Medford mail tribune. (Medford, Or.) 1909-1989, July 20, 1962, Image 8

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FRIDAY. JULY 20, 1062
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The Family Council
Editor's note: The Family Council consists or a Jud(e, a
phvcnlatrlitt, three clergymen, three edltori and a women's edltnr.
Kach article la autnmary of m family disagreement preaented to Uie
Council. The Council deala with problem!, major and minor,
encountered by guldanra counaelora and social workeri. Kdited by
by Mrs. Alma Denny. (Copyright by General Features Corp.)
Joanna F.-He doesn't have
to leave me alone as much
as he does.
Clarle F-She doesn't have
the least concept of what I'm
up against.
Jaanna F.-I'm 39, Clark is
33 ar.d we've been married
seven years. After losing two
infants during childbirth, we
were able to have two more.
They're fine, sturdy toddlers,
now, a boy of 3 and a little
girl of 18 months. Naturally
I don't have an easy time of
it, especially at my age. If
ever a wife needed her hus
band around regularly I do
right now.
But Clark lives only for
his job. He eats it, drinks it,
breathes it, dreams it, talks
it exclusively. I can be flat
on my back with both kids
screaming for attention, but
one phone call from his office
and he's off to New York or
Canada. The children barely
know him. I tell him he's
helling on the wrong horse.
He'll regret neglecting us.
Clark F.-This comes of mar
rying a spoiled darling.
Jeanne has never really been
out in the world. She went
directly from a sheltered life
under her father's roof to a
brief marriage with a rich
playboy. This was annulled
and she lived with her indulg
ent parents until her marriage
to me. I was deceived as to
her maturity, despite her be
ing older than me. She sulks
and pouts like a 4-year-old
over things I can't control. A
true helpmate would under
stand my side of our diffi
culties. I gave up college to get an
early start on a career with
a wonderful corporation
which rewards hard work
quickly. Although I started
as a salesman, I now manage
the training department. This
takes lots of thought. Since
I can't get any work done at
home, due to the kids' and
Jeanne's fretting, I use the
company offices wherever 1
happen to be.
Tha Council: Anyone with
half an eye can see the trou
ble here. But Jeanne and
Clark aren't opening that
half. They're each too en
grossed in their own little
bills of complaint to recall
that marriage means reaching
out to lighten the load and
brighten the road for some
one else.
Clark thinks Jeanne should
be content that he's en route
toward a higher salary and
she should put no roadblocks
-like companionship and help
-in his way. And Jeanne
thinks Clark's life is a snap
compared to hers, which is
anchoied In the home port
by chores, child care and lone
liness. At present, home to Clark
is somewhere to send his
check and then, a place to
flee. But since a home is more
than a building with front
and back lawns, his check is
on the way to being marked
"insufficient funds," Home is
a relationship requiring more
than dutiful hellos, good-byes,
and letters. And in the guise
of "ambitiousncss," a young
father like Clark may be
burying himself in a frenzy
of work to escape from home
responsibilities he dreads. He
figures, mistakenly of course,
that increased dollar earnings
will make up for shortchang
ing his family in the husband
hood and parenthood depart
ments. But Jeanne has made the
situation worse than it need
be by her sandstorm of self
pity. True, she's been through
a lot. Possibly, in view of
her age and child-bearing dif
ficulties, she needs more
household help and gobs of
reassurance as to her attrac
tiveness to her husband. The
former can be provided by
paid houseworkers if not by
Clark: the latter must come
only from him.
Where's her empathy to
ward Clark, however? Here's
a guy, who competing with
college men, feels he must
run fast Just to stay in one
place. Insecure, he spends
nerve-wracking days figuring
ways to go beyond the call
of duty in order to impress
his employers. Jeanne could
at least help him do the figur
ing at home, by providing a
peaceful retreat there at cer
tain hours.
Here, though, Is our big
brainstorm for this pair: Beg,
borrow, steal, or hire a baby
sitter. Take Jeanne along,
Clark, on your next business
trip. This will accomplish at
least three big things, all
good: Jeanne will see for her
self what stiff competition
you're up against. She'll have
a therapeutic respite from
child care. And you and she
can enjoy a touch of the old
togetherness.
SATURDAY SPECIAL
HAMBURGER
With All
of tha
Trimmings
9C
Open
Until 11:30
TORNADO
BOWL
In the Oakdale Market
Two-Way Treat
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Attention Eagles!
FREE DANCE
SATURDAY, JULY 21
THE RANCHEROS
Eaglet and Guests Welcome
DANCE
EVERY
SAT. NITE
GOLD HILL GRANGE
Muiic by VIC FLOOD WAYNE SHIELDS
& tha Rhythm Masters
Refreshments Served AM Ivenina Check Room Free
The Biggest Band . . . The Best Dance! Everyena Welcoml
SATURDAY
NITE
9 Till
1 A.M.
DANCING
OASIS
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EAGLE
POINT
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In HTi UTiJrtTi
Button magic turns one
apron Into two! Wear with
bib for cooking - without for
smart serving. Easy-sew.
Printed Pattern B30R: Miss
es' Sizes Small (10. 121; Me
dium 114, Hi); Large lift. 21)).
Medium size apron and bib
take 2't yards 33-lnrh.
THIRTY-FIVE CENTS In
coins for this pattern -add 10
tents for each pattern for
flrsl-cliiss mall. Send to Mar
Ian Martin, Medford Msil
Tribune. Pattern Dept., 2.12
West lBth SI, New York II.
NY Print plainly NAME.
ADDRESS with SIZE and
STYLE NUMBER.
Extra Big Summer Pattern
Catalog -over Wfl styles for
all sizes, occasion. Send 3.V
Lots of Fun and Excitement for
Young and Old
JAY STOUGH and the Dixie Drifters
Y'all Cornel
COME ONE-COME ALL
Saturday, July 21
DREAMLAND
Dane in Cool Comfort
Mac's Country Boys
fteaular band will be plavlne,
this week.
Refreshments
Ketreshments
M ' - Served
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( Sr a.- . J. ""
Grange Notes
Pomona Grange)
! Jackson County Pomona
Grange will meet at the Grif
fin Creek Grange hall Satur
day, July 28 at 8 p.m.
The speaker for the eve
ning will be Robert D. Heffer
nan, Medford attorney, and
campaign chairman of the
1962-63 United Crusades
drive.
NAMED POLICE CHIEF
Vancouver, Wash.- Wt -Ed
Mayo, assistant police chief
since 1933, has been named
chief. .
Pittsburgh - lUPli - A local
drive-in movie today offered
this enticing double bill -"Paradisio"
and "Portrait of
a Sinner." A rival theater
countered with "Premature
Burial" and "The Horizontal
Lieutenant."
TIMBER ROOM
CAFE
5 SOUTH
RIVERSIDE
Complete
LUNCHES .
Complete
DINNERS .
75c UD
1.00 up
Featuring from 5 to 10 p.m.
MEXICAN FOODS
STEAKS A You Like Them
Hours 5 A.M. to 10 P.M.
Take Home a Gallon of
ROOT BEER
OR COKE
a gallon
50'
Saturday &
Sunday Only
STATISTICS STUDIED - George Brercton, left, deputy di
rector of the California Department of Justice, lakes a long
look at the shocking statistics on narcotics offenses in the
stale. Slate Atty. Gen. Stanley Mosk, right, holds the papers.
Mosk ended the first of six state prc-White House narcotics
conferences in Salinas, before heading for Visalia, San Diego,
Los Angeles, San Francisco and Sacramento. (UPI)
Featuring . . .
BROASTED
.... it Cubby'f modern
parkling Drive-In Rei
rjurant and New Coffecl
Shop!
4FAMILY.
CHICKEN special
(j 12-pe. tub of chicken, 1
f french fries, 1 -pint cola II
flaw and garlic bread! A 11
i fine feed for... 'I
etaaaaaaaeaaaate V (TnC a
jf PATIOS, J J
ff PACK
ml 12.BC tuk nf r hirer .art 1. aMi,.lsi
ml quart potato salad, 1 -gait- II
If Ion root beer, buttered I
II rolls, forks, plates, nap- II
W kins, cups, packed to go ,m
Enjoy a delicious
Breakfast!
Served from 7 a.m.
Cubby's
PHONE ORDERS
773-2919
FESTIVAL OPENING
BALL
SATURDAY
July 21st
1 1 p.m. to 2:30 a.m.
Public is cordially in
vited to join the fun
and dance to the mu
sic of the "Firehouse
Five."
FREE
MIDNIGHT BUFFET
MARK ANTONY
MOTOR HOTEL
Ashland, Ore.
Phone 482-1721
TRY OUR FAMOUS "OH BOY"!
SULLY'S DRIVE-IK
827 South Central
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ELLAR
235
EAST
MAIN
OPEN Tuesday through Friday
3 P.M. 3 A.M., Saturday 12 Noon-3 A.M.
DANCE
to your favorite records
on the jukebox!
Closed Sunday and Monday
"Out-of-Towners" . . . "Out-of-Staters"
enjoy it . . .
Brinq
the
Family
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WHY DON'T YOU?
ENJOY DINNER TODAY
At The
Rogue River Lodge
Every Saturday Nita
HAL GROW combination
electric organ and piano.
BARNEY BEATON
sax, trumpet and drums.
Dine in leisure on
our lava rock
terrace
Owners:
lola Porterfteld,
Freida & Henry
Keeter
23 Miles N.E. of Medford on Crater lake Hwy. 62
OUR SATURDAY AND SUNDAY SPECIALTIES:
Eya of Prima Rib Cooked in a Barrel Out of Doors.
Beef Ribs
EVERY DAY: Charcoal Broiled Steaks Prawns
Chicken & Dumplings Roast Turkey
Buttermilk Biscuits t Homemade Pastries
Many other delicious foods for your enjoyment.
SERVING YOUR FAVORITE BEVERAGES
Relax this weekend in one of our
modern Riverbank Cottages.
Open
4 p.m. to 1 2 midnite
daily, 4 p.m. to 2:30
a.m. Friday & Sat.
Closed Thursdays
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