Medford mail tribune., June 15, 1952, Image 21

As We Live
MARRIAGE HANGS ON
GOOD WILL IN BOTH
Many men keep their wives
in a state of terror by the threat
of taking their children from
them if the wives put up any
protest against the husband's be
havior or mistreatment. That is
what is happening to the1 wife
who wrote:
(Q) "I have been married
for tight years, have a son, six
year old. and am expecting
another child. My husband
comes horn for supper when
he is ready, goes out right
after supper and leaves me
all alone, with our child. He
gives ma so much a week and
If I tall him I can't get by on
it, he blows up. I can't discuss
any of my problems with him
because it always turns into
an argument. I have often
thought of leaving him but I
am afraid he will try to take
my son from me. He keeps
telling ma that is what he will
do if I leave h 1 m . I am very
discouraged as my marriage Is
not what I had hoped it would
be and I have tried so hard to
make it a success. Please tell
me what to do."
(A) Your husband has not
played his role as husband and
LVl I Try
By ELIZABITH HURLOCK, PH.D.
father. If your marriage is to be
r" 1 vBJ ' a success, vou
must have co
operation from
him. No mar
riage that is
one-sided can
possibly suc
ceed
taking
offensive
fcv'O'ejw - Side and see
Dr. Hurlock how you make
out. You have
been on the defensive side long
enough without success.
Tell your husband your meals
will be ready at a stated time.
Arrange them so that if he is
held up at the office, he can still
get home on time. Tell him to
telephone you If something com
es up to detain him. Then if he
does not get home on time or let
you know when he will be home,
you and your son can eat and
let him fix something for him
self when be gets home.
Join some church or commun
ity organization and attend the
meetings. You should have some
fun as well as your husband. Tell
him ahead of time when you will
be out and tell him you want
him to stay with the children.
Make a list of your expenses
Mcleod
McLeod Mr. and Mrs. John
Dunlap, on Crater Lake high
way, have recently opened to
the public a part of their Domino
Ranch. This is "Uncanny Can
yon," in which are demonstrated
some of "nature's weird phe
nomena that are entertaining
and educational." There is also
a pony ride and free play ground
for small children and picnic
tables for the family outing.
Rock collectors will also find
many unusual specimens in cer-
to show your husband why you
cannot get by on what he gives
you. If he says he can't give you
more, ask him to give you an ac
counting of what he is spending
when he goes out at night. So
far as taking your son away, that
is a ridiculous threat. You could
quickly take the matter to court
and tell the Judge how little
time your husband devotes to
his family. That would prove
that he is not a fit guardian for
the child and the court would
award him to you if you decided
to leave your husband.
Eliiabath Hurlock Is a con
sulting psychologist. Write her
In care of this newspaper for
free advice.
(Copyright 1952,
General Features Corp.)
tain designated areas of the can
yon, it is stated.
Mr. and Mrs. Robin Adair
have gone to Portland for medi
cal treatments.
Mrs. Bud Chandler was hos
tess at a luncheon at her home
June 11 for Mrs. Harry Harding,
Sr., Mrs. Arthur Hume, Mrs.
Kenneth Vaughn and the Misses
Jacqueline and Josephine Hume.
There will be a talent scout
show at Upper Rogue Grange
hall Saturday, June 28, at 8 p.m.
The public is welcome.
Mr. 'and Mrs. Tom Jamison
and family of Klamath Falls,
were week end guests of Mr.
and Mrs. John Shearer on June
7.
Luncheon guests of Mrs.
Lewis Dusenbery on June 10
were Mrs. Arthur Hume and
twin daughters, Mrs. Harry
Harding and Lan and Jane Dus
senberry. Mrs. Thelma Soloym of Salem
is guest of her sister and brother-in-law,
Mr. and Mrs. Ralph
Young on Rogue River.
Mrs. Kathryn South and
daughter Karen of Areata, Calif,
were recent overnight guests
here of Mrs. South's mother.
Mrs. Walter Crenshaw.
The inland Salton Sea of Call
fornla is the lowest sizeable body
of water in the United States.
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