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THE SUNDAY - OREGOXIA, PORTLAAD, JANUARY 26. 1908. 7 i- 11 '- .m i . i ... ! i- . ' - i I ' -i. .i . Party Styles for Little Folks Party Manners for Children STVLKS in party raiment for chil dren are almost as pronounced those days as the- modegprepared for their elders. The dainty little frocks and tin its which were In style a year or two back, little dresses that suggest ed Kate Green way, of tiny silk cos tumes for girls and Lord Kauntleroy velvet suits for boys, have quite dis appeared, f. This sia!on the party frocks for lit tle girls are almost invariably of wash material, made on simple designs and trimmed, like their elder sisters' gowns, in as much handwork -as the Jiome srwer ran execute. The boys, on the ot her hand, wear much more mannish h tilts, and as soon an a boy steps from tht! white pique and flannel stage, he lias his smooth finished, dark cloth k uit with Tuxedo coat! just like papa's, for evening wear. These diminutive dress suits are simply irresistible, and niJike the hoys Messed with such pos sessions look delightfully grown-up. AV i tli the dress suits go plain white skirts with tiny standing collars and wlilte ties, to say nothing of black patent leather pumps. With the after noon suit of fine blue or black cloth muy be worn either a plain stiff white shirt or 0a pleated shirt, with a turn over collar and dark string tie. The patent leather pumps are absolutely es sential for either afternoon or eve ning. . Another striking feature of he boy's appearance at parties this sea son is the mannish cut of his hair, furls' are not ' worn even by boys of 4 or 5. The box or square cut so pop ular last season lias given place to a short cut with the part on the side, precisely like, a grown-up's, and ' it goes without saying that this state of HfTatrs greatly pleases the youngsters, who from the moment they realize what is expected of nlascullnity by other members of their sex. hate curls, "hiings" and other girlish treatment of the hair. And. while on this topic, a word of warning In the mother of the little' moon-faced girl. Do not box her hair, cutting it straight and even all around her wee. chubby face. It exaggerates her plumpness and detracts from her height. The thin child can stand this style of cutting and dressing the hair; but for either stout or thin girlie, hrHids or curls are much more becom ing. Lo iid draw the hair back tight ly, to bring the features Into undue prominence, but fluff it lightly, make (-"ft suggestion of a, pompadour by fastening it on top of the head with a fluffy bow of ribbon. Then . either curl the back -hair or braid it loosely and finish the two" braids with bow's to match that on the pompadour. If the hair tines not curl naturally, do not use the irons, but moisten the hair slightly with alcohol and wind on rags over night. When dressing the child for the pary, brush these artificial curls over your finger and they will be most effective. 1 o not' moisten with water. This is apt to make the Jiair smell musty or sour". But to return to fashions- proper. The combination of white hosiery with Mack slippers Is much seen. Lit do Personal Daintiness in Children THIS busy mother is very apt to let her children- go their happy, care free way If they are healthy and reasonably clean. Tommy la taught to m rub his hands before coming to th ta ble, and Bessie to do her hair afresh. If Tommy's hands are chapped and Bessie has a succession of cold sores or chapped litis, mother Is very apt to say that is the way with children. But, oh, when an invitation to a party comes and Tommy's hands look like little scarlet nutmeg graters, and mother finds that ho has bitten his nails to the quick, how these defects do show up in connec tion with, the best suit, particularly if It happens to be black velvet. And no amount of ruffled lace or delicate ribbons will hide the fact that Bessie has an ex tremely coarse complexion and bleeding lips. . Normal children should not be burdened with, professional . beauty treatments. There -is no reason why they should be housed -like delicate plants to, Insure a pink-and-white complexion and soft, lady like hands, but there is every reason.why they should be taught to treat with ex quisite care the wonderful bodies given them of God. And what Is more, if they are not taught this. If they are permitted to acquire un tidy personal habits, which end In phys ical defects, the mother may be quite sure that she will be reproached for her care lessness Vhea they realize their loss. With a party invitattun before you, dear mother, and with a week in which to take grace, many of these small defects can bo remedied. Truly, an invitation of this sort is a powerful weapon with which to appeal to the careless and blowsy little boy or girl. First as to those chapped hands and broken nails. Find a pair of old gloves several sires too large for the child to wear at night, and when you tell her of tlte purpose for which they are to be used-, explain how great queens and beauties of history used just such gloves. Appeal to the child's Imagination and love of ro mance. Don't. 1- beg of you, tell a child she must wear these gloves because she has been a naughty, naughty girl. Try the Influence of 'lie word "good" instead of "had": of "do" Instead of "don't." . For the little youngsters who will take off their mittens and come In with chapped hands, tlte following pomade is very healing: Cocoa butter,, 1 ounce; oil of sweet almonds. 1 ounce: oxide of zinc. 1 drachm; borax. 1 drachm.; oil of berga mot. 6 drops. You should heat the cocoa butter and the almond oil in a double boiler until well blended, then add the zinc and borax, stir them together until quite cool, and add the bergamot oil last. Hub thus on the nanus at night before Filliping on thcMld gloves.' Watch the linger nails of the young sters. If they bite them, put a littfe ar nica or some harmless bitter lotion on their finger tips. The very painful hang nail is prevalent among children. These should be cut by the mother with very sharp nail scissors, then rubbed with vaseline or some healing pomade. With children's " hair, as with that of thfir parents, shampooing at frequent in tervals is a necessity, yet this is some thing which many mothers are prone to neglect. 1 know of one woman, the mother of several children, who washed the heads of her children just once a year! Think of it! Perhaps the most nourishing and safest shampoo for children is made as follows: Melt a cake of pure castile soap in a quart of boiling water. This can be bottled and kept for months at a time. W et the hair first with warm water, then take about two tablespoons of this soft soap and rub it thoroughly into the scalp with a small brush. Massage it will Into girls wear .both patent leather and beaded - kid slippers. Only very, wee tots under 5 wear stockings and. slip pers in pale pink or blue. Wash fabrics lead everything else for making little party frocks, and more ' embroidery than ace is seen. When lace is employed at all, - it is as insertion to" set off strips of hand-run tucks or hand-embroidery, and Is very fine and; narrow. In French or German Val. Edgings all. show the influence of English eyelet work', with scallops everywhere. The sheer materials, like batiste, v Persian ' lawn, handkerchief linen, fine Swiss ami French dimity with a tiny cord are much used for the smaller try. Pique is considered too heavy for little girls, and white China silk, once so popular for little party frocks. Is quite eclipsed by the materials "which will tub and take just a suggestion of starch. - Very few Empire styles are offered for-small girls, despite the effort made to popularize them. The most preva-v. lent designs are the French frock, with long waist "and single- or' double flounces, and the yoke dress with or without a bertha, according to the ljuiid of the wearer. The stout girl should never be forced to wear a ber tha, while for the thin, angular girl it is just the thing. It is on the bertha, yoke, neckband and tiny sleeves that most of the handwork appears. The skirt sections are apt to be quite plain, or finished with scallops, insertion 01 hemstitching. The little s French .frock shown is made from plain and embroidered Swiss. The deep edging is for the daubje flounces which form the skirt. This design "is suitable for a girl from 4 to 12 years. For party wear, the neck is cut square with a tucked sec tion down the front, outlined by. em broidered bretelles. The double -flounce Is most 'becoming to a slender child, and It will be. noted, that, the sash, is not permitted to sag, being held in place by strips of insertion,' like belt slides. For the little tot, this sash. In a soft faille ribbon, must match in tint the pale blue or pink or white hosiery and-slippers, and also the. hair ribbon. For a smaller party goer, the yoke dress is shown.. This also is cut square at the neck and has puffed sleeves. It can be made from plain material or Swiss flounces for the skirt section, tucking or all-over embroidery for the yoke, and a' finish of very narrow edg ing in embroidery or lace. For the little man who has n'ot yet attained, trousers, the plaited suit shown will develop S'ery handsomely in white piquo with the deep lapels of the sailor collar and the collar itself outlined with scallops done in ' white mercerized floss. The belt with this may be of the pique or of black patent leather to match the slippers. No col ored embroidery should appear on a suit of this sort. White with the touch of black at the waist line Is far better, and Navy and Army insignia, however finely embroidered, are for everyday wear, not for parties. MARY DEAN. the scalp and through the hair with the tips of your fingers. Rinse in several waters that are quite warm and finally in one cold water, which will prevent the child from taking cold. Dry in the sun shine. This process should -be gone through at least once a month. Children have- tender skins as a rule, and yet mothers are very apt to scrub the little faces with soap and water and send them out to play. Think of such treatment in connection with your own skin! If the children are going out at once after wash ing, use warm water with plain unscent ed soap, and then rub a little cold cream into the skin. One of the most valuable adjuncts in ac quiring a generally good complexion in youth is that of eating oranges in quanti ties. Let the mother give her children two or three oranges every day, as they possess many virtues, especially upon the action of the liver. The mother who buys plenty of oranges for her children will note a reduction in her medicine bill. Look well to the teeth of the little ones. I do not know why it is, bu,t almost with out exception small children dislike to have their teeth cleaned.- Charcoal and tincture of myrrh are very beneficial to the teeth of the young, and both are eas ily procured at even a small drug store. The child, be it girl or boy, -Who has irregular eyebrows that grow in all direc tions, is unfortunate, indeed, if the mother does not spend a few moments every day brushing them into proper shape. Tiny brushes come for this purpose, and a few strokes every day will soon train the re bellious hairs to fall into place. Do not allow a child to meddle with its face a habit many children develop. Many, mothers argue that they hato to be "nagging" at a -child all the time. Better nag a little now than to have a child, grown to womanhood, rebuke you for neglect. Plaited Suit for Small Bays. Pleasing, Diverting Games for Youthful Guests ' ' - . ' : I 1 ' '. : ' X THE larger cities, amusing youthful guests 'at parties 'has become a fine art, 'and wne at which bright young girls make quite comfortable ' incomes.' Sometimes these girls take entire charge of parties for children, from getting out the Invitations to buying wee prizes. planning' games and setting forth the feast. Again, they arrange the amuse ment features only, sometimes adding to a gift for leading different games the delightful art of. telling stories that hold children spellbound.. . When a party is to be given for the younger members of the family circle and a professional entertainer is beyond the family purse, then the older girls can show real -talent In helping mother plan the function which is the event of the year to the smaller fry. Nowadays a few refreshments and one's best clothes do not constitute a children's party. Plans are laid as carefully as for a card party or dance for the older folk. Prizes are provided, and, above all things, the methods of amusing are not left to the last moment, with sublime faith in an inspiration to be furnished by the children themselves. Children who are splendid leaders on outdoor playgrounds become perfectly paralyzed'and stupid when clad in their best raiment and turned loose in a parlor. There are a number of old-fashioned games to which the present generation has never been introduced, and they are worth trying at your next juvenile gath ering. For instance, there is what your mothers used to tall "Hitting the Pig." a most inelegant title, but a trial of skill which all children will enjoy. Spread upon the floor a big square of canvas .or a sheet, and suspend from the ceiling or the cen ter of an opening for' folding doors, di rectly over the middle of the covering, an ordinary paper bag filled with, tiny pretz els and animal crackers, popcorn and broken or clear candies. Have the string long enough ap that the bag will swing easily. Place a child about six feet from the bag, with his eyes blind-folded. Place in his hand a ' stout cane, turn him around three times and bid him take four steps forward and then hit the "pig." Nine chances out of ten 'he will strike in directly the opposite direction, and all the children will shout with glee. He has three chances, and, failing to burst the bag. must yield the stick to some other child. When the stick finally strikes the bag, the latter will burst, and. the children are - permitted to scramble for the shower of good things. Several of these bags will be required, and they should be low enough for all the children to have a fair chance. Prize games of all sorts appeal to chil- dren, and for these prizes raid the 5 and 10-cent stores. Tou will be surprised at the number of pretty little things vou can pick up for 5 cents, from.rubber balls and whistling balloons for the little tots to nice paint books, boxes of dominos, etc., for those a trifle older. A varia tion on the old : fishpond idea is this: Cover a clothes basket or tub or .large bowl, according to the number of your little guests, with tissue' or other thin paper, in which small, round holes have been cut. Through each hole run a string. These may be of different lengths and i colors, and the end of each is attached to a small prize or present in the recep tacle. Each child chooses his string, but can judge nothing of the prize to be drawn by the length or thickness of the ! string, and then, when they all pull to gether, the paper covering flies into a hundred pieces and out pop the prizes. Another game, for which only two prizes are provided, is the peanut hunt.. For this, hide peanuts in evry conceiv able place on the lower floor. . behind pic tures, in the tufting of chairs, in dark corners of the carFed furnrture, etc. The children are then Instructed to hunt, taking care not to touch bric-a-brac or vases, where no nuts must be hidden, j This will keep them busy for perhaps 10 minutes, then the nuts are counted, and the one who has found the most nuts receives the first prize, while ihe child standing next on the list receives a con solation prize. These can be penwipers with wee figures on them made with FIIENCH' PARTY FBOCK I.V PLAIN vAND KMBROIOKRRU SWISS. peanut heads and gay flannel or silk i skirts. ' . A game not unlike "I Spy" is ."Monkey in Sight.-" All the- little guests but one are banished ' from the-parlor or living room and" then." the child who is "It" hides where it can be . plainly seen . by sharp eyes,' yet Is in a shadow or on a self-tone surface, a dark penny or very fiat, dark button. " . The children are then instructed riot to. pick up the penny when they. see it, .but to walk far from it or look -in another direction after saying "Monkey in Sight." All must eventually find the "monkey." or acknowledge defeat, which draws the game out better than "I Spy." The one who said "Monkey in. Sight" first is "it" for the next turn. A game which will create no end of fun with children of medium years., from 8 to 12. is to' stretch a strip of sheeting or thick paper in a doorway and gather half the children one one side and half on the other, so that neither side can see so much as the feet or topknots of those on the other side. Then make a small hole in the sheet or paper and. let the ; boys and girls on one side stick just their noses through the hole, while those on the other side must guess "who's who." from just a glimpse of this single feature. PRUDEN'CE STANDISH. MILLINERY STYLES FOR BABIES LITTLE girls 'twixt cradle- and kin dergarten have millinery styles as well as their mammas. 'Indeed, women who would never attempt to trim their own chapeaux are making" the most charming little confections . of velvet, silk and fur for their tiny -daughters. Patterns come in plenty, and as for ma terials the remnant boxes of the great stores are full to overflowing with pieces just large enough for "baby mil linery. Wide flaring rims have gone out, and the new shapes are close, being usually over a fitted foundation of white flan nel, but the trimmings save the plain ness. Very 'qualnt.are the tight little cap shapes with soft ribbon rosettes or bunches of flowers just over each ear. Some-flnnlky people .still claim - that baby simplicity is spoiled by millinery flowers, hut this idea is out of date. What could be more ; babyish than a tiny bunch of drooping snowdrops, such as the shops are showing, looped to gether with a narrow" white ribbon? These bonnets are trimmed round the face with a flat ruche, like the one which baby's mamma wears in her collar. A plain bonnet shape, quite untrimmed, could be decorated at home with the ruching and flowers to make one of these fascinating little head dresses.. The strings' come out from under the rosette over the ears, and are usually of wide ribbon. Soft'taf feta. by the way, is best for bonnet strings, as it may be washed so much better than the satin-finished ribbons. White corduroy is a good material for the bonnet itself, as it washes like cotton, and is very warm. Women who love embroidery on all the things of babydom are making lit tle lace and' batiste embroidered covers for bonnets and lining them with quilt ed silk. The two may be merely basted together along the edges, so that fre quent laundering is possible. The flow ers are-dainty on these, rosebuds being very appropriate Black velvet with a' band of fur makes a very durable dark bonnet cap. If one has a small piece of squirrel or ermine, it could be made Into a flaring band, which turns away from the face over ihe black velvet, while the strings are of pale blue or pink ribbon. Some of these bonnets scill have ' the flat ruching inside, just over the face. -, Plain little felt bonnets' of the softest material may be bought very reason ably and trimmed at home. In these" also the trimming is mostly "over the ears, instead of on top. Some of the shapes are little more than soft hats, which one can., poke Into all sorts of quaint shapes, and trim. Poke bon nets, with fronts to be filled in by ruf fles of lace and soft white lawn, are the latest French importations, and the. little' maids of France are said to be wearing them almost entirely.-. This means that the. poke-bonnet bought this season will be quite the rage another Winter. It is a good plan to use small safety pins' in putting on the strings and all the trimming which conies oft now and then to be laundered. Give Them More. A boy named Charles Raymond, living near Raleigh, N. C broke a pitGher and his father gave. him a good whipping for it. Charles went to bed-, and dreamed that a mule lost by his fsither could be found In a certain place. In the morning he told his father about it. and after a walk' of 11 miles the mule was found. If the boys of America received more lickings they would dream more, and thus we should- find more lost tilings. Every father should go to work at once. frock: for a small party gorb. jrAP.TY manners!" Do you re mj member how your busy mother, or your elder sister, tried to instill party manners into your youth ful head," between the time Annabel Brown sent ' out invitations for her birthday party and the day this won derful event occurred? All the. while mother dressed you, she was making remarks that were .so much Greek, to your mind, ahdV-each one began with a "Don't." ' You left her presence tilled with good resolves. You meant to behave, but when, you returned to the maternal presence and were bombarded with anxious questions, "you had to confess that yon had a fight with Annabel's cousin . George, who tried to steal a corner on you when "Puss in the Cor-, nor" was the game, and yoiP had eaten throe plates of cream, when , you had been properly warned not to take more than one; ' you had filled your small pockets with , bonbons just because there were so many on the table, and you had raced away, after it was all over., without-telling Annabel's moth er that you had enjoyed yourself. ' And so you went to bed with Jan ache in your stomach "and maternal disapproval hanging over your (lead. But really it was not your fault. It was the mother's fault and the older sister's. Bus though they - may -have been, ihey ought to have known. -what mothers today are beginning, to real iz. that there, should be . ho suclj things as company or party manners. The boy or girl who Is ill-mannered at home will be. ill-mannered at a par ty. The hastily-siyen instructions will go In one. ear and ut the other. "Party manners" must be daily man ners in . many respects. There are" a few points 'of juvenile etiquette which arise only at parties,' but children can be easily scnooled In these by playing "party" at home. , I knew a gVntle-mannered woman in reduced circumstances"'who felt very keenly the fact that her children en joyed fewer social ' opportunities than had fallen to her rot in childhood, but she never lost hope of their being in vited to the hjmes of her .wealthier neighbors some day. And so at fre frequent intervals she would have a game of "calling" or "party." One of her children would be host or hostess, and the others the guests. She wpiild set forth a little table with animal crackers, fruit, sandwiches and broken candy, for tiie feast-, and the children thus learned to act with case the al ternate roles of host and guest. As a result, when the "real.,for sure" party came into their lives. ,and they at tended, arrayed in the simple but pret ty raiment which their mother had " wrought by lamplight, their manners were a matter of comment among the older f a fk -present that afternoon. Among the things they learned was to remove their wraps caTefully, .mak ing sure that the hair was neat before leaving the dressingroom. . Next, they knew, they must go' direct to the par lor and find their host and his mother.' They were taught at home every day In the year not to scramble roughly in games played in the house. They wait ed to be served at the table, and to ITT S IN other matters, the difficulties of J- selecting belts for slight figures are few, but. in opposite proportions are the woes of stdut women. Two or 'three gir dles will be enough for a slender figure, unless a larger number Is desired, while the plump woman must have a belt for al- Some Pretty New Belts stjp. that those around them were served. And when the "play party" was over, they all "stopped to tell mother what a good time they had.: Yes: this takes time, but it also takes time to run tucks, sew on lace, curl pretty hair and polish small shoes. Why not take the same amount ' ot time to polish small manners? . A'great many grown-ups do not real ize that children make mistakes through nervousness and fright, when they find themselves in strange' en vironment. The nervous, self-conscious child should never be sent to" a party alone, even in the afternoon. Let some member of the family or a servant ac company the child, who is torn be tween joyous anticipation and fear of racing so many sirange Doys ana gins. If it is a large" and formal party, an elder Bister or a maid should take the child to the house, accompany her -to the dressingroom. remove her wraps, set every hair and button straight and then stare her on her way. with other children, to the parlor dour. Then, af ter inquiring the .hour, at which tun party', will break up, the -servant or sister leaves, and docs not return un til -the hour named, when she arrays the child for the street, after making sure that the little guest has not for gotten to say good-by to he mother of the host". ' .- The mother of the host can also save children" no end of misery by be ing right at the parlor door to receive each newcomer. Some mothers do not think this necessary children will take care of themselves. Indeed, this is not so! Children are less able to make their entrance into a room full -of guests than their elders. When refreshments are served, the mother, aided by members-of her fam ily, and particularly the little host. and hostess, should see that each child Is marshaled for the feast. I have known young guests who are comparative strangers in a circle of children to sir In shadowy corners during the supper Hour and get nothing to -eat. ' If yiur child has poor table man ners at home. do. not Imagine that he will be awed into, good behavior at a party. If you have permitted ' him, at home to have the largest piece of cake, the second helping of ice cream1 r dessert, when there is.bar-ly enough to go around, to push ' aside his meat II rl nnlfllnnfl nnrl - irnrrrn - Mmnfilf . . . . sweets, be .'sure he will . disgrace you When his greedy ' eyes behold -the wealth of good things provided by his hostess. '- Teach hlni to eat quietly and with correct utensils. I know a little boy who prefers to eat pie with a dessert spoon, and he is never crossed. The first time he goes out to dinner with his mother and declines ' to' use the. fork provided for - pie, she will say: "I can't imagine what is the matter with" Tommy today. T guess it's being among stra'ngers. . He is usually so sweet-tempered at home." But. believe me, she will fool no one, her hostess least of rill. "Party man ners" generally reflect home manners, as the mirror a scowling face. most every gown, If she would look her best. - If a woman is short and stout, then she must select belts that match her gown in. color at least, and preferably in material. They should always be narrow. A shirred belt is more youthful looking than a plain one, but many stout women hesitate to wear such a model, having an idea that it will apparently increase the size of the waist. If a girdle is correctly made in this style the very slight draping about the waist line conceals its largeness m a slight degree, while the plain belt, especially of leather, will often have a tendency, to emphasize the number, of inches. ' . ' t A-woman whose waist measures over 30 inches may successfully dress it by mak ing a belt taking a piece of dress goods 'for It in this wise: Cut a strip of featherbone two inches in length for the back support, two strips one and one-half inches long for sewing at the points under the arms and two strips each one inch in length for the ends. The material, if very thin, may be five inches wide and cut on the 'straight. If heavier cloth is used the strip will be narrower. Gather this in little tuck shir rings down to the featherbone in the back and gather plainly under the arms at the ends, sewing neatly at the featherbone. Hem the edges of the strip before, shir ring. Finish with a buckle or with a sim ple shirred heading, closing with hooks and eyes. The latter is a good finish for a belt of "wash- goods. Such a girdle should be made as tight as is comfortable without breaking the ma terial. Another delusion of the stout woman Is to imagine that a downward point in the back is becoming. This is a mistake. A point at the top of the belt in the back is an improvement; but the lower edge should as straight and taut as it can be drawn. There may be a dip in the front, if desired, but never in -the back. This kind of belt is especially pretty with a silk shirtwaist, for it is not oqly becoming, but apparently adds to the length of the waist, the effect a stout fig ure, of ten needs. In wearing a white lawn shirtwaist a plain, narrow white linen belt is the best finish. It is understood, of course, that the skirts worn with these ispective waists are contrasting in color. - When if comes to a whole gown the shirred belt described above is .the best model. . The slender woman who is quite tall can choose among the corsage and girdle- ef fects and look her best in them. The girdle that is high in the 'back, de creasing In width at the front closing, is attractive for this style of figure, but the broad effect in the front is stunning. Long, slender buckles are the simulated closing; the real one is usually a hook under the left arm.' Supposing the wearer is well propor tioned, thei the belt may be of any color or material desired. If a slender woman is short-waisted, better results will be ob tained when the belt is of the same fabric as the blouse, but If the waist is long then the belt should match the skirt. - Gold gauze belts in girdle style are for the tall, slender figure exclusively, and so are the flowered ribbons in shirred de signs. ' , Leather belts' are also becoming, as are the broad crush suede varieties. The slight figure of medium height has an almost equally large choice, except that she should eschew very wide corsages and girdles, choosing them more moderate In height and with due regard to color ing. The contrast between gown .and belt should not be too strong. The petite woman has her own needs, too. She will select narrower belts than the taller figure, though modeled on tha same lines