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6 C THURSDAY. SEPTEMBER 13. 1962 FAMILY COUNCIL Editors note: The Family Coun cil conmti of a Judge, a psychta trill, three clergymen, three edltori and a women'f editor. Each article la a summary of a family dliagrre menl presented to the Council. The Council deala with problems, major and minor, encountered by guld anre counselors and social workers. Edited by Mrs. Alma Denny. (Copy right by General Features Corp.) Mri. K. W. She takes no interest in her sister. Colette J. She's my moth er's pride and joy, not mine. Mrs. K. W. I have two married daughters, both with young children, living 500 miles apart. Although I'm in close touch with each, I'm dis tressed at the estrangement between them This is Colette's fault. She all but holds her hands to her ears when I tell her of Marl an's accomplishments. Marian on the other hand, wants to know each little tidbit about Colette, who never answers mail from her Last month Marian won a prize in an amateur sculpture show. When I offered to show Colette the newspaper clip pings, she said, "Don't botlv er." I'm heartbroken over this sick relationship. Aside from this envy, Colette is charming and bright. Colettt J. My mother thinks getting your name in the paper is the most. And since Marian does it all the time, she's the daughter to brag about. I'm just a plain housewife minding my own business so I don t count I grew up in the shadow of my talented sister. Oh, my parents went through the mo tions of keeping things "even. We wore sister out' fits, and we both took danc ing lessons and went to camp, When company called they politely asked how I was do ing In school. Then their eyes lit up with excitement about Marian's honors, her popular ity and her glamour. Maybe my parents wanted a son Instead of me. Or an other Marian. Well, I'm wait Ing for them all to love me as plain me, not just as Mari an's sister, Tha Council! Here again Is "(he quiet one" who, all her life has been screaming on the inside. Colette won't con sider herself a full member of the family until her mother the symbol of approval, ac ceptance and affection per sonally confers upon her all the prerequisites of first-class participation. While It's rather late for Mrs. W. to get to work on Colette's starved and bruised ego, belter late than to as sault It further. Understand ably she floated along on the clouds of adulation for Mari an. Unthinkingly too. She as sumed that plodding, mousy Colette was up there with her, enjoying the spin as part of Marian's retinue. Nothing was further from the truth. To Colette. every accolade for Marian was a reproach to her. It meant "Why aren't you like her? Why can't you make us as happy?" Colette writhed in shame at not being able to "measure up." All along, Colette probably warranted her own brand of glory. Certainly she had her own small, though unspectac ular, triumphs and her own attractiveness. Her present In difference to Marian is part of her desperate campaign to bring her mother first and then the rest of the family to a remorseful recognition of this, at long last. Mrs. W. must now, hard as it may seem, focus upon and even exaggerate her role as Colette's proud . mother, un derplnying the Marian bit for the next few months. Two things may happen: She will discover unsuspected treas ure. And Colette's Icy defen- ilvcness will melt once she can bask in the light of fam ily appreciation. Only then will she be able to reach out and publicly commend her sister. For only a person who is content with in herself can rejoice In the success of another. Bellinger Efforts Declared Illegal Salem -HOT- Special Assist ant Atly. Gen. George L. Hib- bard, Oregon City, has ruled that the Albany nominal ing convention designed to make Donald F. Bellinger, Sa lem, an Independent canril date lor governor was not valid under the law. Secretary of Stale Howell Appling Jr. annonnred that in view of the finding. Belling er's name would not be certi fied to the November ballot. The convention met In Al bany Aug. 18, bill the re quired minimum of 2S0 elec tors did not show up. Belling- er supporters indicated they would remain in continuous session, and set another dead line of Aug. 22. More than the necessary 250 persons ap peared. Hibbard said this time lag Wiuj illegal. Best Quality Best Flavor Best Flavor Best Trim Q) s All Safeway Lamb is prop erly aged to bring it to eat ing perfection. Tender, juicy, shoulder cut roast. USDA CHOICE lb. 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In fishing circles it is standard advice to those who acci dentally hook one of these creatures to cut the line and forget the lost tackle, for one of these eels may attack its capturer, even on the dry deck of a boat. Several Varieties There are several varieties of these elongated fish. The so-called brown moray is quite common in many sections of the Gulf of Mexico. They often reach an over-all length of four feet. Usually inhabi tants of deep water, few are caught. The spotted moray will tol erate water a few degrees colder and its range is there fore considerably extended. Unlike the brown or the green moray, the spotted has a.hick leathery skin covered with spots of various sizes. The banded and chained morays are much smaller and more plentiful. These smaller relatives of the big green moray seldom are more than a foot and a half long. The most vicious of the moray family, and the one most often exhibited in public aquariums, is the green moray. This vicious character often reaches a length of six feet and is considered a very powerful fish. The head is more like that of a fox or a wolf than a fish, with powerful jaws and sharp teeth capable of severing a man's arm at a single bite. Poison in Teeth ' The teeth of all morays are thought to carry some toxic I I ! poison, tven tne bite of a small moray has been known to result in severe pain and often various degrees of In fection. All the eels are covered with a heavy film of mucus or slime. This material holds the coloring agent that gives the fish its coloration. The brilliant 'green of the moray is the slime that covers the body. Scrape away this mucus and we find the skin of the animal is a bluish color. The mucus itself, once we have It re moved from the fish's body, is yellowish, but on the blue skin of 'the fish a brilliant green is produced. This coloring arrangement is unique among fish, no other instance is so lur known of such a remarkable phenome non. Without Its body slime the green moray would be a "heavenly blue," a drastic contradiction to the animal's true nature. Better they should be a 'devilish red" than a heavenly blue. 15 Area Students Receive OSU Grants CorvalMs - Fifteen Medford area students have been awarded partial-tuition schol arships for the coming school years at Oregon State univer sity. They were among those se lected for State Scholarships, given to help top Oregon stu dents in their university stud ies and administered by the State Scholarship committee. The study grants pay $66 a quarter, two-thirds of the term's tuition and fees. Those receiving scholar ships include Margaret A. Childers, Nona Jean Dona hue, Nicholas Francis Gler Jr., Richard L. Knights, James Adrian Albright, Glen F. Kaye, Julianne Yoakley, Gary Allen Meade, and Jack L. Winchester, all of Medford; David P. Mailoy and Rodney A. Badger, Gold Hill; Jeffry C. Anhorn and James L. Nel son, Central Point; Richard J. Wilson, Trail; and Maranee C. Jones, Talent. Thai Student Pleads Innocent at Corvallis Corvallls -WFD- Damrongsak Sirimungkla, 26-year-old Thai land student, has entered a plea of Innocent In Circuit Court to the slaying of hit homeland sweetheart. Trial was scheduled to be gin Oct. 22. Sirimungkla is accused of first degree murder In the June 22 fatal stabbing of Suvana Pakasuta, 26, Thai land student who was attend ing Oregon State University.: r
