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I ask the sexpert How do you say "No" if a gay friend approaches you? Pretty much the same way you would say "No" to someone of the opposite sex If a friend approaches you. and you do not want to get sexually involved (whether the person ts the same or opposite sex), you should make your feelings clear Your friend may have mistak en some clues you gave out and may think you are interest ed in a sexual relationship Let this person know, through both words and actions, that you want to be friends — but not lovers Hetp! The last few times I had sex with my girlfriend. I was unable to maintain an erection What's wrong with me? Most men experience impo tence (inability to get or keep an erection) at one time or another There are several possible rea sons tor this Fatigue, depres sion. and alcohol or drug con sumption may be factors The cause often is more psy chological Lack of privacy (roommates nearby), fear of causing a pregnancy, or stress in other areas of life (school or a new job) can affect a man s ability to maintain an erection Impotence also may be a signal of guilt feelings about sex or r otter Expires 11/14/81 UO BOOKSTORE 13tti & Kincaid Mon-Fri 8 15-5:30 Sat 10:00-5:30 Textbooks (M-3530 Genera Books Mt-3310 Supplies aW-4331 One day film developing service ~~ MEI LIN’S BAMBOO PAVILION Authentic Chinese Food From Szechuan & Northern China Serving: Fast Lunches The Best in Chinese Food Inexpensive Prices 686-0133 Open 10:30-4:00 Mon-Fri near the campus 1275 Alder =3c=3Erz * 3 m W n jenui Cultural Forum Presents Tcx-fTtex ftlusic comes to £ug€n€ with ip flaco - Jimenez and his band - flacol the king of the Tex-Mex accordion ne packs the dance haiis down m San Antonio Texas & keeps them lumping ali night' described as "the Chuck Berry of the squeeze box” by Rolling Stone magazine he s appeared on "Saturday Night Live' and "Austin City Limits' he s toured the US and Europe witr Ry Cooder & played on his "Chicken Skin Music" 8 "Show Time" albums Conccrt/Dance Sunday. Hovcmbcr 8. 8 p.m. CmU Ballroom on (h« UO compuj in fugent Tickets S5.50 General Public S4.50 UO Students Available at • EMU Main Desk • Lights for Music in Springfield • Mr Mike s Really Reusable Records downtown other concerns that should be discussed with a partner For some men, not being able to keep an erection on one occasion causes so much anx iety that it becomes even more difficult the next time It can be helpful to simply identify these kinds of feelings and concerns Try to relax and avoid feeling pressured to perform If im potence remains a chronic problem, it would be wise to consult a doctor This column is written by Planned Parenthood, a non profit agency providing com plete birth-control services, pregnancy testing, counseling and referral for pregnancy planning If you have inquiries or Sexpert questions, we can be reached at 344-9411 or 134 E 13th Ave. Eugene Vote-by-mail gets high turnout SALEM (AP) — Linn County voters defeated two school spending measures in Oregon s first vote-by-mail election, but the record turnout shows democracy works. Secretary of State Nor ma Paulus said Wednesday Voter turnout was 77 percent, according to Del Riley, Linn County elections clerk "I think we've had the highest turnout in the nation for a special-district election, he said Asked if increased voter participation will make it harder to pass spending proposals. Paulus said "You re asking if sometimes you can have too much democracy and I don t agree with that She said Oregon and California are the only states that allow elections by mail The Oregon law. passed by the 1961 Legislature, applies to special-district elections in which measures but no candidates are on the ballot Paulus said the mechanics of the mailed voting went smoothly, and about 60 percent of those voting turned in their ballots earlier than expected Signatures were verified before ballots were counted About 50 voters were asked to come to the courthouse to doublecheck their signatures "I'm absolutely convinced that the chance for fraud is less in this election than under the prevailing system Paulus said Classifieds UNDER 21 GAY Tf '^mpu'. . ,<• «t d' e • txr today yet out and meet people fo< mo»e into cat! GPA 686 r*60 Ilf, QUESTION: What's big, round and happens between the Alpha Chis and Phi Delts this Saturday night? 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Calif (AP) - The Western States Underground Storage Vaults Co advertises absolute pro tection" tor vital documents They aren't kidding Their vault, in an old railroad tunnel in the Santa Cruz moun tains 70 miles south of San Francisco, originally was billed as able to survive a nuclear holocaust Today, depositors ranging from IBM to Walt Disney, from the Rolling Stones to the U S Defense Department, keep records there to ensure their survival in an increasingly per ilous world ' Although the United States has been spared the menace of enemy aggression thus far the threat grows with each passing year,” says a brochure Whether thanks go to the Soviets terrorists, or just fear of an earthquake, business at the vault has grown steadily — up between 8 percent and 10 per cent each year In addition to the papers of leading corporations, the vault contains the records of univer sities. cities and 46 of Califor nia s 58 counties The 246-foot-long tunnel keeps documents at a constant 63 de grees and 46 percent humidity ‘ We have 16mm and 35mm microfilm records dating back to the 19th century down there.” said Warren Slocum assistant recorder for San Mateo County In addition to the obvious security of a three-ton steel door, four guards and a burglar alarm system hooked into the local sheriff s office the vault offers economic advantages. Tinney said ' Companies don't have to pay insurance on their proper ty, which would be high,” he says ' They don't have to hire extra security guards to protect it "
