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J The Family Council Kdltor'a not- The rarally council toniltti el Judge, psychiatrist, three eleritymen. a newspaper editor a women's editor and two writers I'.arb artlrle If a summar of ao aclaal report The Famll) Council doei not five advice; It merely report on problem that have been dealt with by responsible agencies and coumelora Mri. J.M. My ,-ister wants to marry a man ten years younger than herself. Dianna M. Even if it's just for a few years, it'll be worth it Mrs. J.M. My sister is an at tractive woman of 36 who is about to make a fool of herself and mess up the rest of her life by marrying a man ten years younger than herself. She wouldn't listen to anyone when she made her first mar riage. And what a me?.s that was! Her husband was unfaithful from the start. She hasn't gotten over it to this day. She was so badly burned, she didn't want to it For College -7389 Easy-knit this set as a smart protection against winter! 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That may be true now, but what about ten years from now Then he'll start iooking at 18-year-old girls and she'll be ready for the scrap heap. She'.s headed for a second tragedy! ' Dianna M. I know my sister is right in what she says, but I can't help it. I am very mugh in love with this young man and must marry him. Even if I have only a few years of happiness with him, it will be worth it. I didn't look for a situation like this. The only reason 1 was friendly with this young man is that I took it for granted there could be nothing between us be cause of the age difference. I wiui bowled over when he asked me to marry him and now I find I care for him too much to pass up this opportunity. The Council: Mrs. J. M. is too overbearing and treats Dianna like a helpless baby a role Di anna appears to like too well. "I know my sister is right, but I can't help it," says Dianna. In this way she disclaims all responsibility for her actions. She lets her sister think for her and then proceed; to disobey her. She doesn't act her age and per haps this is why she prefers the company of a younger man. A marriage with this age dif ference is not doomed to failure, regardless of Mrs. J. M.'s very set opinions. Such a marriage, however, requires considerable clear-sighedness. The woman entering it should do o 'with a full knowledge of the risks and problems involved, but with the same courage and optimism it takes to make a success of any marriage. Dianna admits that she became friendly with the young man just because she was sure it would lead to nothing The two impulses that guided her were fear of a second marriage and the desire for a man's compan ioiyhip. She has not overcome the fear at all and is now con templating a panicky plunge. Since she appears to- deeply want a second marriage, Dianna should try to get a grip on her fears and stop being childishly dependent on her sister's opin- ior-, recriminations and proph ecies. She should try to get to know other men and consider carefully the possibility that she might be happier with someone closer to her own age. She should not take the step to the altar with this young man at th'.s time, not because she is too old, but because she is too immature. (Copyright 1956, General Features Corp.) NATION'S YOUNGEST Des Moines, Iowa U.R) Two-week old John Rankin was provided with an unusual lux ury. His father gave him a 1955 hunting license. ray at. 'NEW SLANT-' Mm u yi -while , M $C I - r - Jll "5 OO . J r ' 1 ' v v .3 vou ' walk! becau4 tft knit't on the bias! ith every step you lake. New Slant "(jives' at the thigh and draws in your tummy . , . both at the very satne time! No seams, no bones, no center panel! 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Olson, 515 King st 12:30 p.m. Jackson county Retired Teachers, Civic club house, Ashland. 6:30 p.m. Jackson county Civic Music association, dinner at Jackson hotel. 6:45 p.m. Rogue River Val ley Knife and Fork club, dinner at Country club. 7 p.m. Bethel 14, Job's Daughters, Lincoln school. 7:30 p.m. Guardian Coun cil of Central Point Bethel 38, Job's Daughters, home of Mrs. Paul Snook, 454 Grand ave., Central Point. 7:45 p.m. Gorsline circle, home of Mrs. Carl Whitmore, 3295 Forest avenue. 8 p.m. Epsilon Sigma Alpha sorority, 2584 Bullock rd. Tuesday: 10:30 a.m. Oak Grove Ex tension unit, home of Mrs. Mar tin Gates, 1208 West Ninth st. 12:30 p.m. First Presby terian church circles; Charity, home of Mrs. S. C. Watkins, 1528 Terrace dr.; Faith, home of Mrs. Paul Culbertson, 1663 South Stage rd.; Grace, home of Mrs. C. H. Wendt, Ross lane; Hope, home of Mrs. D. K. West, 52 Ross court; Mercy, Fireplace room at church; Temple, home of Mrs. Allen R. Smith, 102 Black Oak; Trinity, home of Mrs. E. J. DeVoe, 2200 Wood lawn. 1 p.m. First Presbyterian church circle, Bethany, home of Mrs. L. L. Clark, 2118 Dell wood ave. 2:30 p.m. Mail Tribune re porter's school, YMCA second floor. 7:30 p.m. First Presbyter ian church circles: Candlelight, home of Mrs. W. Pedley, 932 Reddy ave.; Vesper, home of Mrs. LeRoy Williams, 1316 West Main. 7:30 p.ni. Howard PTA buzz session, second grade. 7:45 p.m. Toastmistress club, KBOY. 8 p.m. Legion, auxiliary, at Legion home. 8 p.m. Nevita chapter, OES at Central Point Masonic hall. 8 p.m. Pythian club, home of Mrs. Marion Check, 29 Quince. Wednesday: 10:30 a.m. Medford Exten sion unit, courthouse auditor ium. 12 noon Seal sale chair men. Rogue Valley Country club. 12:30 p.m. Medford Town- send Harmony club. Carpenters Union hall, 123Vi West Main st. 12:30 p.m. Women of Ro tary, Rogue Valley Country club. 1 p.m. Afternoon book re view group, Medford branch, AAUW, home of Mrs. A. J. Mun ro, 4748 South Pacific highway. 2 p.m. Table Rock Ladies club, home of Mrs. Alan Flei scher. 7:30 p.m. Roxy Ann Gem and Mineral club, Crater Rock Museum, Scenic ave., Central Point. 8 p.m. Central Point Jay cee Ettes, home of Mrs. David DeArmond. 8 p.m. Jacksonville PTA, new school building on Huen er's lane. 8 p.m. West Side Mothers club, home of Mrs. Allyn Mon roe. Old Stage rd. Thursday: 12:30 p.m. Adarel chapter, OES, home of Mrs. Ralph Lue, 228 Oak Grove rd. 12:30 p.m. Sojourner's club, Pythian hall. 2 p.m. Women's Christian Temperance Union, Salvation Army annex, 236 North Bartlett st. 6 p.m. Reames chapter and Alpha Chapter, OES, Medford Masonic social hall. 7:30 p.m. Unity Truth Cen ter, Room 203, Holly theater building. 8 p.m. SchoqJ of Instruc tion, Reames Chapter and Al pha chapter, OES. Medford Ma sonic hall. 8 p.m. Past Noble Grand club. Rebekah lodge, home of Mrs. Minnie Bryant, 101 Cot tage st. Friday: 11 a.m. Unity Truth Cen ter, Room 203, Holly Theater building. 1 p.m. WSCS,- Community Methodist church, Gold Hill, home of Mrs.' Harriet Elliot on Fourth ave. 1:30 p.m. Past presidents of Ladies auxiliary. Fraternal Order of Eagles, home of Mrs. Frank Root, 323 Chestnut st. Saturday: Rogue River Valley Womens College club, home of Mrs. Glen O Taylor, 1334 Reddy ave. 8 p.m. Public card party at Odd Fellows hall, benefit IOOF home. Win Wisdom A little left-over wine can add zest to next day's soup. White wine blends beautifully with frozen cream of shrimp or with bouillon; sherry gives that "something" to frozen cream of potato soup or consomme; red wine lifts Scotch broth or vege table soup to new heights. Try using a liver pate' when stuffing a roast chicken. Set the oven temperature control of your range at the usual 375 de grees and roast. Serve with tiny onior.-; and green peas, mashed potatoes and a tossed salad. Remember when you're in an economy mood to try that fav orite scalloped-potatoes-and-ham casserole. Should you be with out ham then substitute brown-and-serve sausage (straight from the package) instead. An omelet tastes twice as good when surrounded by mushrooms broiled in lemon butter (heat the canned ones) alternately ar ranged with finger-shaped po tato croquettes. Use Mail Tribune Want Ada Easier fo Cut, Sew and Fit 100 LB. 9031 rti Printed Pattern Thrifty sew-easy! A PRINT ED Pattern that takes just one 100-pound feed bag to make! It's the perfect coverup for kitch en chores with gay "water melon" pockets to add the touch of color. Printed Pattern 9031: Misses' Sizes Small (10, 12); Medium (14, 16). All given sizes: one 100-lb. feed bag or VA yards 39-inch. This printed pattern assures perfect fit. Easy directions print ed on each tissue pattern part. Send Thirty-five cents in coins for this pattern add 5 cents for each pattern for lst-class mail ing. Send to Marian Martin, care of Medford Mail Tribune, Pat tern Dept., 232 West 18th St., New York 11, N.Y. Print plain ly NAME, ADDRESS with SIZE and STYLE NUMBER. WE FILL PRESCRIPTIONS WITH "HOSPITAL CARE" Indeed wa know of no other way. Each pre scription is carefully studied, then filled following your Doctor's orders with unerring accuracy. Pur drugs, conscientious attention to the compound ing, prompt service on deliveries these make us the headquarters for filling prescriptions in this city. Whenever you have a prescription to be filled, think immediately of us . . . then send or bring it in to us. Our integrity is your safeguard! Medford Pharmacy, Inc. We Are Open Today 11:00 a.m. to 10:30 p.m. PHONE 2-6253 127 EAST SIXTH Great Designer Out of Business By GAY PAULEY United Press Correspondent New York (U.R) A week in Manhattan: Valentina, one of the last of the great international coutur iers, announced th'; week she is retiring temporarily. She said the major reason was weariness. The Russian-born designer, who resemble;; Greta Garbo, one of her famous customers, has had her shop and workrooms in Manhattan for 28 years. Her husband, Georce Schlee, president of the firm, faid Valen tina might one day return to work but never again as a couturier-designing only for the in dividual customer. He said she Sunday. October 7. 1956 MEDFORD (OREGON) MAIL TRIBUNE NINE was considering ultimately do ing a collection for a wholesaler, something fhe never has done. Or, she might try her hand at industrial design. "She's just tired . . . she is not ill," said Schlee. "It's jr.-t that we all get older . . . she's not as strong as she used to be. And this shop is hard work." Mr. Schlee said the salon would close at the end of Oct ober and that virtually all em ployees, many of whom have been with the designer since she started, had been placed e'ewhere. Valentina is best known for elegant clothes with timeless lines. Her customers, many of them perennials on best dre.ssed lists, happily shuck "out SI. 000 to $2,000 for a dress. Her clothes have been worn on and off stage by such ,-tari as Lynne Fontan ne, Lillian Gish, Katharine Cor nell, Lily Pons and Katharine Hepburn. She coined the quote, "Mink is for football," and in a recent United Press Interview one of her rare meetings with a re porter said her one rule of dress wa.s, "know thyself." "Ponselle retired while she was at the top in opera," said her husband. "Valentina would rather quit while she too is at the height." t Only about one two-billionth part of the energy radiated by the sun actually reaches the sur face of the earth. Na-ar Book Suggestions for achieving an attractive appearance are given in Mildred Ryan's new book, "Dress Smartly," which has been added to the Medford Pub lic Library. The guide provides information about line, shape, color and texture and tells how to combine the.se factors to fit requirements of build, person ality and coloring. If water glasses (tumblers) ac cidentally stick together, don't force them apart, advises the Gas Appliance Manufacturers association. Just put the cuter glass in hot water nd fill the inner glass with cci water to loosen them. LUC SOT A KY FIVE? THIS COUPON AND MY "IUCKY FIVE" ENTITLE ME TO A 3500 ARTHUR MURRAY DANCE COURSE SEE DETAILS BELOW NAME : ADDRESS.. ' PrAM hR ! CITY i yph v '! X ' I v- '"S.rLr?' h 1 1 W '-'Pi' ff M l 1 : tt, i f v ft km 4 1 ZONE . STATE- Present at your nearest studio or mail tot ARTHUR MURRAY 320 East Main Medford, Oregon This Coupon Will Bring You Fund and Good Times lf any of th serial numbers of your five dollar bills contain a "3" and an "0" than you've got a "Lucky Five." And Here's what you'll receive for it! certificate for a $35.00 Arthur Murray Dance Course at the studio nearest you, plus a wonderful 80-page dance book from which you can leam the Fox Trot. Waltz, Rumba, Samba, Mamoo and Jitterbug right in your own home. Just present your "Lucky Five' in person at your nearest studio or, it you prefer, mail it with the coupon above, even it you ve never danced a step, you'll be able to leam quickly, easily when you take advantage of this double opportunity. Arthur Murray is mak ing this amazing offer to show you the fun and good times to be had when you learn to dance his simple way. So don't wait. Look in your wallet now. If you have a five dollar bill with a "3" and an "0" (in any order), you are a "winner." Only one "winning" bill accepted from each Individual. Arthur Murray students not eligible. Minors must be accompanied by parent. Present "Luck' Buck at your nearest studio, r mail coupon above. ARTHUR MURRAY Check your wallet now to see if you have a Lucky $5 Bill 320 East Main - Modford Phen 3-1728 V -T Faith... . . . It a priceless gift that every one can possess ... a source of love, comfort and strength which is sorely needed in these troubled times. Only you and I, as parents can give this gift of Faith to our children. If we want them to know the foy of Faith tomorrow . . . we must give our children tho gift of Faith today." Herbert H. Lehman The Honorable Herbert H. Lehman. Senator from New York 4 Light their life with Faith ffEl ; ; . bring them to worship this week Contributed to The Religion in American Lift Frofraa W The MEDFORD MAIL TRIBUNE