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Dear Deanna!
I learned that my husband has been
eheating on me. I am currently
trying to decide if I can forgive him
and if we can salvage our 10 year
marriage. He told me that he was
very sorry for what he has done but
I could have reduced the pain if I
hadn't followed him to the hotel
and caught him. He says all men
cheat at some time and it’s a man's
DNA. He then pointed out our male
friends that cheat and named a few
celebrities. If things don't work out
is this what I have to look forward
to in a marriage? -Terribly Disap­
pointed: On-Line Reader
Dear Disappointed:
Your husband is sorry indeed be­
cause he got busted with another
woman and tried to Hip the script
and put the blame on you. All men
don't cheat and infidelity has to do
with lust, immaturity and being self­
ish. If he and his friends all have
cheating in common, they’re birds
of a feather that shouldn’t be mar-
Ask Deanna !
Ik Real People,
k Real Advice
myself lixtk like a fool several times harassing me and I keep cursing her
by jumping on guys w hen there was out and now I feel like hitting her.
no need. How do I deal w ith this? - What do I do? —Sean; Astoria. NY
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You have a serious issue that needs less you don’t have car insurance.
to be addressed. This woman is not As for your stalker, most of the
your wife and you're taking things blame is on you. She is reacting this
in the wrong direction. You can way because a p p a re n tly you
begin to get a handle on this by caught her off guard with the break­
ried. Your husband has confirmed sharing your feelings and working up. You didn’t "man-up” with re­
he's a cheater and he'll cheat again together to pinpoint her behavior spect and concern nor did you be­
if you stay and accept it. Life is loo that bothers you. If this doesn't have in aGodly fashion. It was your
short and if you find yourself in help, you personally need to seek responsibility to end the relation­
another relationship with a good therapy to identify the root cause ship with an explanation instead of
dumping her cold turkey. Unless
man, give him a fair chance with a of your insecurities.
you want to go to jail, do what a
clean slate and you won't be disap­
Dear Deanna!
woman would do. Take out a re­
pointed.
I wanted to drop you a few lines straining order and keep your
about my ex girlfriend. We broke up mouth shut.
Dear Deanna!
I'm in a relationship and I think my because I didn't want her anymore
jealously is going to ruin things. My and just told her the relationship Ask Deanna is written by Deanna
girlfriend is attractive, friendly and was over. I replaced the locks and M. Write Ask Deanna! Email;
outgoing. It drives me crazy when I changed all my phone numbers. askdeannal@yahoo.com or 264
see men misinterpret this as flirting She can't accept the fact it’s over S. LaCienega Blvd. Suite 1283
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Dear Rob:
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busy Christmas mailing
season w ithout PDC's
service, and their
business loan and
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Monii n Makin.
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(O b itu a r ie s
In Loving Memory
Lois K. Johnson
Greg Brown Sr.
A memorial service for Lois K. Johnson, who died
J une 21,2008 after a t ai I, was held J une 24 at Caldwel I ’ s
Colonial Chapel.
Shewas bom March 12,1920in Boise,
Idaho
to James Arthur and Gertrude
53.
(Carson)
Johnson, the youngest of five
He was born Feb. 2, 1955, in
siblings.
The
family moved to Pendleton
Portland. He graduated from Grant
and
eventually
settled in Portland.
High School and was aheavy equip­
She
graduated
from W ashington
ment operator out of Local 7 0 1. He
High
School
in
Portland
and was a warm
was a member of the church. In
and
loving
caregiver
in
the pediatric
1994, he m arried A udrey L. •
wards
at
several
Portland
hospitals.
Ridgeway.
After
pursing
a
career
as
a licensed
Survivors include his wife; son,
masseuse,
she
worked
at
St.
M artin's Hot Springs
Greg Jr.; sisters, Brenda Hartzog,
Resort
in
Carson,
Wash,
as
well
as the famed Eliza­
Cindy Brown and Mercedes Will­
beth
Arden
Spa
and
Resort
in
Phoenix,
Ariz., where
iams; brother, Ivan Kersting; and
her
notable
clients
included
Dolores
Hope,
the wife
two grandchildren.
of
Bob
Hope,
and
several
women
from
the
Kennedy
Arrangements by Rose City
family.
Cemetery and Funeral Home.
Funeral services were held July
18, 2008, in Mt. Olivet Baptist
Church in Portland for Gregory C.
Brown Sr., who died July 11 at age
In the 1970s, Johnson moved back to Oregon. She
and her older sister, Juanita, became very close over
the years and were nearly inseparable. They enjoyed
spending time with family and friends, visiting the
coast, learning about Black history, and all forms of
visual and performance art. She loved to sing, espe­
cially in harmony with her brothers.
She was a long-time resident of the Hol­
lywood neighborhixxl but for the past few
years lived at Irvington Village Assisted
Living and then St. Andrews Care Facility.
She was preceded in death by her sis­
ters, Thelma, Dorothy, and Juanita and her
brothers, Carl and Howard. Survivors in­
clude her n ieces Evelyn Cook of Bend and
Carlene (Eugene) Jackson of Molalla, and
many cousins, grand- nieces and neph­
ews, friends and loved ones.
She will be lovingly remembered for her feistiness,
radiant smile, keen fashion sense, beautiful calligra­
phy, and deep appreciate for the arts.
The family requests remembrances in her name as
contributions to your favorite charity.
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or email: hodgehspks@msn.com
August 2, 2008
Time:
11:00 AM
A u g u sta n a
Place:
L u th e ra n
C h u rch
Cox & Cox Funeral Chapel
w e lc o m e s y o u to o u r I 5 th A n n u a l
Cong ratu I ati ons
Kuniko Phillips-Sattiewhite
K u n ik o re c e iv e d a B a c h e lo r's
fro m G e o rg ia State U n iv e rs ity in
Business A d m in is tra tio n w ith co n ­
ce n tra tio n in H o s p ita lity in A t ­
lanta, G e o rg ia in 2001. M a s te r's
fro m K e lle r G raduate S ch o o l o f
M a nagem ent o f D e v ry U n iv e r­
sity in P u b lic A d m in is tra tio n w ith
a c o n ce n tra tio n in G o v e rn m e n t
and a M a s te r's in H u m a n R e­
s o u rc e s
M anagem ent
in
Las
V e g a d , N e ve d a iti 2 0 0 8 . She
S u m m e r in t h e C it y
Lay Witness Night
S u n d ay, A u gu st 3
o u t d o o r s 4 : 0 0 -7 : 0 0 p . m .
o f the
A fr ic a n M e th o d is t E p is c o p a l C h u r c h ,
P a c ific N o r th W e s t C o n fe re n c e
O u td o o r m u s ic a n d fo o d 4 :0 0 -6 :0 0
p .m . J a z z s e r v ic e a t 6 :0 0 p .m .
f e a tu r in g j a z z g r e a t s M a r ily n
K e l l e r , S h ir le y N a n e t t e , R o n S te e n ,
K e v in D e i t z , G e o r g e M itc h e ll;
N a tiv e A m e r ic a n d r u m s a n d J lu te ;
R lu e g r a s s h a n d ; te e n a g e S o c ia l
J u s tic e R o ck
R o ll
Invites you, your fa m ily & friends from the Portland,
Tacoma & Seattle Areas To Celebrate with us!
C o m e c e le b r a t e t h e w o n d e r f u l
d iv e r s it y o f P o r tla n d
Featuring N ational R ecording A rtis t
graduated fro m B enson T e ch in 1995. F ro m y o u r P roud
R e v . W .J . M a r k K n u t s o n , P a s t o r
Parents G re g o ry A P h illip s & B e tty L . P h illip s and sister
Sundas W orship 8 : 3 0 & I I a m , I 2 :4 5 & 6 p m
The Lay Organization
The Conferenace Lay Organization
Presents
“Gospel Music in a Nu Way’’
Eddie H unt & N uE ra • G ospel Ensemble M in is try
Front The Christian Faith, Federal Way & Seattle
Under the Leadership of Pastor Casey Treat
N E I 5 th & K n o t t n e a r L lo y d C e n t e r
R e D o u d a L . P h illip s a ll o f P o rtla n d , O re g o n .
Gratitude from
the family of
Willie-Roy and
Louis Johnson
W hen it seem ed th a t out-
loss w as to o g re a t to b ear,
we lo o k e d u p a n d sa w th a t
People o f Royalty Expanding the Kingdom o f God
o u r fr ie n d s w ere there. W h ile
o u r h e a rts a n d fa c e s w ere
f u l l o f g rie f, y o u w e re th e re
w ith a s h o u ld e r to le a n on.
fo o d to fe a s t a n d w o rd s a n d
flo w e r s
th a t flo w e d
lik e
r a in .
F o r th a t the fa m ily o f Roy
a n d L o u is J o h n s o n w o n te d
to s a y we th a n k y o u a n d
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