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CNMP, 38, g , #105811 LOVING COUPLE Loving, and Earthy couple seek- ing new encounters with poly, and family friendly folks under 40. Friendly, sexy fun? Stargazinglilly, 25, #105816 HOT BI-GIRL lookin 2meet a hot, spunky, fun- loving, punk/goth, pierced/tatted girl- &a bit submissive, who enjoys life... preferably between the ages of ~19-29~ NO DRAMA, NO HARD DRUGS/HEAVY DRINKERS& DEFINITELY NO DISEASES. Lellabel, 35, ☎, g , #105770 SEXY BUSTY BABE Needing someone to show me the ropes. Im not submissive just new to this. littleone, 20, #103646 SUB NEEDS MISTRESS Looking to fulfill a humiliation/ domination fantasy. I want a mistress to dominate me, give anal, mock, scold, make me her human pet, and generally force my submission. Owned85, 25, #105882 ASS SECRET Discreet or anonymous encoun- ters. Bangerang7, 18, #105878 Does your guitar need a check up? “ CURIOUS Bi-curious male, clean, fit, seeks beautiful boy for first time encounter. I want to adore your smooth, lean body. A lot to ask for? Of course. maxd, 40, g , #103934 SWEET SPOT Its all about the motion in the ocean. Big ol’ breast are a need please. bradley, 27, #105874 TRIPPY CROSSDRESSER I am looking for a sexy man. One who can please me, I am open to alot of fetishes. trippycross- dresser, 19, g , #105871 Call the GUITAR DOCTOR ” experienced, honest, expert guitar repair Se et-Ups / All Manner of Repair Set-Ups C Complete Fretwork Complet Electronics Electron Reasonable Rates, Fast Turnaround Reasona Local Ba Bands Testify! CALL TODAY FOR A PROFESSIONAL DIAGNOSIS 541-510-5773 Keep talking to your boyfriend, leotard, and you’ll be just fi ne. At fi rst it struck me as odd that you would be troubled by a thoroughly sweet moment of soft-focus, fuzzy-bunnies Dom/sub intimacy and not by the other, arguably more intense, SM games you’ve been playing with your boyfriend. There you are getting held down, tied up, talked down-and-dirty to and “gently choked” (gentle or not, choking is a bad idea) … and you’re wor- ried that being ignored while you masturbate takes you into new and dangerously submissive territory? After a moment’s thought, I realized why this particular game troubled you so much: All of that other stuff took place in obviously sexual contexts, i.e., it happened in the bedroom while you were getting it on. This game — a game you initiated — began during a moment of not specifi cally sexual intimacy. You were cuddling, you were watching TV, you weren’t having sex. If Dom/sub games can break out when you’re just sitting there watching TV, who’s to say that Dom/sub games can’t break out when you’re doing the dishes? Or at the movies? Or having din- ner with your parents? You can have the Dom/sub dynamics you enjoy without having to worry about them slopping over into other areas of your life, SOS, by being assertive, communicative and vigilant. If you can ask a man to ignore you and keep watching TV while you masturbate, SOS, you should be able to say this to him: “Being submissive turns me on when we’re having sex — and the minute I started masturbating, we were having sex — but if you treat me like anything other than your equal when we’re not having sex, Sir, I will kick your fucking ass.” My guy wants to come in my mouth. I am fi ne with the act, but he produces a high volume of ejaculate, like three tablespoons’ worth. The only thing I can think of is getting him most of the way there and letting him come on my face. Any advice on how I can do this for him? GGG Sex Partner I measured out three tablespoons of half-and-half, GSP, and you couldn’t drown a kitten in it, much less a GGG sex partner. An adult should be able to knock that back without much trouble. Give the man a blowjob, GSP, and let him come in your mouth. If there’s too much ejaculate to swallow, or if you can’t manage to precisely time swallows to spurts, allow the excess ejacu- late to run out of the corners of your mouth. If you don’t want to swallow any ejaculate, close the top of your throat when he begins to come and spit it all out — into your hand or onto a towel, or just let it run down and over his dick — once he’s done. I recently started college, and I met an amazing woman. Call her Jennifer. She’s talented artistically, poetically and with a blade. I met her at the Renaissance Club, and the fi rst time I saw her at Fight Circle I was intrigued. Older club members often adopt new club members. Jennifer and her girlfriend, Robin, adopted me as their daughter. A couple weeks afterward, we decided to have a pet/Mistresses relationship between the three of us. I was content with this because it would allow me to get closer to Jennifer. One night, she and I “slept” together, and soon after- ward, Jennifer decided to put the pet/Mistress relationship on hold because she didn’t want to drag me into her relationship drama. I’m not sure what to do: Should I wait for them to break up (they have been having arguments lately and Robin still isn’t aware that Jennifer and I “slept” together), wait for Robin to allow us to have a pet/Mistress relationship again, or just move on? Ex-Pet Lesbian I get lots of letters from women — and some from men — complaining about “too tired for sex” partners sneaking off to watch porn. I had to read your letter twice to make sure I wasn’t seeing things: Your partner used to claim he was too tired for sex, which presumably bummed you out, but now that he’s watching a little porn, you’re having a lot more sex … and you’re still bummed out? He’s using porn to get his juices fl owing, BBP, and those juices are ultimately fl owing into you. Perhaps you should be grateful to porn for the way it’s improved your sex life. there’s nothing I can’t wax barebodywaxingstudio.com I’m a straight male who skipped the sleeping around phase and went straight to long-term boyfriend. Now in my 30s, I fi nd myself wanting to make up for lost time. I’ve talked to my girl- friend of eight years about threesomes, arrangements, swinging — anything to sleep with other women and still hold on to my relationship. My girlfriend says that her sexually adventurous days are behind her. She has a low sex drive and doesn’t want to waste what little she has on other people. I’m stuck: Part of me thinks I can’t be happy sexually having never had a sexually adventurous phase, and part of me fears that I’m giving up a loving relationship for what others tell me isn’t a big deal anyway. Stuck SATISFY YOUR FANTASIES! NO COVER I’m a 27-year-old divorced woman. I married the fi rst man I ever had sex with, and we had a very vanilla sex life. He refused to try any play with dominant/submissive roles. My fantasies have always involved my submission and my favorite porn features women being submissive. My current boyfriend is very open and experienced. With him, I’ve tried being held down dur- ing sex, light bondage, dirty talk, gentle choking, etc. The sex is AMAZING. Here’s my problem: A few nights ago while we were watching TV and cuddling, he started to stroke my body. I asked if I could touch myself and if he would keep watching TV while I did it. I had the most intense orgasm of my life while he ignored me. We talked about how this was very submissive behavior, and I said that I’d like to explore it more if he’s open to it (he is). My concern is that this submission might spill over into the rela- tionship. I am NOT submissive in the relationship; we’re very much equals. I know that he sees it as a sexual kink and is very GGG, but I’m concerned that it could lead to him thinking that I want to be ignored in other aspects of the relationship. Seeing as this is my second relationship and the fi rst time I’ve been able to indulge my submissive desires, I might be worrying over nothing. I’m feeling like an emotionally leotarded, sexually repressed teenager. Scared Of Submission I am living with a man whom I deeply love. I recently noticed that he is watching porn when I am not around. My self-esteem crashed when I learned this because he often claimed to be too tired to have sex. At the same time, I noticed that since he started watching porn, we have had a lot more sex. Can you help me sort this out so I can bandage up my wounds? Bummed By Porn Frances waxing specialist NUDE WORDS OF PURE WISDOM by Dan Savage Sword fi ghts, adoptions, pets, Mistresses, faux-incest/pseudo-bestiality role-playing games — a lot has changed at Liberty University since I was an undergrad. Look, EPL, if Jennifer and Robin are falling apart, step back and be patient. That way you won’t be held responsible by the rest of Renaissance Club once you and Jennifer resume your pet/Mistress/mommy/daughter/whatever routine. RICK KNEALE 541-513-9984 WWW.RKNEALEGUITARS.COM HOURS DAILY 5665;6!(4 Savage Love DANCER AUDITIONS *(33 465>,+ ;()3,+(5*,: You break up. NO COVER :(:[YLL[:WYPUNMPLSK WWW.EUGENEWEEKLY.COM • BLOGS.EUGENEWEEKLY.COM mail@savagelove.net EUGENE WEEKLY JANUARY 6, 2011 31
