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MEDFORD MAIL TRIBUNE, MEDFORD ORB.
WEDNEBDAY, JULY 20, I860
Family
Council
Sandra E, Judy Is making
mistake.
Judy T. Our relationship
' is more beautiful than a love-
less marriage.
Sandra E. My closest
friend and I are 21 and are
employed by a large corpora
tion in our community.
Recently Judy confessed
to be that she has been having
physical relations with one of
the employees - here. I had
' known only that she dated
him occasionally and had no
Idea tilings were this serious.
I feel she is making a ter
rible mistake and will regret
it and soon! This man isn't
nice to her and shows no in
terest in her except for sex
ual purposes. I don't trust
him and think he may boast of
his conquest. I can't under
stand how a nice, attractive
girl like Judy tan let herself
In for a sordid affair like this
Judy T. It's easy for those
who know nothing about it to
call ours a sordid affair, but
just calling names doesn't
make it so.
I have been In love with
Bruce for two years. I know
he doesn't love me, but he is
very much attracted physical
ly. He says he has never de
sired anyone else as much. I
feel he can. Jove me and
eventually he will.
One thing I'm 'sure Sandra
is all wrong about is the pos
sibility that Bruce would do
anything to hurt my reputa
tion. He just isn't that kind.
He's not as bad as that. I am
very hopeful that we'll marry
soon. A relationship like ours
is more beautiful than a love
less marriage.
The Council: ' Fads' in ro
mance change with the times,
but basic human relationships
change very little and very
slowly.
It was the fad of the first
part of our century to contrast
loveless' marriage with an in
tense, exciting extramarital
relationship. "
But this fad has already
come the full cycle and the
exponents of "romance" out
side of marrige have suffered
a stunning defeat. Scientific
fact has put the finger on this
delusion.
Psychiatrists working with
individuals find that men and
women involved in extra.
marital affairs have none of
the basic elements of love re
lationship. In love, there is a strong
urge to contribute to the hap
piness of the other. In physi
cald relationships outside of
marriage this doesn't exist.
There is the . urge to . take
rather than to give. The wom
an, almost, invariably, feels
hurt and humiliated. The man
may talk of his respect for
and devotion to the woman,
but in practice he shows little
real concern for her welfare.
Judy is, unfortunately, the
victim of an outworn fad. She
is whistling in the dark when
she talks of the "beauty" of
her relationship and the early
possibilities of marriage.
Some affairs do eventually re
sult in marriage, but these
marriages are often .unsatis
factory with the man feeling
trapped and the woman un
certain about whether she has
won the complete loyalty and
devotion of her mate.
On the other side of the
picture is the fact that few
marriages are entirely love
less. Problems may arise, but
the man and woman who have
made a decision to commit
themselves to one another
have a stronger desire to
make a success of -the rela
tionship than those who fear
or shun such a commitment..
The fact that Judy has con
fided in her friend may be an
indication that she is looking
for someone to help extricate
her from her unhappy situa
tion. Buts he, alone, must do
the job. Judy has already
been hurt much, but she can
save herself from more hurt
by cutting off this tie imme
diately. (Copyright 1960, Caneral
Features Corp.)
Unemployment Fund
Records Increase
Salem fllPB T h e Oregon
Employment department Said
Tuesday that during the past
fiscal year the State Un
employment Benefit Trust
Fund increased almost by
half.
The fund stood at $38,002,.
776 at the end of June. This
compared with $25,999,934
it the end of June, 1959.
Thirteen per cent fewer
persons made claims against
the fund this year and 26 per I
cent fewer checks werel
Issued. )
Previously the fund hadi
been on the decline.
The state employment serv
Ice took 116,864 job applies,
tlons In the recently-conv
pleted fiscal year.
BIRDSEYE
DIAPERS
FULL DOZEN
REG.
2.49
I66;
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Kuum 2.1
COOLERS 4
REG. 39.95
SHAVING
MIRROR
DEODOtJOT
REG. 98c
Chux Diapers
Rag. 1.91
149
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Plain or
Iran
191B4S 16
CARTERS
LITTLE
PILLS
L. A.
FORMULA RUBICAPS BR0NZTAN
Re. 2.97
CANVAS
.OXFORDS
"DIAL"
BATH SOAP
3 BAR
PAK
Reg. 39c
MulTI-VITAMINl
ISO 0.h.ki
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9'
35 Cup
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COFFEE
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26.95 V.lu.
88
GIRLS
PLAY SHORTS
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43
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PLAT
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Valuei
2.97
99
Woman'
PEDAL
PUSHERS
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4 98 i
DRISTAN
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SUNTAN
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75'
BOYS
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49
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26.95 Vilua
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far camping,- fiihmg
Ganaral Electric
TOASTER
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199
COLEMAN
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187
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439
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2.95 Value
$1.99
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Aluminum Cram
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14.91
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99
100 Faet
Steal Cora
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88
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LEVER GRIP
HOSE
NOZZLE
1.20
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Vinyl Air
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1
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099
COASTER
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Reg. 12.50
187
52-INCH
POOL
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5.00
199
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21.60
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99
14
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76
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