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LOVE AND LOGIC v LOVE AND LOGIC v v LOVE AND LOGIC LOVE AND LOGIC v LOVE AND LOGIC V LOVE AND LOGIC v LOVE AND LOGIC V LOVE AND LOGIC » LOVE AND LOGIC V LOVE AND LOGIC u 5 $ > o a o 5 £ Love anil Logic’ UJ 2 M o 2 D o 5 £ S ta r t S c h o o l W ith a S m ile EDCBA > O What to Do When Young Children Cry About Going XWVUTSRQPONMLKJIHGF a jihgfedcbaZY y g > a < o t schools across America, teachers see two It's am azing how children either live up to — or down types of first-year students: one quickly ad to — our expectations. justs to school and begins to enjoy it, the u o o UJ q other cries each day at the door. By applying som e easy-to-follow Love and Logic® guidelines, parents can help their youngsters belong to a very lucky group li ... students who start school w ith fun instead of fear. II i! A r r a n g e a t o u r o f y o u r c h ild 's s c h o o l b e f o r e It's not unusual for young children to imagine the worst a > o A v o id b a c k in g d o w n f r o m t a n t r u m s a n d te a rs . Don't teach your child to be fearful by backing down to crying and allowing him or her to stay hom e! Regard o less of how heart wrenching their cries becom e, Love and Logic parents send their kids to school. W hy? Be- when they don't have enough information. Big fears about where they are going to sit, where they w ill eat, o are out-of-sight!" j» o o £ Parents across the country are finding these Love and Logic techniques are easy-to-learn, teach kids to be re a w ill do if they need to use the restroom becom e m uch sponsible, and change lives! One parent com m ented, > sm aller when parents take this step. "M y six-year-old son was so afraid of school he w ouldn't G T e a c h c o n f id e n c e b y s h o w in g it . z 3 even get out of the car when I tried to drop him off. W e , , _. , t . , iU ... were desperate. The day we tried these tips, and had o o £ am azing how fast kids calm down after their parents whether their teacher w ill be "nice," and what they V m O cause all experienced teachers say the sam e thing: "It's th e y e a r s ta r ts . G o o 5 £ 5 m O 5 § o 2 a A y o a W henparentsspend too m uch tim e trying to calm their som e help from the teacher getting him out of the car, children's fears, their children begin to think, "W ow. If was the last day we had these problem s. W e're a happy m y parents are this concerned about m e, and they have fam ily again!" to talk this m uch about going to school, m aybe there o Give Love and Logic a try, and see how it changes your really is som ething to be worried about!" life. You'll be am azed how sim ple it really is. > o M ore effective parents give lots of hugs, listen, and say, u "I love you." Doing this, they send a very strong m es- 5 o Q 6 5 K sage of confidence. Sim ply put, confident parents tend Charles Fay, Ph.D. is a parent, author and consultant to to have confident kids ... worried parents tend to have schools, parent groups and mental health professionals > o around the world. His expertise in developing and teach worried kids. o R V o a 2 If y o u d r iv e y o u r c h ild t o s c h o o l, le a v e q u ic k ly . Smart parents give quick hugs, let their kids know u 2 a > 2 they're in a hurry, and leave w ithout looking back. W hy? Because the underlying m essage they send to ing practical discipline strategies has been refined through work with severely disturbed youth in school, hospital and 5 community settings. Charles has developed an acute un i derstanding of the most challenging students. Having grown up with Love and Logic, he also provides a unique... o and often humorous...perspective. s their children is, "You can handle this. You're strong!" y People who are really successful implementing this skill purchased Love and Logic Solutions for Early Childhood O a > o 220? Jackson SI, G olden, CO 80401 DIDOT ONV3AOT A DIDOT QNV 3AOT A DIDOT QNV 3AOT © 2001 Charles Fay, Ph.D. a DIDOT QNV 3AOT A DIDOT QNV 3AOT 800-338-4005 A DIDOT QNV 3AOT § § w w w .loveandlogic.com a DIDOT QNV 3AOT 6 A DIDOT QNV 3AOT A DIDOT QNV 3AOT A 3IDOT QNV 3AOT Perm ission granted for photocopy reproduction. Please do not alter or m odify contents. All rights reserved. H IE]