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SIXTEEW MEDFORD (OREGON) MAIL TRIBUNE Friday, May 17, 1957 Help Yourself to Happiness MM.f..f ...t tnvlte P'nt their problemi. All queries will receive Mi.U-n. aJ,J.huld be comPnied by a wamped, self-iddressed r.. Tifl -i?S-ir.,?MM5,J!.ARRI8 SEIFERT, M. A, Department of Edoc AME'CAN INSTITUTE OF FAMILY RELATIONS, ZIT Suniet John and Jane blow up at each other fairly regularly. John tells Jane in no uncertain terms his opinion of her extravagant new flat, and Jane lets fly with her resentment of John's proposed fishing trip with the boys. They argue endlessly. Bill and Mildred never quar rel, noi that bill likes the way "is wile treats his friends, or that Mildred enjoys Bill's ridicule of her sister. But they keep .their feelings hidden with the idea that, by not giving expression to them, their outrage and anger will disappear. They plod through their years of marriage, piling up secret hostilities which at last assume mountainous-pro portions. Dr. Paul Popence, Director of the American Institute of Fam ily Relations in Los Angeles, says that a happy medium may be found between these two-ex tremes. "Every family group has occasional negative emotions," he maintains. "A child feels an- 6-Year-0ld Boy Hurt When Hit by Car David Rodney Hans, 6, son of Mr. and Mrs. Richard J. Hans, of 113 Laurel st., Medford, suf fered head and leg bruises Wed nesday when he was struck by a car. according to city police. He was taken to Sacred Heart hospital by Medford Ambulance service. He was released later . Wednesday, hospital attendants said. Operator of the car was Har old .Herbert Vessey Jr., 820 Dakota st., Medford police said. According to police records, Ves sey said the boy ran out into the j street in front of his car before he could stop. The accident oc curred at West Eighth and Lau rel sts. In another accident Wednes day, Melvin Merrill Taylor, 21, of 705 Oak st., Medford bruised his arm when, the car in which he was a passenger struck a itreet sign at West McAndrews rd. at Summit st., officers re Krted. Gordon Otto Maurer, Ashland, was operator of the car, they said. tagomstic toward his parents, and husband, and wife get on each other's nerves." "Blowing up. is not the answer, however Quarreling becomes a habit and permanent damage to the mar riage may result from hasty, angry words. John might try taking out his anger on a punch ing bag, and Jane might find re lease in polishing silver. When they cool off they can discuss their differences quietly.- On the other hand. Bill and Mildred's method of hiding their hostility is equally dangerous. Strong emotions increase ,like aough in a warm oven unless they are released or wisely chan neled. Like John and Jane, this couple need to learn how and when to express their feelings. We hear much about "communi cation" these days; it is a great asset in marriage, as in every other relationship. But, according to Dr. Roswell H. Johnson, Director of the De partment of counseling at the Institute, it is the quality, not the quantity, of communication that is important. First, Bill and Milred need to learn to talk over their common interests and the ideas on which they agree; then it will be easier to discuss prob lems on which they do not see eye- to eye. If both couples really listen to each other's opinions instead of merely waiting for a chance to air their own, and if each hon estly tries to reach a reasonable compromise on theix differences, hostility will have no chance to develop. THE OLD DAYS Lewiston. Me. OH Faculty members of the Bliss Business college unearthed several 19th century rule books when they recently celebrated the school's 60th anniversary. 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