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EXUBERANT AND CURIOUS
I’m in a committed non-monoga-
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I’m 5’4” pixie-cut brunette with a
penchant for adventure and a
great smile. I am in a committed
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but hoping to branch out and
meet other poly-friendly folks.
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gewilnian,
23,
#104721
DISCREET FUN
i’m an attractive, single mom
looking for discreet fun...would
enjoy an attractive, dominant,
personality as i tend to 2 b more
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lets chat! Sammi, 43, g ,
#105766
ADVENTUROUS, EXCITED,
EAGER
I’m looking for a guy who’s
dominant in the bedroom and
wants to teach me new things.
i’ve had a good start in D/s but i
really want to explore! pink_
ocean, 32, g , #105553
UNPREDICTABLE HUNGRY-
STRIPER PROWLING
My honey-pot is low and needs
something sticky. Submissive at
times, but this cowgirl can ride.
Preferably a bucking bronco ;-).
I’m a saucy whench boys, I need
spanking. AlainaFuck, 21,
#105484
I WANT PLEASURE
I’m bored & tired of this vanilla
world. I like 2 get what I want &
please others. Live life to the full
extent of what you imagine &
what you want. DESIRE, 27,
g , #101108
NYMPHO WANTS ALL
Lusty Latina with epic tits wants
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Queen, 28, ☎, g ,
#105697
SEX POSITIVE NYMPHO
Impeccable hygiene is a must.
Intelligence preferred. Be sexu-
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Into transvestites, groups, would
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shame. I_want_it_all, 30,
#105142
Up for anything. In a kind of
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expend some of my free time
and energy with. thatonekid,
21, #105855
MATURE/BBW CHASER
Looking to give and receive
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I’m D/D free, wanting to rock
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Snowballl,
28,
#105849
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thinkagain, 29, #105843
YOUNG ADVENTUROUS COU-
PLE
We are a couple in the Eugene
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24,
#105852
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we really would like to have a
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#105826
COMMITTED NON-
MONOGAMOUS PARTNERS
We are looking for mature fun,
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We would love to meet like mind-
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CNMP, 38, g , #105811
LOVING COUPLE
Loving, and Earthy couple seek-
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Stargazinglilly,
25,
#105816
HOT BI-GIRL
lookin 2meet a hot, spunky, fun-
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NO
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#105770
SEXY BUSTY BABE
Needing someone to show me
the ropes. Im not submissive just
new to this. littleone, 20,
#103646
SUB NEEDS MISTRESS
Looking to fulfill a humiliation/
domination fantasy. I want a
mistress to dominate me, give
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#105882
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#103934
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please.
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27,
#105874
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Keep talking to your boyfriend, leotard, and you’ll be just fi ne.
At fi rst it struck me as odd that you would be troubled by a thoroughly sweet moment of
soft-focus, fuzzy-bunnies Dom/sub intimacy and not by the other, arguably more intense, SM
games you’ve been playing with your boyfriend. There you are getting held down, tied up, talked
down-and-dirty to and “gently choked” (gentle or not, choking is a bad idea) … and you’re wor-
ried that being ignored while you masturbate takes you into new and dangerously submissive
territory?
After a moment’s thought, I realized why this particular game troubled you so much: All of
that other stuff took place in obviously sexual contexts, i.e., it happened in the bedroom while
you were getting it on. This game — a game you initiated — began during a moment of not
specifi cally sexual intimacy. You were cuddling, you were watching TV, you weren’t having sex.
If Dom/sub games can break out when you’re just sitting there watching TV, who’s to say that
Dom/sub games can’t break out when you’re doing the dishes? Or at the movies? Or having din-
ner with your parents?
You can have the Dom/sub dynamics you enjoy without having to worry about them slopping
over into other areas of your life, SOS, by being assertive, communicative and vigilant. If you can
ask a man to ignore you and keep watching TV while you masturbate, SOS, you should be able to
say this to him: “Being submissive turns me on when we’re having sex — and the minute I started
masturbating, we were having sex — but if you treat me like anything other than your equal
when we’re not having sex, Sir, I will kick your fucking ass.”
My guy wants to come in my mouth. I am fi ne with the act, but he produces a high volume of
ejaculate, like three tablespoons’ worth. The only thing I can think of is getting him most of the
way there and letting him come on my face. Any advice on how I can do this for him?
GGG Sex Partner
I measured out three tablespoons of half-and-half, GSP, and you couldn’t drown a kitten in it,
much less a GGG sex partner. An adult should be able to knock that back without much trouble.
Give the man a blowjob, GSP, and let him come in your mouth. If there’s too much ejaculate
to swallow, or if you can’t manage to precisely time swallows to spurts, allow the excess ejacu-
late to run out of the corners of your mouth. If you don’t want to swallow any ejaculate, close the
top of your throat when he begins to come and spit it all out — into your hand or onto a towel, or
just let it run down and over his dick — once he’s done.
I recently started college, and I met an amazing woman. Call her Jennifer. She’s talented
artistically, poetically and with a blade. I met her at the Renaissance Club, and the fi rst time I saw
her at Fight Circle I was intrigued. Older club members often adopt new club members. Jennifer
and her girlfriend, Robin, adopted me as their daughter. A couple weeks afterward, we decided
to have a pet/Mistresses relationship between the three of us. I was content with this because it
would allow me to get closer to Jennifer. One night, she and I “slept” together, and soon after-
ward, Jennifer decided to put the pet/Mistress relationship on hold because she didn’t want to
drag me into her relationship drama.
I’m not sure what to do: Should I wait for them to break up (they have been having arguments
lately and Robin still isn’t aware that Jennifer and I “slept” together), wait for Robin to allow us to
have a pet/Mistress relationship again, or just move on?
Ex-Pet Lesbian
I get lots of letters from women — and some from men — complaining about “too tired for
sex” partners sneaking off to watch porn. I had to read your letter twice to make sure I wasn’t
seeing things: Your partner used to claim he was too tired for sex, which presumably bummed
you out, but now that he’s watching a little porn, you’re having a lot more sex … and you’re still
bummed out?
He’s using porn to get his juices fl owing, BBP, and those juices are ultimately fl owing into
you. Perhaps you should be grateful to porn for the way it’s improved your sex life.
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I’m a straight male who skipped the sleeping around phase and went straight to long-term
boyfriend. Now in my 30s, I fi nd myself wanting to make up for lost time. I’ve talked to my girl-
friend of eight years about threesomes, arrangements, swinging — anything to sleep with other
women and still hold on to my relationship. My girlfriend says that her sexually adventurous days
are behind her. She has a low sex drive and doesn’t want to waste what little she has on other
people.
I’m stuck: Part of me thinks I can’t be happy sexually having never had a sexually adventurous
phase, and part of me fears that I’m giving up a loving relationship for what others tell me isn’t a
big deal anyway.
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I’m a 27-year-old divorced woman. I married the fi rst man I ever had sex with, and we had a
very vanilla sex life. He refused to try any play with dominant/submissive roles. My fantasies have
always involved my submission and my favorite porn features women being submissive.
My current boyfriend is very open and experienced. With him, I’ve tried being held down dur-
ing sex, light bondage, dirty talk, gentle choking, etc. The sex is AMAZING. Here’s my problem: A
few nights ago while we were watching TV and cuddling, he started to stroke my body. I asked if I
could touch myself and if he would keep watching TV while I did it. I had the most intense orgasm
of my life while he ignored me.
We talked about how this was very submissive behavior, and I said that I’d like to explore it
more if he’s open to it (he is). My concern is that this submission might spill over into the rela-
tionship. I am NOT submissive in the relationship; we’re very much equals. I know that he sees it
as a sexual kink and is very GGG, but I’m concerned that it could lead to him thinking that I want
to be ignored in other aspects of the relationship.
Seeing as this is my second relationship and the fi rst time I’ve been able to indulge my
submissive desires, I might be worrying over nothing. I’m feeling like an emotionally leotarded,
sexually repressed teenager.
Scared Of Submission
I am living with a man whom I deeply love. I recently noticed that he is watching porn when I
am not around. My self-esteem crashed when I learned this because he often claimed to be too
tired to have sex. At the same time, I noticed that since he started watching porn, we have had a
lot more sex. Can you help me sort this out so I can bandage up my wounds?
Bummed By Porn
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Look, EPL, if Jennifer and Robin are falling apart, step back and be patient. That way you
won’t be held responsible by the rest of Renaissance Club once you and Jennifer resume your
pet/Mistress/mommy/daughter/whatever routine.
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