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The Family Council Editor's Bote: The Family ConncL consists 01 a Jodie a psychiatrist, tare clergymen, a newspaper ed toi a women's editor and two writers. Each article is a summary of an acual report The Family Conncil does not five advice; it merely repurtr on problems that have been dealt with by responsible agencies an catuuelors. Eunic D. I don't want things to be this way. Michael R. - But she knows I love her. Eunle D. -1 am 23 and my fiance i two years older. We had planned to be married at the end of this year. A few months ago Mike and I started having intimate relations. We were very sure of one another and we had begun to find it increasingly difficult to put limits on our love-making. However, I've tried to limit our intimacies because this just isn't the way I want things to be. : Recently I was asked to help entertain a distant rela tive from another country. I spent quite a bit of time show ing this young man (he is three years younger than I am) some of the' sights in our city. I later discovered that Mike had spent this time with a girl with whom he had an affair the year before. When ,1 objected Mike pointed out that I had been "holding out" on him - implying that the other girl wasn't. I am upset enough to break our engage ment. :. Michael R- - I am very much in love with Eunice and i . ' mn x l i j i Sue Knows ii. luai snouia oe enough for both of us. What ever happened between me and this other girl (and I'm not admitting that anything did) can't change the fact that it's Eunice and only Eunice I .want to marrv. Eunice knows very well why I was upset about her having spent all that time with that relative. He may be a little young but he obvious oly thinks he's God's gift to wo men. Eunice even told me that with, her, although she backed down when I offered to put him in his place in a way he'd never forget. ' I'd afraid that Eunice feels I don't care for her as much as I did before we became inti mate and that isn't true. She seemi to feel that every time she gives herself she cheapens herself. I can't convince her o tSat I really want her for her-self-and not for any cheap thrills. The Council: If Mike is sin cere in his statement he can prove it by not making any further demands on Eunice until they are married. It is quite evident that this relationship has been greatly soiled by the premature physi cal intimacies. The jealousy shown by Mike and his ugly retaliation probably would not have arisen if he had been more certain of the inflexibil ity of Eunice's high standards Eunice would have been more sure of herself and her own standards so sure that she wouldn't have found it neces sary to discuss her relative's misconduct with her fiance, She would simply have dropped the relative when he ceased to behave like a gentle man. . Since both Eunice and Mike are quite aware that she has been made unhappy by the turn their courtship has tak en, it is more than foolish for them to continue in this di rection. Eunice is apparently afraid that she will drive Mike into the arms of another woman if she insists on "hold ing out." This anxiety, her. guilt and the pressure she feels to indulge in intimacies she doesn't wholeheartedly want, set the worst possible patterns for their future rela tionship. ; Apart from these very im portant considerations, there remains the fact that Eunice and Mike are missing one of the finest periods of their re lationship the time when they can deepen their under standing of one another on the mental and emotional lev els and establish strong bonds of' trust and' mutual interest. They have converted it into a period of fear, doubt, hostility and limited pleasures. - (Copyright 1959, General , Features Corp.) . Newark, N.Y. (DPD When police here received a report that a net skunk had been lost, the following entry was made on the log: "Fellows, don't try to pick it up because you may get hold of the wrong skunk." The first public power sup ply system began in England in 1901. AvUfL nitew, cjyA- mtcfGfa MAIL TRIBUNE, Mtdfor, Or. Thursday, Oct. 22, 1959 A 7 Kidney Transplant In Non-Identical Twins Successful Paris (DPD A team of 30 specialists using atomic tech niques, have performed the second successful kidney transplant in medical history between non-identical twin brothers. Details of the surgery per formed on the 37-year-old brothers . at Necker, France, j on June 29 have been dis closed in the professional medical journel "La Presse Medicale." The procedure involved ad ministration of massive doses of cobalt radiation to the brother who received the kid ney so his body's chemical de fenses would accept the transplant. Doses of X-Ray The only previous case of a kidney transplant between non-identical twins occurred last Jan. 24 at Peter Bent Brigham Hospital in Boston when John M. Riteris, 23, of Milwaukee, Wis., received a kidney from his non-identical twin Andrew. John received doses of X ray to prevent rejection of the new tissue by his body. In the operation at Necker, the patient, identified as M. G. S., suffered from a chronic kidney disease. He had been given only a short time to live. A surgical team headed by Dr. Jean Vaysse worked closely with specialists in the fields of urology, blood and kidney diseases. Extreme sterilization safe guards had to be taken be cause the massive radiation had reduced the ability of the ailing brother to fight infec tion. Skin Grafted The recipient of the kidney underwent surgery for 4V& hours. His well brother, M. A. S., was operated on for" 2Vfc hours to remove the good kid ney he was donating. 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