6A Mendiy, May 19, 1958
MAIL TRIBUNE, MEDFORD, ORE.
Family
Council
Mrs. D. R. Matilda's hus
band has turned her against
us.
Malhilda F. That's ridicu
lous he just isn't interested
in them.
Mrs. D. R, I am deeply
hurt about the way my daugh
ter, Mathilda, has treated me
since her recent marriage.
I have always done the very
best for her, giving her more
than we could really afford
because I wanted her to have
more advantages than I did.
She never showed any grati
tude and was an irritable girl
and often threw temper tan
trums.
I thought she would change
when she got married, but her
husband has been a bad influ
ence. I don't think he likes
us. I had hoped Mathilda and
I would be drawn closer to
gether after her marriage, but
now she seems never to want
to see her father or me. I beg
hr not to let her husband in
fluence her against us.
Mathilda F. Mother keeps
harping on one thing that
John has turned me against
my family. That is ridiculous.
He just isn't interested in my
family.
Mother seems to think she
And Dad are supposed to be
our best friends,"but we would
rather be among couples our
own age. Mother has always
gotten on my nerves in a lot
of little ways and Dad was al
ways drawn into his shell. He
never did have anything much
to talk about.
Frankly, I had looked for
ward to marriage as a way of
getting away from my par
ents. Don't get me wrong. I
love my husband, but I was
never happy at home and it
means so much to me to have
my own place in the world
without my parents.
Th Council Mathilda's
feelings are somewhat natural
but very childish. Her par
ents may have to sit tight
until she becomes a little more
mature.
, At one time or another,
most children develop a feel
ing of resentment, a sense of
being shut out of their par
ents' lives in a very essential
way. As they mature, they
recognize the realities of the
situation that they are chil
dren and they are loved dear
ly, but they cannot become a
part of their parent's most in
timate existence. In a healthy
relationship, they accept this
and look forward to finding
tAir own mate.
8om persons never get
vp this childish anger at
hiint shut out and find vari
ous reasons to prove to them
selves that they have, in some
ay, been cheated by their
ytrents. Mathilda seems to be
ne of those individuals.
Mrs. D. R. should recognize
Carriage rarely alienates a
ehild who does not already
feel alienated. If Mathilda
felt a close, warm relationship
vith her parents, she would
jsull her husband into this
erbit. Mathilda now is using
r husband to shut her par
ents out of her life, as she
nee felt shut out. Mrs. D. R.'s
criticism om Mathilda's hus
tnd will only widen the
ftreach. She should recognize
9 is not the responsible
Sarty.
Mathilda must try to under
stand her parents never de
nied her her "own place in
the world." They wanted this
for her. .Until she learns to
ccept and love her parents,
she is not well equipped to be
come a parent herself.
(Copyright 1958, General
' Features Corp.)
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New York (IP A noted
judge who gained fame as a
criminal lawyer proposes that
professional criminals be
placed on "a Devil's Island for
life."
"If I had my way," Kings
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Samuel S. Leibowitz said, "all
professional criminals and I
don't mean the itinerant crim
inals who get into trouble
once in a while would be
put on a Devil's Island." He
suggested the penal colony
be set up in either the Atlan
tic or Pacific ocean areas.
The first project for im
provement of the Arkansas
river was authorized by the
Federal River and Harbor
Act of 1832.
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