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t schools across America, teachers see two
It's am azing how children either live up to — or down
types of first-year students: one quickly ad
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justs to school and begins to enjoy it, the
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other cries each day at the door. By applying som e
easy-to-follow Love and Logic® guidelines, parents
can help their youngsters belong to a very lucky group
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... students who start school w ith fun instead of fear.
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It's not unusual for young children to imagine the worst
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A v o id b a c k in g d o w n f r o m t a n t r u m s a n d
te a rs .
Don't teach your child to be fearful by backing down to
crying and allowing him or her to stay hom e! Regard
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less of how heart wrenching their cries becom e, Love
and Logic parents send their kids to school. W hy? Be-
when they don't have enough information. Big fears
about where they are going to sit, where they w ill eat,
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Parents across the country are finding these Love and
Logic techniques are easy-to-learn, teach kids to be re
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w ill do if they need to use the restroom becom e m uch
sponsible, and change lives! One parent com m ented,
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sm aller when parents take this step.
"M y six-year-old son was so afraid of school he w ouldn't
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even get out of the car when I tried to drop him off. W e
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were desperate. The day we tried these tips, and had
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am azing how fast kids calm down after their parents
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W henparentsspend too m uch tim e trying to calm their
som e help from the teacher getting him out of the car,
children's fears, their children begin to think, "W ow. If
was the last day we had these problem s. W e're a happy
m y parents are this concerned about m e, and they have
fam ily again!"
to talk this m uch about going to school, m aybe there
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Give Love and Logic a try, and see how it changes your
really is som ething to be worried about!"
life. You'll be am azed how sim ple it really is.
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M ore effective parents give lots of hugs, listen, and say,
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"I love you." Doing this, they send a very strong m es-
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sage of confidence. Sim ply put, confident parents tend
Charles Fay, Ph.D. is a parent, author and consultant to
to have confident kids ... worried parents tend to have
schools, parent groups and mental health professionals
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around the world. His expertise in developing and teach
worried kids.
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If y o u d r iv e y o u r c h ild t o s c h o o l, le a v e
q u ic k ly .
Smart parents give quick hugs, let their kids know
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they're in a hurry, and leave w ithout looking back.
W hy? Because the underlying m essage they send to
ing practical discipline strategies has been refined through
work with severely disturbed youth in school, hospital and
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community settings. Charles has developed an acute un
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grown up with Love and Logic, he also provides a unique...
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and often humorous...perspective.
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their children is, "You can handle this. You're strong!"
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People who are really successful implementing this skill
purchased Love and Logic Solutions for Early Childhood
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