February 3. 2010
The
Portland Observer Black
History Month
Page 23
boyfriend wants to wait. He says believing he’,1 marry you. With your
kids to church but she doesn’t go
our finances aren’t in order but I age and the time you’ve been in the
with them. This makes me so mad
think he’s lying. What do you think? relationship, you should know the
Real People,
that I’m at the point o f knocking on
--Confused; Columbia, S.C.
Real Advice
status o f your finances. You both her door so I can tell her about
need to come together, lay your herself. Would 1 be wrong fordoing
Dear Confused:
■ l/i advice
You both are lying. H e’s living a lie cards on the table and decide to this? —LaTanya ;Oklahom aCity
colum n known
for reality
because afte r 11 y ears, there commit or split and keep it moving. Dear LaTanya:
bused Subjects!
should’ve been a marriage o f love Dear Deanna!
Don’t be foolish by going to that
with or without finances. Married My neighbor really upsets me by
wom an’s house and get yourself
Dear Deanna!
couples build together. H e’s very the way she puts her children on the
knocked out. People tend to be
I’m 33 years old and have been in a comfortable and has no plans to
church bus on Sunday morning. touchy when you come at them the
relationship for 11 years. We both marry you and will use excuse after
She comes out in her robe with a wrong way concerning religion. Her
are ready to get married but my excuse. You’re lying to yourself in
cigarette in her mouth and sends her business is her business but as a
Ask Deanna\
C hristian, you should invite her and
the children to come to church with
you instead o f judging her current
actions. God wants you to do his
work by seeking the unsought,
teaching the untaught and bringing
the unbrought.
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