DO NOT APPEAR AT ANY SUBSEQUENT COURT-ORDERED HEARING, the court may proceed in your absence without further notice and TERMINATE YOUR PARENTAL RIGHTS to the above-named child either on the date specified in this summons or on a future date and may make such orders and take such action as authorized by law. RIGHTS AND OBLIGATIONS (1) YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO BE REPRESENTED BY AN ATTORNEY IN THIS MATTER. If you are currently represented by an attorney, CONTACT YOUR ATTORNEY IMMEDIATELY UPON RECEIVING THIS NOTICE. Your pre- vious attorney may not be representing you in this matter. IF YOU WISH TO HIRE AN ATTORNEY, please retain one as soon as possible to represent you in this pro- ceeding. If you need help finding an attor- ney, you may call the Oregon State Bar's Lawyer Referral Service at (503) 684- 3763 or toll free in Oregon at (800) 452- 7636. IF YOU CANNOT AFFORD TO HIRE AN ATTORNEY and you meet the state's financial guidelines, you are entitled to have an attorney appointed for you at state expense. TO REQUEST APPOINTMENT OF AN ATTORNEY TO REPRESENT YOU AT STATE EXPENSE, YOU MUST IMMEDIATELY CONTACT the Lane County Circuit Court at 2727 Martin Luther King Jr Blvd., Eugene, OR 97401, and (541) 682-4020 between the hours of 8:00 a.m. and 5:00 p.m. for further infor- mation. IF YOU ARE REPRESENTED BY AN ATTORNEY, IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO MAINTAIN CONTACT WITH YOUR ATTORNEY AND TO KEEP YOUR ATTORNEY ADVISED OF YOUR WHEREABOUTS. (2) If you contest the petition, the court will schedule a hearing on the allegations of the petition and order you to appear personally and may sched- ule other hearings related to the petition and order you to appear personally. IF YOU ARE ORDERED TO APPEAR, YOU MUST APPEAR PERSONALLY IN THE COURTROOM, UNLESS THE COURT HAS GRANTED YOU AN EXCEPTION IN ADVANCE under ORS 419B.918 to appear by other means including, but not limited to, telephonic or other electronic means. An attorney may not attend the hearing(s) in your place. PETITIONER'S ATTORNEY Rebecca Z. May Senior Assistant Attorney General Department of Justice 975 Oak Street, Ste. 200 Eugene, OR 97401 (541) 686-7973 ISSUED this 19 th day of February, 2025. Issued by: Rebecca Z. May, OSB #074571 Senior Assistant Attorney General IN THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE STATE OF OREGON FOR LANE COUNTY Juvenile Department. In the Matter of NORAH LUCILLE ASHE, A Child. Case No. 24JU05841 PUBLISHED SUMMONS TO: Gavin Noah Ashe Without Fixed Residence IN THE NAME OF THE STATE OF OREGON: A petition has been filed asking the court to terminate your parental rights to the above-named child under ORS 419B.500, 419B.502, 419B.504, 419B.506 and/or 419B.508 for the pur- pose of placing the child for adoption. YOU ARE REQUIRED TO PERSONALLY APPEAR before the Lane County Circuit Court, 2727 Martin Luther King Jr Blvd., Eugene, OR 97401, on April 3, 2025, at 10:00 A.M. for a hearing on the allegations of the petition and to personally appear at any subsequent court-ordered hearing. YOU MUST APPEAR PERSONALLY in the court- room on the date and at the time listed above. AN ATTORNEY MAY NOT ATTEND THE HEARING IN YOUR PLACE. THEREFORE, YOU MUST APPEAR EVEN IF YOUR ATTORNEY ALSO APPEARS. This summons is published pursuant to the order of the circuit court judge of the above-entitled court, dated February 9, 2025. The order directs that this sum- mons be published once each week for three consecutive weeks, making three publications in all, in a published newspa- per of general circulation in Lane County. Date of first publication: February 27, 2025 Date of last publication: March 13, 2025. NOTICE READ THESE PAPERS CAREFULLY If you do not appear personal- ly before the court as directed above, then you must appear on April 17, 2025, at 10:00 A.M., at the same address listed above. IF YOU DO NOT APPEAR PERSONALLY BEFORE THE COURT OR DO NOT APPEAR AT ANY SUBSEQUENT COURT-ORDERED HEARING, the court may SAVAGE to fuck you now aft er that silly and trivial thing is out in the open that you wind up having PIV sex for the fi rst time in the parking garage of your therapist’s offi ce building. BY DAN SAVAGE Worst-case scenario: Your husband agrees to therapy, MINO, but years go by before your husband fi nally levels with you about that thing you had a right to know before you married him and it’s not something silly or trivial and saying it out loud doesn’t make it go away and you have to live with the realization that you didn’t just waste years of your life on a man who couldn’t love you the way you deserved to be loved, but you wasted them on a man who could see that sexual rejection was breaking you and he didn’t love you enough to let you go. Love I’m a 28-year-old woman married to my husband, a 29-year-old man, for almost two years, and we still haven't had sex. We met through mutual friends, dated for less than a year, and we knew pretty quickly that we wanted to get married. Things between us felt right. We genuinely liked each other, and everything felt pretty great. On our wedding night, we decided to leave the hotel early to spend time with family since many had traveled far for the wedding. After the wedding, life got hectic. Before we realized it, months had passed. I initiated intimacy a few times, but we never followed through. I've brought it up multiple times, and he always says he feels self-conscious about his body but promises to try harder. We even scheduled times for intimacy, but when the time came, he was either too busy or he would ask if we could try tomorrow instead. I’ve given him oral sex and a hand- job but other than that nothing. Yes, we were both virgins on our wedding night, and I guess we still are. Every time we have a heart-to-heart, he promises to do better but nothing changes. I've stopped bringing it up because I feel like I'm nagging, but it's breaking me inside. We've talked about wanting children and when we should start trying, but it feels so painful to have those conversations when we haven't even had sex yet. I feel heart- broken watching our friends start families while we're stuck in this place. I don't know if therapy would help, or if I should involve his parents, or if I need to worry about something/someone else or if I should ac- cept that this might never change. I feel lost. Has anyone else been through something like this? What would you do? — Married In Name Only P.S. Don’t involve his parents. My husband and I have been together for a long time and we are still massively in love with each other! A few years ago, we dipped our toes into “The Lifestyle.” It was a great experience! We felt like teenagers again, inside and outside of the bedroom. The experience brought us closer, our communi- cation became stronger, and the experience encouraged a deeper, more honest form of conversation. Then COVID happened, and we closed things back up. Recently, we’ve begun discussing signing up on a few swinging apps and getting back into this. But I hesitate due to the political climate. I cannot fathom giving a piece of myself to a Trump supporter. It literally gives me an all-body ick to think about it. My husband feels the same way. Even though we still feel somewhat new to the lifestyle, we understand the diff erence between a sexy conversation and a non-sexy conversation, and we don’t think politics makes for a sexy conversation. Is it appropriate to share on our profi les that we are not interested in meeting anyone who is any way MAGA? We don’t feel a “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy is a strong enough stance to take, what with ev- erything being taken from so many during this reign of terror. I would leave. Zooming out for a second: Anyone out there who wants to be sexually active in the context of a sexually exclusive relationship needs to establish sexual compatibility before the wedding. If a good sex life isn’t important to you — if you don’t just wanna be married for the companionship and/or the tax break — don’t wait until aft er the wedding to see if the sex works. Fuck fi rst — before you get married, before you get engaged, before you go steady. Alright, MINO, there’s clearly something your husband isn’t telling you — something you had a right to know before you married him — but you need to ask yourself how much more time you’re willing to waste before you fi nd out what that thing is. Best-case scenario: Your husband agrees to therapy, MINO, and you somehow manage to fi nd the perfect therapist right away, i.e. the kind of therapist with the power to heal their clients in one or two visits. And then at your second appointment with this miracle-working therapist, MINO, your husband tells you that thing you had a right to know before you mar- ried him and it turns out to be something silly and trivial and your husband is in such a hurry — Must Avoid Grinding Against Trump Supporters Even if you put , “NO TRUMP VOTERS, NO MAGA IDIOTS,” in all caps on your ads, MAGATS, you’re still gonna have to do your screw diligence before meeting up with other couples. Research into online dating/hookups has shown that many people don’t read the text of a personal ad — people send messages to people whose photos they like — which means we can’t assume the person we’re talking to is aware of our interests, limits, boundaries, etc., just because we listed them in the text of our personal ad. Additionally, there’s nothing MAGA motherfuckers enjoy more than infl ict- ing themselves on people who want nothing to do with them — bone the libs to own the libs — which means you’ll have to ask one or two pointed/trick questions at some point between exchanging messages and swapping partners even if it seems like they read your ad. Got problems? Yes, you do! Email your question for the column to mailbox@savage. love!Or record your question for the Savage Lovecast at savage.love/askdan! Podcasts, columns and more at Savage.Love SPONSORED BY Jane Steckbeck, JD, CSC Clinical Sexologist and Certified Sex Coach www.janesteckbeck.com “Inspiring Intimacy through Empowered Sexuality March 13, 2025 21
