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classifi eds
Model:
UNKNOWN;
Serial:
70F21GTS11808070; Home ID No.: 206527,
located at 658 S. 57th Street, Space #33,
Springfield, Oregon 97478; the registered
owner and former tenant are the Estate of
Nancy Louise Ellis, Unknown Heirs,
Devisees, and Interested Parties, and All
Other Occupants.
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NOTICE OF SALE OF ABANDONED
MANUFACTURED HOME Steve R. Kim
will sell the below-described manufac-
tured home by private sealed bid for the
highest offered received. The home has
been abandoned. The home, tenant(s) and
owner are described below. Bids for cash
payment will be accepted until 9:00 am,
November 29, 2024. Interested parties
may contact Steve R. Kim by phone at
541-513-3016 to make arrangements to
inspect the home. Bids may be submitted
to Steve R. Kim by phone at 541-513-3016
or by mail at 1075 NW Van Buren Avenue,
Corvallis, Oregon 97330 for the following
manufactured home described as:
Manufacturer: BENDIX; Year: 1980; Model:
ELCAR; Serial: SE3531A; Home ID No.:
231074, located at 32146 Nichols Lane,
Cottage Grove, Lane County, Oregon
97424; the registered owner and former
tenants are the Personal Representative
of the Estate of Mark Eugene Monsive,
Heirs, Devisees, and Interested Parties,
Personal Representative of the Estate of
Devone Marie Monsive, Heirs, Devisees,
and Interested Parties, All Other
Occupants.
TRUSTEE'S NOTICE OF SALE The
Trustee under the terms of the Trust Deed
described herein, at the direction of the
Beneficiary, hereby elects to sell the prop-
erty described in the Trust Deed to satisfy
the obligations secured thereby. Pursuant
to ORS 86.771, the following information is
provided: 1. PARTIES: Grantor: ROBERT
ALLEN POWERS SR., AS HIS SOLE AND
SEPARATE PROPERTY. Trustee: WESTERN
TITLE & ESCROW COMPANY. Successor
Trustee: NANCY K. CARY. Beneficiary:
SELCO COMMUNITY CREDIT UNION. 2.
DESCRIPTION OF PROPERTY: The real
property is described as follows: Lot 16,
AMAZON MEADOWS, as platted and
recorded June 17, 2004, Reception No.
2004-046180, Lane County Deeds and
Records, in Lane County, Oregon. 3.
RECORDING. The Trust Deed was recorded
as follows: Date Recorded: November 27,
2006 Recording No. 2006-084934
Official Records of Lane County, Oregon. 4.
DEFAULT. The Grantor or any other person
obligated on the Trust Deed and
Promissory Note secured thereby is in
default and the Beneficiary seeks to fore-
close the Trust Deed for failure to pay: The
Place numbers 1-9 so that each row,
column and 3x3 square has each number only once.
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