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SUDOKU 298 Bethel drive #458 264 8486 | @trainsonghairshop classifi eds Model: UNKNOWN; Serial: 70F21GTS11808070; Home ID No.: 206527, located at 658 S. 57th Street, Space #33, Springfield, Oregon 97478; the registered owner and former tenant are the Estate of Nancy Louise Ellis, Unknown Heirs, Devisees, and Interested Parties, and All Other Occupants. © P E A R L STA R K W W W. M AT H P U Z Z L E S G A M E S .C O M 298 Bethel drive #458 264 8486 | @trainsonghairshop NOTICE OF SALE OF ABANDONED MANUFACTURED HOME Steve R. Kim will sell the below-described manufac- tured home by private sealed bid for the highest offered received. The home has been abandoned. The home, tenant(s) and owner are described below. Bids for cash payment will be accepted until 9:00 am, November 29, 2024. Interested parties may contact Steve R. Kim by phone at 541-513-3016 to make arrangements to inspect the home. Bids may be submitted to Steve R. Kim by phone at 541-513-3016 or by mail at 1075 NW Van Buren Avenue, Corvallis, Oregon 97330 for the following manufactured home described as: Manufacturer: BENDIX; Year: 1980; Model: ELCAR; Serial: SE3531A; Home ID No.: 231074, located at 32146 Nichols Lane, Cottage Grove, Lane County, Oregon 97424; the registered owner and former tenants are the Personal Representative of the Estate of Mark Eugene Monsive, Heirs, Devisees, and Interested Parties, Personal Representative of the Estate of Devone Marie Monsive, Heirs, Devisees, and Interested Parties, All Other Occupants. TRUSTEE'S NOTICE OF SALE The Trustee under the terms of the Trust Deed described herein, at the direction of the Beneficiary, hereby elects to sell the prop- erty described in the Trust Deed to satisfy the obligations secured thereby. Pursuant to ORS 86.771, the following information is provided: 1. PARTIES: Grantor: ROBERT ALLEN POWERS SR., AS HIS SOLE AND SEPARATE PROPERTY. Trustee: WESTERN TITLE & ESCROW COMPANY. Successor Trustee: NANCY K. CARY. Beneficiary: SELCO COMMUNITY CREDIT UNION. 2. DESCRIPTION OF PROPERTY: The real property is described as follows: Lot 16, AMAZON MEADOWS, as platted and recorded June 17, 2004, Reception No. 2004-046180, Lane County Deeds and Records, in Lane County, Oregon. 3. RECORDING. The Trust Deed was recorded as follows: Date Recorded: November 27, 2006 Recording No. 2006-084934 Official Records of Lane County, Oregon. 4. DEFAULT. The Grantor or any other person obligated on the Trust Deed and Promissory Note secured thereby is in default and the Beneficiary seeks to fore- close the Trust Deed for failure to pay: The Place numbers 1-9 so that each row, column and 3x3 square has each number only once. SAVAGE Love BY DAN SAVAGE Direct from Local Author Assistance League Thrift Shop Holidays Arrive Tuesday Nov 12! Travel with Jane as she explores the world—from Antarctica to the top of Mt. Kilimanjaro. She has set foot on all seven continents. Jane spent her 81st birthday in Antarctica on December 21st — normally the shortest day of the year but the longest in the Southern Hemisphere. eugene.assistanceleague.org Read more about Jane’s travels on the Siberian Express, through Russia, Spain, Australia, the Pacifi c Crest Trail and more! 1149 WILLAMETTE TUES-SAT 12-4 Order an autographed copy, direct from author ($15 cash or check). Call 541-741-3020. DISTRIBUTION DRIVERS WANTED Eugene Weekly seeks distribution drivers to deliver papers Thursday mornings. Clean driving record, current valid insurance, Oregon driver’s license, and a reliable vehicle required. To apply, please email: circulation@eugeneweekly.com 18 November 21, 2024 I’m a man in my 30s. I have been in several serious relationships with women, but I am also attracted to men. I’m not attracted to men in any emotional way; my interest in men is purely sexual. I have kept this a secret my entire life. I guess I don’t know if I would be consid- ered bisexual or not. I do enjoy watching gay porn and I fantasize about having sex with a man, but I have turned down several oppor- tunities to be sexual with a man. Which I almost regret. I am now in a serious relationship with some- one I love. She wants to settle down, get married, and have kids. Do I owe her the truth? Or do I take this to the grave? The older I get, the harder it is to hide. My girlfriend is very supportive of the LGBTQ community. But I don’t know if she would be open to actually bringing another man into our bed or letting me experiment with another man on my own. I would love to hear your thoughts. — Truth Or Lying Daily First, you’re bisexual — you’re heteroromantic (only attracted to women romantically), TOLD, but you’re attracted to both men and women sexually. Second, one of the reasons bisex- ual people have worse mental health outcomes than straight or gay people — right up there with their own inter- nalized biphobia and the sometimes galling ignorance of monosexuals — is not being out to their romantic partners (and constantly having to hide) or having romantic partners who openly hostile to their bisexu- ality (and constantly having to apol- ogize). So, for the sake of your own mental health, TOLD, you need to tell your girlfriend the truth before you marry her. And you owe your girlfriend the truth. When you ask someone to marry you… when you ask a person to enter into an open-ended-and-hopefully-life- long romantic and sexual relationship with you… your sexual orientation is a highly relevant data point. Your girl- friend can’t meaningfully consent to marrying you — she can’t off er you her informed consent — in the absence of this information. And if what you want most is a woman who’ll let you “exper- iment” with other men (read: fuck and suck other men) with or without her, hosed, there are two way to fi nd that person: you advertise for a woman like that — and there are women who wanna watch their boyfriends and/or husbands suck dick — or you ask the woman you’re already dating if she’s a woman like that. Finally, TOLD, if you’re watching gay porn and fantasizing about having sex with men — and your dream woman is one who would welcome another man into your bed — you aren’t going to be able to take this to the grave. You might lose your girl- friend by doing the right thing and coming out to her now, TOLD, but you stand to lose a lot more if you get caught cheating on your wife with a man a decade from now. Got problems? Yes, you do! Email your question for the column to mailbox@savage. love! Or record your question for the Savage Lovecast at savage.love/askdan! Podcasts, columns and more at Savage.Love. 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