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Hatlo MAIL TRIBUNE, MtiM, Or,n, Monday, D.e.mber 8, 1M1 immy I v Wfe NOV. THIS MUTUAL RJND R2l 15 MOT OJLY SECURITY -7 . ..r, OOCATU' MV Shoehorm TBIED THE MONEV JSfLL 'ER FOR VOUR OLD AGE Bur SELLING GAMEf THE DIVIDENDS- FOR TDy PROSPECTIVE CUSTOMERS 64VE HIM THE SAME MOAN 4ND ni i wr irii TO GET IT PC ircr TheyTl Do It Every Time I f lib Mmipm from Sanfa! lr&S r S3 HE THOUGHT WHIT THE BUSINESS WORLD NEEDED WAS ANOTHER BILL COLLECTOR NOW LISTEN TO THE SAME PROSPECTS 1U4NX dND A TIP OP THE W-CTtO HAT TO . Ijrrv Williams-, 883 Delaware ro 'im sxacjnMG My own COLLECTION GENtV-T COLLECT THE BAD DEBTS KcUPLE OWE M3U AND I ONLY CH4B5E VDU TEN PER CENT- AvHAT DO I NEED A COLLECTION H 4UCJNT MJK.r J. W J I Kit, I ty 4 CASH BUSINESS THE KINO OP CUSTOMERS I HAVE PAY RIGHT ON THE BAPJPELHEAP X HAVEN'T GOT A DIME OUTSTA MDIN6- The Family Council - Editor! not: The Famll) Co&ncti consists ol a nd(e, a psychiatrist dire clergymen, a newsoaoer editor, women's editor and two writers Each artieU 's a summary ol an actual report The Family Council does oui live aovice; it merely reports on problems that have been dealt "j rcsiounoie acencie ana caussiar. Lillian IL-My husband and I have been married for 20 years and have four children- ranging from 10 to 18. I have been very busy bringing them up and didn't give much thought to myself or my hus band in all these years. I realize it was a big mis take. My husband has got ten accustomed to doing with out me. He always goes alone to conventions and other af fairs, while most of his busi ness associates bring their wives. Sometimes his secre tary is my stand-in. Some gossip came to my ears recently indicating that this secretary has been my stand-in in more ways than one. My husband denies all, but refuses to fire her. I think it is his duty to do this, even if it is a big sacrifice from , the business point of view. He says she is indispensable. Robert R. - The woman1 in question is several years older than I am and a person with a great deal of dignity and good sense. I really felt quite safe from vicious gossip when I went with her to various functions. She was very help ful to me in making contacts and gathering information at .such affairs. ... . I don't feel that Lillian has a right to complain in view of the fact that she never want ed to go to such functions when I tried to take her. The few times she did go, she was miserable. She worried about the children and didn't seem to know how to behave with either men or women. She did not wear the right clothes and was uncomfortable about it all evening. The awful truth seems to be that she has not kept up with me over the years. Th Council: This kind of problem can sneak up on couple without their being aware that much is amiss. It takes a violent shock, such as Lillian has had, to force the couple to face issues. Probably Lillian's social discomfort at her husband's functions drove her to bur row deeper than necessary in to family and home problems - the area where she felt most secure. Robert's pain at see ing that his wife was not socially adequate among his business associates probably drove him toward ignoring the whole problem and seek ing a way of escape. If he had been more frank with his wife at an earlier stage much unhappiness could have been avoided. Lillian's recognition that she is, in some measure, re sponsible for this situation is a step in the right direction. It may be an uphill fight for her to arrive at the point where she can function smoothly socially, but if she sets her mind to it she 11 sure ly win. She should not expect too much of herself at first and avoid blaming herself or getting discouraged if things don't go as well as she would like. She'll find experience an excellent teacher. If Lillian has any faith at all in her husband, we believe that her demand that he fire his secretary is way out of order. If there has been gos sip, this woman might be cru cified as a result of the firing. Lillian .should realize that it is very likely that at this time she has an emotional need to blame someone else for her own failing. She will find much greater satisfac- I tion in the long run if she Start of End Seen For Faubus Little Rock, Ark. CDPD A segregationist split has been credited with causing a split between so-called ; "moder ates" and segregationists for the six seats on the Little Rock school board and one "moderate" called the result "the beginning of the end for Orval Faubus, a 20th Century Machiavelli." Complete, unofficial re turns to United Press Inter national gave seats to Russell H. Matson Jr., Everett Tucker Jr., and Ted L. Lamb of the "moderate" slate, which was condemned at the last minute by Gov. Orval Faubus as being "integrationists." Ed I. McKinley, unopposed for the seat he sought, Ben D. Rowland Sr., and Municipal Judge R. W. (Bob) Laster, all backed by the Segregationist Capital Citizens Council, won the other three posts. , "Our victory is the begin ning of the end for Orval Faubus, a 20th Century Machiavelli," said Lamb,- a Little Rock advertising execu tive. "This is the first crack in the Faubus edifice, and I pre dict his entire political em pire, founded as it is upon deceit, misrepresentation and bigotry, will soon be crum bling at his feet. The attempts of this unscrupulous demo gogue to control the Little Rock school district have been thwarted." 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