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HERALD AND NEWS. Klamath rails, Orrgo
Wednesday, January tS. 19!t
PACE S-A
Defi ning Child's Nature
i J May Curb Development
Mrs. Muriel towrenc
Newspopar Enterpr(s Assn.
' In her childhood when other
children were told they were lazy,
talented, stubborn' or fat, Mrs. G
was told that she was "helpful."
When she cleared the dinner ta
ble, found her father's eyeglasses,
helped her little sister into her
high chair, someone .would com
ment admiringly on these" serv
ices and her mother would say;
"Yes, Cora has always been a
helpful child, not always thinking
ef herself like most youngsters
nowadays.
Now Mrs. G as a child did not
produce this "helpfulness" out of
pure altruism. The truth was, she
wanted praise. But because she
Lodge Observes
Obligation .Night
Obligation night was observed
t the stated meeting of Friend
ship Court No. 11 at the Scottish
Rite Temple, Jan. 18, with a large
attendance of officers and mem
bers and visiting members. Mrs.
Phyllis May and William Goen,
, royal matron and royal patron,
presided in the east.
' Wilbur Sherfy of Mirror Court
No. 24 of Bend, assistant grand
lecturer of the Grand Court of
Oregon, was escorted to the
throne, introduced and given a
hearty welcome.
The following officers were es
corted and introduced: Jack
Schulze, past grand royal patron
of the Grand Court of Oregon
Norman Jones, assistant grand
lecturer of the Grand Court of
Oregon, both of Friendship Court
No. 11; Mrs. Lena Gowedy, Mrs
Ann Sherfy, both of Mirror "Court
No. 24 of Bend, past royal ma
trons; Mrs. Blanche Schulze, Mrs.
Mary Ellen Gaster, Mrs. Fannie!
Mae Thompson, Mrs. Emogenc
Sones, Elmer Vincent, Jim Hun
ter, past royal matrons and pa
trons of Friendship Court No. 11;
Harold Jones, past royal patron
ef Wenatchee Court No. 2, Wen
Btchee; Mrs. Ida Mae Faris, roy
al matron of Mirror Court No. 24,
who introduced her officers, Mrs.
Golde Mayne, associate matron,
Mrs. Ruth Cook, associate conduc
tress; Mrs. Lena Gowedy, stan
dard bearer; Mrs. Carrie Hof
stad, marshal of the west; W. W.
Graham, sentinel, and Mrs. Le
Neva Graham.
;The officers exemplified the
work by initiating two candidates,
Ifrs. Tcrri Greene and Mrs. Jac
queline Carter. Mrs. Helen Cox
was readmitted.
Mrs. Phyllis May, introduced
her mother, Mrs. Nellie ' Ricker
of Roxy Ann Court No. 20, Med
ford, who was present to witness
the initiation of her granddaugh
ter, Mrs. Terri Greene.
' Mrs. Florence Briggs, sewing
chairman, announced that the
next sewing session would be at
her home, 935 Division.
- Mrs. Velma Krause announced
. that there would be special en
tertainment for the next meeting
by Don Herbig, instructor of the
girls "Little Ensemble" of Fre
mont School. '
. 'Wilbur Sherfy complimented the
1 officers on their work and called
attention to the unusual occasion
when three generations renewed
their obligations at the same
time: Mrs. Nellie Ricker, mother
cf Mrs. Phyllis May, royal ma
tron, and Mrs. Terri Greene, new
member. -'
The next meeting will be Feb.
IS and a Valentine exchange.
Members are asked to put their
names on the valentines.
After the close of the meeting
refreshments were served in the
banquet room where signs of ap
proaching summer were evident.
Tables were decorated with silver
baskets of pansies and yellow ros
es and green and yellow candles.
Members in charge of the eve
Ding were Mrs. Velma Krause,
Mrs. Geneva Swift and Mrs. Zella
'Blankenship. v
constantly was told that she want
ed only to be "heloful." the
couldn't know this.
Soon she lost contact with nil
her wishes' to get as well as to
cive and learned to nuk twin.
fulness her chief reason for liv
ing. Just as you and I . might
identify ourselves with one nunliiv
like fatness nr hnH Ipmrvr nr
charm as though we possessed no
tuners. Mrs. G got to thinking
of herself as nothine but helnful.
loaay, a widow, her children
grown, this exclusively helpful
idea of herself is making trou
ble for her. With nnhnrlv arnnnri
to be helpful to, Mrs. G has lost
ner reason for living. At 60, she
is seriously considering Anfprintr n
home for the aged.
We liarents can dn m-pal Ham.
age by defining children's natures
for them.
If Jimmv refuses tn hanp nn hie
coat, let us if we must define
this action as stubborn. But let us
not, in the name of humility, call
him a stubborn child. We just
don't know enough about him to
so define his nature fnr him Tf
we do insist on doing so, we can
ena by confining Jimmy in one
quality of character so 'that he
loses access to the rest of it.
All Of Us have knnwn rwmlo
who seem to think of themselves
as one thine onlv. We've knnwn
beautiful women who start going
lo pieces as soon as their beauty
begins to fade. We've known fat
people who can't seem to get
their minds off this one aspect
of their bodies. We've known wit
tV DeODle Who Will wound their
best friends to make a joke.
These are people who suffer
from what psychiatrists call an
"alienated identity" n warrant.
j r- ti
led and limited idea of themselves
that locks them away from the
rest of their nature. Like Mrs. G
they live in only one room of the
multiple qualities which compose
our wondertul human nature.
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GRANDCHILDREN ef J. E. House of Langell Valley and Mr. and Mrs. John
Ross of Klamath Falls are, left to right, Darel, 12, Larry, 9, and Bob, 7, sons ef Mr.
and Mrs. Don Ross of Sacramento. They lived in Bonanza and Tulelaka before moving
e California. . '
Cadets March
In Washington
Merchant Marine Academy Ca
dets Patrick D. Soran, son of Mr.
and Mrs. Pat Soran, and Ted A.
Blair, son of Mr. and Mrs. John
H. Hodges, marched in the inau
gural parade Friday, Jan. 20, in
Washington, D.C., in honor of
President John F. Kennedy,
This was the fourth time that
the Kings Pointers have marched
down Pennsylvania Avenue in the
nation's capital. Fifteen buses
transported the cadets from Kings
Point, Long Island, to Washington,
where they were housed at the An-
acostia Naval Receiving Station.
The two young men, upon grad-
uation in August 1964, will each re
ceive a Coast Guard license as
third assistant engineer in the
Merchant Marine, a Bachelor of
Science degree and a commission
as Ensign in the Naval Reserve.
Lodge Plans A 'Smorgasbord
MALIN-Sunday. Jan. 15, the
ZCBJ Lodge of Malin met at the
Community Hall, with approxi
mately 100 In attendance.
Business meeting was conducted
by Atonia Smidl, vice president,
in the absence of President Ame
lia Cacka.
Committee reports were heard.
There will be no February meet
ing. Instead, in March, a smor
gasbord will be served. The main
course will be Bohemian Jater
niee (sausages) served with sauer
kraut, baked potatoes, rye bread
land the traditional Czech pastries.
The jaternice will be prepared
ahead at the home of Mildred
Rajnus. Those assisting will be
Mary Viclorin, Anna Polvika,
Martha Brothanek, Amelia Cacka,
Frank Victorin, ' Frank Paygr,
Vaclav Kalina and Marie Jackson
A potluck dinner was served at
1 p.m. The remainder of the aft
ernoon was spent dancing to the
music of Mr. and Mrs. Jim Bun
nell.
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