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WEDNESDAY. MAY 30. 1962
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Cnunrtl roiulill of a Juage. I
nsvrhlalriiL thru clfrfymcn.
three fdltnri and B wotnen't edttor.
Kach article It a aummary of a
family dltaireemenl preiented to
the Council. The Council dealt
wllh problem!, major and minor,
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rlort and aoclal workcri. Edited
by Mn, Alma Denny. (Copyright
by General Feature! corp.)
Mrt. B. Z. - He'i a brute but
I haven't the heart to walk
out.
Mrt. G. G. -She's a nervous
wreck and has a blood condi
tion, too. She should leave
him.
Mrs. B. Z. - I don't want to
break up my 25-year marriage
If anything can be saved of
It. 1 was 16 when I married
Boyd and trouble began live
months later when I refused
to adopt a baby born to a girl
Boyd's best friend had gotten
In trouble. Hes Deen naieiui
to me ever since.
After five years we adopted
a daughter who's now 20
and married. We also have
our own children, a girl 17
and a boy 13. All these years
I've been getting up at 6:30
to wait on Boyd. Th house Is
clean, his clothes ar always
ready, his meals are on time.
Ri.i hp not onlv fails to an
prcciate anything and take
be out once In a while, but
he also enjoys ruining any
small pleasures I try to give
myself. If I stay up to watch
TV, he yells that I'm losing
sleep. If I invite my friends
over, he insults them. It I go
li the movies alone, I tome
home to find the kids in
tears from his ranting. How
long should I endure this?
Mrt. G.G. - I'm the friend
Mrs. Z. invites over. I've been
her confident for 14 years.
I'm the only friend who still
calls on the Z.'s. Even my
husband can't take Boyd's
boorishness any more. Boyd
has alienated everyone who'd
like to be friendly.
Mrs. Z. has taken more
than any human being should
be expected to suffer. For the
past seven years she's been
under doctor's care. I've seen
her when she can hardly
move her arms or fingers
because they swell up so
from a heart and blood condi
tion. She's a nervous wreck
from the turmoil Boyd creates
with her and the children
over bedtime, going out, en
tertaining and other everyday
matters.
I feel as close to her as a
sister and I know she doesn't
have to put up with this In
definitely. Her mother lives
alone in a big house and she
could take the children and
move in there. But she still
thinks Boyd will turn human.
The Council: From a half
dozen specific problems pre
sented by MrsJZ., and verified
by her friend, we have Isolat
ed one the unbearable ten
sion between husband and
wife. This example Indicates
the futility of hoping that
time will dissolve deep per
sonality defects. Mrs. Z. hn,
given the stalemate almost 25
years of time. Yet the and
Boyd must proceed as they
should have done cleared
the air during those early
quarrels when she was 16.
Now it's a thick wall of smog
between them, with Boyd re
treating to sleep, hcrmilism
and spite, and his wife to ill
ness, self pity and surrender.
One of the signs of good
mental health Is self assertion,
plus a respect for the self as
sertion of others. In that way,
much benefit can result from
marital spats. In fact, one
psychologist claims that con
flict in marriage is normal
and that It's the avoidance of
conflict that piles up disas
ter. In avoiding the "havlng it
out" sessions demanded by
Boyd's highhandedness. Mrs.
Z. has merely postponed the
Inevitable through painful,
wasted years.
Perhaps that first quarrel,
the one about taking an Illeg
itimate baby into their home
at a favor, might to have
been taken to a wise mediator
-a pastor, a social worker -miner
than be snappishly
ended by Mrs. Z.'s holier-than-thou
refusal and Boyd's
permanent sulking.
At any rate, much genuine
love can grow out of grave,
"creative'' quarreling - the
sort which isn't dead end -that
is. always bogging down
In name calling, weeping, re
hashing of irrclevancics. Mrs.
Z.'s salvalion will come from
being able both to speak up
and to listen to Boyd. At this
stage she will need the en
couragement of a marriage
counselor to give her confi
dence, as well as specific pro
cedures It looks very much as
though bodily ills are pro
claiming the presence of hot-tled-up
tensions which aren't
released through talk and ac
tion. Resentment muirt com
out somewhere. If Mrs. Z.
(tarts expressing hers, in a
kind OamiRh steadfast .way.
the physical symptoms may
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