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Page 8C East Oregonian COFFEE BREAK Saturday, January 16, 2016 DEAR ABBY Three cats become a crowd in a one-bedroom apartment Well, this school year he came to my Dear Abby: My girlfriend and I school, and he’s very popular. He stares live together. We adopted a cat off at me every day when we pass each the street. A few months later, the cat other and once he said hi to me. became pregnant and had four kittens. What I’m confused about is why We ended up keeping two, and now does he keep unblocking me and we have three cats in a one-bedroom apartment. blocking me on social media? Why is I’ve tried being OK with it, but it’s he doing everything he’s done? I hope making me stressed and unhappy. The you can help. — Blocked In Missouri Jeanne litter box must be constantly cleaned; Phillips Dear Blocked: The ¿rst time he they get into our food and pee on our blocked you, he probably did it to Advice furniture. punish you for having hurt his feelings I’ve tried talking to my girlfriend during the ¿ght. 1ow he may be doing about putting one or two of them up for adop- it to get a rise out of you, or because for some tion, but every time I raise the issue, she gets reason he doesn’t want you to be able to see mad and dares me to get rid of them. I don’t what he’s saying and doing. want her to resent me, but I also don’t like The opposite of love isn’t hate; it’s indiffer- living in the circumstances I’m living in. Please ence. Because he stares at you in the hallway, help. — Surrounded By Cats I suspect he still likes you. Don’t chase him Dear Surrounded: You and your girlfriend — just be patient and let this play out because it appear to be irresponsible pet owners. I hope could be interesting. you realize that if the stray cat you adopted had Dear Abby: My niece got married and some been spayed, this could have been avoided. of the gifts got separated from the gift cards. The litter box should be cleaned regularly Individual cards were found apart from the gifts. and, because the cats belong to both of you, So how do you thank the individuals who left the responsibility should be shared. If the cats gifts without knowing the gift they gave? — urinate on the furniture, it should be discussed Unsure In The West with a veterinarian rather than disposing of Dear Unsure: While it is preferable to them. mention the gift when thanking the giver, no That said, you are not married to this woman. rule states that you HAVE to do so. Your niece If you’re not happy under the current conditions, should start by writing thank-you notes for the perhaps it’s time to consider moving. gifts that have cards with them, and for those Dear Abby: I really need your help. I’m 13 few (I HOPE few) that don’t, the givers should and I know I’m a little young, but there’s a boy be told how meaningful it was to have them I have known for a while. We used to text all the present on the special day, and thanked for their time, and then we got into a ¿ght. We both said generosity. Period. rude things, and then after a while he started P.S. A helpful hint to anyone sending a talking to me again and acting like he didn’t wedding or shower gift: 1ote on the gift card care. In fact, he told me that. Then we stopped what has been sent (wafÀe iron, baby blanket, talking again and he blocked me on Instagram. etc.). DAYS GONE BY 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 16-17, 1916 Despite the zero degree weather of yesterday afternoon, over 600 men gathered at the Temple theater for the social hygiene meeting and not only was every seat taken but standing room was at a premium. It was the largest meeting of its kind ever held in eastern Oregon and, as one prominent resident afterwards remarked, “It did more good than any meeting held in the history of Pendleton.” Men of every class and vocation were there, and the attentiveness of all during the two hours and more told of the impres- sive interest in the message delivered by Dr. W.D. Mc1ary and 5ev. J.E. Snyder, the two speakers. At the conclusion of the meeting probably 75 percent of those present handed in cards requesting literature upon the sex problems and many ordered books on the subject endorsed by the state society. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 16-17, 1966 A Pendleton woman lay bleeding in the front seat of her smashed car for over three hours this morning less than two yards off the busy Mission Highway and not one motorist was curious enough to stop and investigate. It took a conductor in an eastbound Union Paci¿c freight train, perched high in the top of a caboose, to spot Dorothy M. Surles, 37, slumped over in the front seat. This occurred at 9:45 a.m., about three hours after school bus drivers said they noticed the wrecked car beside the highway on their morning runs. The Surles woman was taken to St. Anthony Hospital where she is being treated for possible serious injuries. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 16-17, 1991 A convoy of 18-wheelers rolled away from Woodpecker Trucks of Pendleton Wednesday afternoon destined for Saudi Arabia. Meanwhile, 30 miles west, the Umatilla Army Depot has increased its shipments of munitions sixfold since the Persian Gulf crisis began last August. Woody Clark, owner of Woodpecker Trucks, said a military division of the federal government purchased 14 tractors and 15 lowboy trailers, which are used in the transportation of heavy equipment. More have been ordered. The sale amounted to nearly $1 million, and Clark said the government has contracted for another 25 tractors and trailers. THIS DAY IN HISTORY Today is the 16th day of 2016. There are 350 days left in the year. Today’s Highlight in History: On Jan. 16, 1991, the White House announced the start of Operation Desert Storm to drive Iraqi forces out of Kuwait. (Allied forces prevailed on Feb. 28, 1991.) On this date: In 1547, Ivan IV of 5ussia (popularly known as “Ivan the Terrible”) was crowned Czar. In 1865, Union Maj. Gen. William T. Sherman decreed that 400,000 acres of land in the South would be divided into 40-acre lots and given to former slaves. (The order, later revoked by President Andrew Johnson, is believed to have inspired the expression “Forty acres and a mule.”) In 1883, the U.S. Civil Service Commission was established. In 1920, Prohibition began in the United States as the 18th Amendment to the U.S. Constitution took effect, one year to the day after its rati¿- cation. (It was later repealed by the 21st Amendment.) In 1935, fugitive gangster Fred Barker and his mother, Kate “Ma” Barker, were killed in a shootout with the FBI at Lake Weir, Florida. In 1942, actress Carole Lombard, 33, her mother, Elizabeth, and 20 other people were killed when their plane crashed near Las Vegas, 1evada, while en route to California from a war-bond promotion tour. In 1957, three B-52’s took off from Castle Air Force Base in California on the ¿rst non-stop, round-the- world Àight by jet planes, which lasted 45 hours and 19 minutes. Classical music conductor Arturo Toscanini died in 1ew York at age 89. In 1969, two manned Soviet Soyuz spaceships became the ¿rst vehicles to dock in space and transfer personnel. Today’s Birthdays: Author William Kennedy is 88. Author-editor 1orman Podhoretz is 86. Opera singer Marilyn Horne is 82. Hall of Fame auto racer A.J. Foyt is 81. Singer Barbara Lynn is 74. Country singer 5onnie Milsap is 73. Singer Kath- erine Anderson Schaffner (The Marvelettes) is 72. Country singer Jim Stafford is 72. Talk show host Dr. Laura Schlessinger is 69. Movie director John Carpenter is 68. Actress-dancer-choreog- rapher Debbie Allen is 66. Singer Sade is 57. 5ock musi- cian Paul Webb (Talk Talk) is 54. Actor David Chokachi is 48. Actor-writer-director Josh Evans is 45. Actor 5ichard T. Jones is 44. Actress Josie Davis is 43. Model Kate Moss is 42. Country musician James Young (The Eli Young Band) is 36. 5ock musician 1ick Valensi (The Strokes) is 35. Actress 5enee Felice Smith (TV: “1CIS: Los Angeles”) is 31. 1FL quaterback Joe Flacco is 31. Actress Yvonne Zima is 27. Thought for Today: “I have noticed that the people who are late are often so much jollier than the people who have to wait for them.” — E.V. Lucas, English writer and publisher (1868-1938).