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Boyfriend breaks trust during break-up, gets STD Dear Harlan, My boyfriend has just told me that he has contracted a sexually transmitted disease. We were sep arated for a very brief time and in this time he slept with another woman with out protec tion. Shortly after this inci dent we made up. In the HARLAN month follow ing, he never told me that he had slept with someone else, thereby putting my body at risk. I still love him, but I am unsure if I can ever trust him again. He would like to try to salvage our re lationship, but I don-t know if the trust can be rebuilt especially since this is a long-distance rela tionship (until we get back togeth er this fall). Do you have any ad vice about what I should do or questions I should be asking my self? Full of questions Dear Full, Advice help me Harlan The first question is “Why is my boyfriend so stupid, reckless and selfish?” The next question is “How many sexually transmitted diseases did he give me?” The fi nal question is “Why did I write this guy because he’s only going to make me further resent my id iot boyfriend and get me upset and worried about STDs?” You can't trust him and you shouldn't trust him. He ruined it. The fact that he put your body at risk and gave you no choice in the matter is disgusting and inexcus able. When it comes to something so intimate and personal it's al most impossible to forgive. Now, he has to deal with the conse quences. Hopefully, you don't have to deal with them, too. In the meantime, go to your personal physician and get tested regularly for STDs. You might have something and not even know it. Chlamydia can appear with little or no symptoms. Geni tal warts can appear in places out of sight of the naked eye. Symp toms of Herpes often go unrecog nized. HIV takes months before being detected. Just get tested and get far away from this guy. Write Harlan via e-mail at harlan@help meharlan.com or online at: www.helpmeharlan.com. All letters sub mitted become the property of the col umn. Harlan Cohen 2506 N. Clark Street, Suite #223 Chicago, IL 60614 Phone: 773-472-6919 Call (541)3464343 or stop by Room 300 Erb Memorial Union to place your ad today. P.0. Box 3159 Eugene, OR 97403 E-mail: classads@oregon.uoregon.edu On-line edition: www.dailyemerald.com 095 PERSONALS Your Oregon Daily Emerald Online Moving Guide is coming! Aug. 23 - Sept. 18 Online ads are available. Call 346-4343 for more info. 105 TYPING/RESUME SERVICES At 344-0759, ROBIN is GRAD SCHOOL APPROVED. 20-year thesis/dissertation background. Term papers. Full resume service. Editing. Laser pr. ON CAMPUS! 113 U0 COURSE OPENINGS Need to get the word out? Promote your Class Openings Here! Call 346-4343 120 MISCELLANEOUS FOR SALE Betsy from Berlin says “Shopping is more fun at the C.H.” The Clothes Horse Buy, Sell, Trade 720 E. 13th • 345-5099 “Give Me Five!* Run your “FOR SALE” ad (items under $1,000) for 5 days. If the item(s) doesn’t sell, call us at 346-4343 and we’ll run your ad again for another 5 days FREE! Student/Private Party Ads Only • No Refunds 125 FURNITURE/APPLIANCES Pool table, excellent cond, quality ta ble, 1 yr. old, equipment included. Buyer moves. $1200 obo. 344-9393 CASH! We Buy, Sell & Service VHS VCR s & Stereos. Thompson Electronics, 1122 Oak, 343-9273 155INSTRUMENTS/MUSIC EQUIP. Perfect time to play guitar, piano, or bass. Learn YOUR favorites! For lessons call. 342-9543, 175 WANTED Used palm pilots 513-7189 Older couple desires help with housekeeping, shopping, laundry, yard work, occasional meal prep, er rands, dog care and minimal house sitting. 10-15 hours a week. Close to University. 343-8530. MUSICIAN WANTED Established Middle Eastern Music & Dance Ensemble seeking instru mentalist acquainted with Turkish & Arabic stylings. Call 683-7778. Need a part-time job when summer’s over? Morning person? Now hiring and training for fall term. Newspaper Delivery 6:00-8:00 am Monday-Friday. Requires your own RELIABLE vehicle. Work study ok. Apply in person, Monday-Friday, 8-5, 300 EMU. The Oregon Daily Emerald is an equal opportunity employer committed to a culturally diverse workplace. 185 BUSINESS OPPORTUNITIES %mm mw&m The Oregon Daily Emerald assumes no liability for ad content or response. Ads are screened for illegal content and mail order ads must provide a sample of item for sale. Otherwise, ads that appear too good to be true, probably are. Respond at your own risk. 200 WORK STUDY POSITIONS NOW HIRING WORK STUDY ONLY: office assistance for Hon ors College office. Paid office ex perience desirable. $8.50 an hour. Apply at 320 Chapman Hall or call Janice, 346-2514. Must be work study qualified for summer term. Now hiring for fall term jobs In Campus Recycling! Campus Recycling now hiring work study/ tech fee funded students for positions beginning September. Contact Campus Recycling at 346-0961. Leave message with a mailing address and phone number. Tearcher’s Aides for the Olum Child Dev. Ctr. Part-time positions in mainstreamed early childhood pro gram serving children from 3 mos. school age. Flexible work hours be tween 7:30 a.m. and 6:00 p.m. Start $6.50/hr. Call 346-6586. Now Hiring Office Assistants University Housing needs two Office Assistants for the 2000-2001 aca demic year. Paid office experience desirable. Duties include, but not limited too: updating and organizing office calendars, databases, and files. Pay is $6.50/hr. Drop off re sume at the University Housing Of fice in Walton Complex by August 10 to be considered. If you have questions, please call 346-9165 or 346-8627. 205 HELP WANTED The University of Oregpn Men's Basketball program is seeking one graduate student interested in work ing with the basketball team for the 2000-2001 season. The selected candidates will be expected to assist the staff on a daily basis with both office and court responsibilities. Ma jor responsibilities include, but not limited to, coordinating video tape exchange, video tape breakdown, assisting with recruiting and coordi nation of team travel, upkeep and set-up of practice equipment. The chosen candidates must demon strate the ability to complete a di verse variety of tasks and make a substantial time commitment to the position. Preferred qualifications in clude a background in collegiate basketball, strong communication and computer skills, and a commit ment to the program’s success. In terested candidates should send a resume and cover letter to: Rhonda Bowers, Men’s Basketball Office, 2727 Leo Harris Parkway, Eugene, OR 97401. Position will close Au gust 28, 2000. 205 HELP WANTED Campus property needs Assistant Resident Manager. Compensation is reduced rent. RA or apartment man agement experience preferred. Fax resume or letter to 461-2792. Teachers Assistant for the Olum Child Dev. Ctr. Part-time position 1:00-5:00 Mon.-Fri. in school age program serving children from 5 11yrs. Must be UO student, have previous experience with children and CPR certified. Start $7.00/hr. Call 346-6586. Van driver needed to transport chil dren to and from the Olum Child Dev Ctr. from public school, Mon. Fri. Must be UO student with ODL, have previous experience with chil dren and CPR certified. Will need to be driver approved upon employ ment. $7.00/hr. Call 346-6586 Systems Administrator to support and maintain Macintosh (desktop, portable) and Windows 98 computers on LAN. Knowledge of Appleshare IP, Windows 2000 Serv er, Eudora internet Mail Server and DSL helpful. Experience trouble shooting laser printers, MS Office, Endnotes, and Internet applications necessary. Complementary skills in GIS, economics, math, planning, programming, or website manage ment a plus. Position is a minimum of 20 hours per week. Position in cludes on-call troubleshooting. With combined skills could be full-time position. Benefits included. Position to start ASAP. Hydrologic Computer Modeling (Software Port) with outstanding skills and experi ence to port hydrologic model from S+ to Excel (Microsoft Visual Ba sic). Project to be completed as soon as possible, with the prepon derance of the work coming in the first month and tapering off as the program is refined. Position has flex ible hours and is available now. Candidates for both positions must pay careful attention to detail, have exceptional skills of communica tions, and be able to work well inde pendently. Send resume, transcript(s), and cover letter and salary requirements ASAP to ECONorthwest, 99 West 10th, Suite 400, Eugene, OR 97401 or Fax: (541) 344-0562, Attn: Helen Rose nau, AA/EEO: women/minorities en couraged. Personal Assistant Needed Int'l Fern. Student w/ disability needs M/F assistant from Sept, to Dec. Du ties: Assist w/personal hygiene, light housekeeping, cooking, and note taking. Req.: Must have valid ODL, min. high school ed., and availability to work 48 hr. shifts. App. and ques. Must Be Received before Aug. 23. Send to: Lisbeth Moeller, 232A Si grid Undsetsvej, DK 9220 Aalborg East, Denmark. D-mail: lissimoeller@hotmail.com Phone: (45) 98152442 (+9hrs) 205 HELP WANTED ATTN GRAD STUDENTS Real Estate Property Management firm seeking On-site Mangers for both campus and non-campus prop erties in Eugene. Must be highly organized, computer literate, have good communication skills, and practical experience. Apartment plus salary commensurate to experience. Send cover letter and resume to: Manager, P.O. Box 70407 Eugene, OR 97401 Now recruiting for East Coast Oregon Nannies 343-3755 web site: www.oregonnannies.com Delivery Drivers Bene Gourmet Pizza needs part time delivery drivers. Must provide vehicle, valid license, auto insur ance, and clean driving record. Ap ply at 225 W. Broadway, Eugene, 97401. Near campus and shopping 4 bdrm house, $900/mo. Call 343-9011 Lovely 4 bdrm, 2 bath, hardwood floors, double fireplace, close to Safeway, Avail. Sept, lease, no pets/smoking. $1500/mo. 191 E. 19th. By appt, only 345-5949. 7 BDRM AT 3 BDRM PRICE, wood floor, W/D, $850 sum. 1405 E. 20th. CampusRental.com, 343-6000 4 Bdrm. 2763 Alder St. $1200 +dep. Year lease. No pets/smoking. Catalina Realty 345-6396 4 bdrm, 2 bath w/inground pool, on quiet cul-de-sac, close to UO. SE Eugene. DW, dsp, laundry. Call 338 8166 for info, and appt. 4 bdrm house for rent in Churchill area. Unfurnished - $1300/mo. Fully furnished - $1600/mo. Call 484-9628 1789 E. 25th. Weatherized 3 bdrm, 2 ba, fireplace, carpet, wood floors, appliances, yard care. $1050 lease. 302-4747. Campus Apartments 2 bdrms, re serve for Fall Now $550-$650. Office 325 E. 18th #6.343-8545. 2 BDRM APARTMENT close to campus. 1515 Mill St. $575/mo. 484-9922 Campus Apartments 1 bdrm $350. 2 bdrms $400. Available Now! Office 325 E. 18th #6.343-8545. LARGE, CLEAN, QUIET 1 bd. 1630 Ferry St. Winter $455 Avail. 8/16. No pets! Call 741-0320. Large, clean, quiet 1 bdrm. 1/2 blk from UO. Big walk-in closet, Free covered parking. 484-4103 Reserving for Fall Low summer rates Large, clean, quiet 2 bdrms. Nice ly Furnished, laundry. No pets. 1 block to UO. $350 Summer, $575 Fall. Call Chuck at 344-4760. ■j^vaiarmfiaiianHam FREE 8/15/00 to 9/15/00 with 9/15/00-6/15/01 lease. 1 bd, close, convenient comfortable. No pets. Onsite parking, laundry. $410/mo. 735 E. 17th. 343-2114, 344-1583. Two bedroom furnished. Summer $485/mo. • Fall $585/mo. On campus. Call 344-2657. Talray Holdings 2 bdrm furnished, 4 blocks to UO. clean, dw, disposal, laundry, cov ered parking, no pets. 1200 Ferry St. $525/mo. 343-3318. Studios & 3 bedroom apt. $335-$555 Available Now! Call 485-6991 Ext. 101 GREAT PRICE ON 2 BDRM 1831 Kincaid #26, $325 343-6000 X-L 2 BDRM. New paint & carpet, walk UO, quiet, laundry, common deck. $450/$600. 465-9886. COOL IN SUMMER, 4 bdrm by UO, „ $495, 942 E. 18th, Campus Rental.com, 343-6000 “SPACIOUS 2 BDRM** $475/mo. Year Round. Parking, Laundry «344-4619 FOREST VILLAGE APTS. 2 bedrooms, 1 1/2 bath The best in amenities Bus to campus. $590-$610/mo. 687-1318 For a complete list of all available properties, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, check our website at: www.renteugenb.cpm SUMMER/FALL RATES Studios 914 E. 18th 1 Bedroom 354 E. 14th 914 E. 18th 945 E. 19th 957 Hilyard 979 Ferry Ln. (basement) 979 Ferr Ln. 1359 Pearl 1370 High 1372 Patterson 1395 High St. 1715 High St. 1844 Kincaid 2 Bedrooms 534 E. 14th 1432 Orchard 1844 Kincaid Houses 871 E. 26th (3) $275/360 $350/395 $300/425 $275/395 $295/385 $350/375 $500 $310/380 $295/370 $250/350 $325/360 $375/450 $300/425 $375/550 $400/590 $340/580 $720/850 SnmmranDn 1710 Oak St. • 686-1130 M-F 8am-5pm www.renteugene.com 4 BDRM AT 2 BDRM PRICE Newly remodeled, laundry. 950 Patterson. $495.343-6000 tr j >Walk, Jog, Run, No.... pfif'K-f as fast as you can Aug. 23rd to the A nearest Emerald Box for your copy of the FALL MOVING GUIDE!