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DAILY EAST OEEGONIAN, PENDLETON, OEEGON, TUESDAY EVENING, NOVEI-IBE?. 3, 1921. TEN PAGES MARRIED LIFE IN UNITED STATES A MOST INTRICATE GAME. FOREIGNERS THINK SKTTi f 1 PAGE EIGHT Some European Students Are Amused end Some are Indig nant Cver Am:rir.n Wives. Written I y Maiv ry tPITV.i I'll 'I N NEW ynUK. N lbx for the In- , s S i nee. . S. Have we tvolvcd r n i!'t4n il pi'ilos. UUet belwei n the s,.x.s'' Is H h i i y n. ii' isti '.. crican woKi 'P tint 1!n itisi-i g' rs-Iri-'.' I i nil t'o terbood manage t. 1 1 1 1 y of enn- tiiii' Am must keep Tnari ifl ris tlnvf Iiiik- hands' love pl.iy (! to the i !i!-s ? At:.: d abide by thctn? i:ame nccni-ii'iig tli" losers fail tn l'o :'ii:U as il in; y uc alien. utoly tn l ed at ill.' outer nsi fliers r.'iit'n- s d or allgcr- f married life ..n. wife of I In th '.l'n led St.-iioi, I'riiirii-s Anlo;i'o P W-s. the l;.iiii(in;an :iM,-iel:e at and daii';iiter uf .iai;; Washington id AS'itiilli, v.h-jSi saucy book about persnnag" in England caused a storm of criticism, has some ich as i f her own about men and ivn;iii n of Amer'va. She says: ' A:ne: iv u i;ie:i urn charming bid it's lost !.(r:i lies t!vy are so charming that the v.-iiiiien ri'en't nice. They are utterly spoiled and good f..r nolhin:. '.Nevert liele: i. Ainei'ran w..inou list a gcnevil ihng a'-e more inteMoetiialiy anibitaei:; than Knglish women." Si.ame on y n, I'lineess, for "spndod nn 1 good-t'or-nui liiim"! Von ate al i:osi as ralty as vteir molher, .Marmot. Itciiari.'s i i' I'll, lessor l-'iiie:eiii. Net so long ago, rigfessor Albert K ory of ."Jtciativlty" am-'her Kiiiop.an, n.t"ill, whose tlle whiedi maile him IN EVEP.YTHIKG Calumet Baking Powder is First in Quality received highest awards at the World's Pure Food Imposition, Chica go, Illinois; Paris hxposition, Paris, France. First in Results never fails to pro duce pure, sweet, wholesome foods. First in Purity -contamsonlysuch inere'lients as have been ll if 4 ti it f - - ofiVmllv apprnveil by hTt theUnttedStatesrute VI i: I A nt Ii. i ili. n l uuu riuiuviiui First in Economy moderate in price you save when you liny it. Contains more ill. in tlicortlinat y leaven ing stretiKtli there fore you use less. First in mil lions of homes where "nothing else" will do. "or huot oy a mu . HKIli U . it A pounil enn of Cidunit-t i-'intiiln fill! 1 lie. Slillie baking pewiteiH eonie ill 1 2 n. oum iii'.lenil id I li in i-iitiH, He Bin e vou Met a pound u luai you want it. John Dorl'iium. 'Tailoring:, ( 'loaning, Pressing, Ilopairing liistlili 7, S, 1), llcptllll I'.loe rim lie il.H-: GOOD, CLEAN CIDER APPLES Sacked at 50 cents nrlh of l-'le.'Hate f.rst grav- n:s. i nvrn didiov t roi'licti Station ! CAKS WASHED Oiled and Motor Cleaned. PERRY DAVIS AHITOIt IN (..XKM.i: T'.'J t'oltonuiKxI. I'lionc HUH IViullcloii, On'. allcil I or mill Delnenil. (.(Mill oik. A r mm V COITITHTSIlk ( fainou ami which is understood, he say t.y only twelve people in tho vml't, made some observations about i f America,. "Women dontinate th entire life of Amcraa. The nun interest them sep t s in nothing txrept work. Thry Ililnk i f nothing except work and to an extent I havo never seen before. "As- f ir the rest of the men, they! are nothing but the little play-dogs of j iiie wuni' ii. who sponu meir money in a reokhs manner and yeil themselves m a mist or extravagance. They do c-.crih.ng for the women that in in ii'Siii' or the whim of the passing mo il. nit." Nov.. n.i always; the problem of what a m;:n shouhl do, what a weman shotibl be. how husbands and wives shou! I treat eaeh other, Is an enross biK one. Keeently in rhiiadelphia the Vewt'entury Cnilil, a woman's organ ization. (;,-it together in heated con mess ami deelareil if a woman could catch n man there is no reason why she coiibl not keep hjni cfinjiht. All of which leatls him up to the set of roles of conduct the Riiild formu lated for the K'l da nee of disM aiifrht w itmon. I'biladel.bia (.nild I laps Men I 'nlk. IJeforeliaiitl remarks were niatlft to cause masculine ears to barn all about the I'ily i f lhotlierly Love. Jlon pot theirs. .Vole this: ''.Men try t't make v.oinrn think they are ibnii' them a creat hotair in mar lyimi: tlcm, and then, if the women do t keep themselves leokiiiK tin to par. and dainty, and ready to lie kissed, no matter how much they ant hut bred about, they will soon he liCKleeted," With that as a start, the guild p!ves j these inside tips on the marital race. "Don't be shocked if friend husband cmita an occasional damn; It doesn't mean anything. "Don't scramble ifround nn the floor hunting for his shirt stud; let him lool; for it; it will do him Rood." (There's a loopholo for European erilMvm.) "Don't nfik him to shlno your shoes. (Wouldn't this surprise Einstein?) "Xevor anlafronizo him, hut always keep him guoHsintf. "Let the -man do the proposing, and when lie does be responsive. Iieini; too coy is ilaiiKerous, for mime men won't ask the second time. ".Mal e the man think he Is 'It.' " In brief, let him swear mid llilnlc he is "It." bill, keep him KiiessitiK as to your love and as to the whereabouts of Ms studs. Thus ilrinn -,.m.,n ll. jthe collar liiilton ns ally, both deslfrn- j ed to drive men mad. i Hul America is not alono In sellini,' up rules for merilal felielly. JOnRlnnd herself recimnixcs the Inipnrtance of luomotlnr; love anil peace In the home, and such well-known men as Arnold Itennclt, the writer, and the I Uev. I'ernard Vaiinhu have Riven tlie'r I Miiienuon to iiie subject, To husbands the noted Knclish divine says: llrlt.'Kli .MlnlMcr's Advice. "I'e kind autl thoii(;ilfii to y,)lir wifi. Jiear with her little feminine ways, Never iitiempt lo check the liowinjjt tide of her talk. This is a cardinal rule. 'Whatever else you may try to check in your wile never check her emitter. A woman needs many safety viiives and outlets tor her tempera ment. "lie patient and tender with her. Don't 'say sharp ami eiitlhur Ihlnns. onsiiier the sensitive character of a woman s disposition. Honor her in every way. hear yotirseti with the inatiliness winch will never cause a woman pain .mosi women have a passion for llnery In some form or other, (live Winn you can, even if It cosls vou sonic saeril'toe. Let her feel It is from "n, ami tiiiit you have not piven her what has rout you nothing. ir n nyt hi nir goes wrong In married wo I usually put the blame on the iii.io. mi is i no stronger and lie should overcome himself and preserve the .. ..e in ins noun, lemiing her a strong aim on wmoti to lean." Seine Ailiiinnitioiis for Women, And In the women this advice: "Keep yntir home In good (inler Man appreciates a beautiful 1 i, ." man woman docs, because he b in less. Del Iiie sun I windows upon Ml ream through your 'ooms tastefnllv at-. I fanned and hearing from kliebeti i,. attic tlie traces of a (,-,, wii'dv ilcvo tiou to tho house. "Keep a good (..,1,1,.. I(0t , ,,p ,, possible for any Invidious ,i,i i be drawn between 'meals out' and at lloice. The ibncr ,.,.. i... a la simple "in ici u bo tnnd hot and .daintily servcil, Del a. wile renienibei- always to he j'loat and sinai t even whe,, s, jM ;"l"o with her husband. A ,a ,h,.s b. see liis wife well turned out, and it nor mis. uess to be pleasing ! e cs. "Let her consult his taste than that of b, ,- i,,.i,u. in his rather ' """ not f,ct into the habit of oi '""I" img an .nn- husband's cherished Mews from more pervei-siiy, but study .-...iiii.x. wiiniu reasonable limits whims and fairelcs. his I.e frank and ah. tiling. vc beard ill cverv- "Do net kce) I'lm waiting while yu naitgti our dress. "Never preach. never nair. n,.i-.,t- i IMiouc, and ncer pose ' ci on pur- "Have I sii,-.L...i . , . . , ,,, . ' riuaiiand I'ltlo things? llchoM- me. it is these iters' things that count for in,, v.. in .,, i .. t.i.r roull like that my 7 fineteafiavcr fFotter's wa Golden Gate Blackor Green than tho big things. When marriage lids in tragedy il Is inure- in'tcn tiian not duo to small bickerings and nilsun- lei -standings.'' Arno'd M'iiiiot Springs Surprise. So lulu h for a man who has spent i lifetime in observing and guiding humanity. Now lor the views of an other of his countrymen. Arnold lien. licit, novelist and essai ist. .Mr. Pennett believes! much of the trouble In marriage, the misunder standings, the little incMUalities, are due to ton many love mutches. He Aoiibl abolish to some extent tho mar riage based entirely 11)1011 love. He sa. s: "At which evpresslon of opinion many readers will be angry, and some W'ty ungti. What! Abolish love in marriage'.' What: Adopt the heart less continental system of the deliber ately lifetime in observing und guid lug human arranged marriage, the inarr age of convenience! Well, no- . i,,,.i.. ............ 1. . . ; "...us 11. aitouMi ut e m marriage 1110 notiodv collld. lint we moo .... t.ui'l what we mean when we s lov Selected vith care where it Jti oil eleven, m m m jlvmmt-t "priic m.'ijorlty of love matches arc mutches of passion which too frequent l no practical consideration has been allowed to restrain. "The passion may settle down into a solid and enduring calm affection, or it may wither into a tolerant mu tual indifference, or it piny degener ate MM., acute dislike. At best the dis. illusion is serious; at worst it is appal log. "Thorcforp I welcome the decline of the love match in Anglo-SaNon coun tries. Kor if in France, for example, 'reason' in marriage :ias ruled too h sMtitily. in Diit.iin, fur example, pas sion has ruled, too absolutely, ami Meet British Fencers - ' . . . '".v.r.. r - f ,1 . k ' ' -I r - 1 " J v 1 . Two pudv.Mo memlvrs of the American fencing team i.ie -tir.c; tho Critish Invnlers In NovemWr. Slajcr Harold Kaynor is shown l'tt jiwj mi Major KoK i t Scars 011 tho di : -n.sive, Sn.ipid in Wa iiiugton. ' A Jo iree , j,- Ons for mildness.VIRG 0ns for mellowness, One for aroma, ! UIIVI&J Thefmsst toBaccosperijeJM and bfeoded I Bite) 'there is now some hope that we may be approaching the happy mean, j Women to Have Their Kiglits. "In the opinion of women men have ! hitherto Void a bitter time thin wom en. (Sonic men would attempt to do ny this, but I do not think that it can be successfully denied.) Women are now determined to have 113 good a time as men. "To speak bluntly, they are deter mined that in marriage there shall be a vast dial less subjection than there was. Put then the intellectual independ ence of .'.nnrie.iu wives has bee: itiiickene.l hv the hnbit which Ameri msepara v v ' - ' 'i.ifflrtw.yf'i.' ''A nccos n Guaiatiteed by S id, lUiVvlt! IO INC OMPORItp FIFTH AVE HEW YORK ClTlf 1 can husbands have of looking on their (wives as iiuir otlieial representatives iin soca-lt-. and iudeed of oxpoetin Illicit- wbes regularly to act 11s such. 1 "A man who provides "week by week 1 the material moms of life for a hous hold is eulitlod to expect that the mis tress of the household shall put her self lo tli n me iiuiiuie oi cnarinuig ... And heaven knows that the simple isilv ? '. irrt 1 'I 1 Ti ) U' i . ITI. ... X - - " I The lavcr of coiTee largf ly determines its Vitlue. The better the f avor, the better ycu tike it. If you en joy good cotfee you will enjoy the flavor of HILLS BROS. R?,D CAN"C0f FEE u nion. ' ,. - - - ! 8 mm. RLEVf r ti .' m i llcr May 1U kept Sweet eivppt cider mav bo preserved Jif heating it to 160 degrees F ad tlijfi sealing lt,in clean bottles or jugf. Ati er the bottles are sealed place them In water and heat to the same tem perature for one half hour, w hen steri lization will lie complete. Experiments made by the . horticultural nroductn nun. ' ,ioi,.,i.tr,,n,,t ..i. u.. .-.i u.. 1.- - 1 ... ni 1 .-hum 111.11 liner HIllV! ug fel - kept sweet Indefinite! this n-m-i-fl. Kxpe rlinent station. 1 ' f i & II j tho. I 111 o IB III H 111 n 111 1