t 1,1 |J n rtla n ö (© hseruer___________________________ M y 3 0 .2008 PageAio Dear Deanna! I learned that my husband has been eheating on me. I am currently trying to decide if I can forgive him and if we can salvage our 10 year marriage. He told me that he was very sorry for what he has done but I could have reduced the pain if I hadn't followed him to the hotel and caught him. He says all men cheat at some time and it’s a man's DNA. He then pointed out our male friends that cheat and named a few celebrities. If things don't work out is this what I have to look forward to in a marriage? -Terribly Disap­ pointed: On-Line Reader Dear Disappointed: Your husband is sorry indeed be­ cause he got busted with another woman and tried to Hip the script and put the blame on you. All men don't cheat and infidelity has to do with lust, immaturity and being self­ ish. If he and his friends all have cheating in common, they’re birds of a feather that shouldn’t be mar- Ask Deanna ! 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Johnson, who died J une 21,2008 after a t ai I, was held J une 24 at Caldwel I ’ s Colonial Chapel. Shewas bom March 12,1920in Boise, Idaho to James Arthur and Gertrude 53. (Carson) Johnson, the youngest of five He was born Feb. 2, 1955, in siblings. The family moved to Pendleton Portland. He graduated from Grant and eventually settled in Portland. High School and was aheavy equip­ She graduated from W ashington ment operator out of Local 7 0 1. He High School in Portland and was a warm was a member of the church. In and loving caregiver in the pediatric 1994, he m arried A udrey L. • wards at several Portland hospitals. Ridgeway. After pursing a career as a licensed Survivors include his wife; son, masseuse, she worked at St. M artin's Hot Springs Greg Jr.; sisters, Brenda Hartzog, Resort in Carson, Wash, as well as the famed Eliza­ Cindy Brown and Mercedes Will­ beth Arden Spa and Resort in Phoenix, Ariz., where iams; brother, Ivan Kersting; and her notable clients included Dolores Hope, the wife two grandchildren. of Bob Hope, and several women from the Kennedy Arrangements by Rose City family. Cemetery and Funeral Home. Funeral services were held July 18, 2008, in Mt. Olivet Baptist Church in Portland for Gregory C. Brown Sr., who died July 11 at age In the 1970s, Johnson moved back to Oregon. She and her older sister, Juanita, became very close over the years and were nearly inseparable. They enjoyed spending time with family and friends, visiting the coast, learning about Black history, and all forms of visual and performance art. She loved to sing, espe­ cially in harmony with her brothers. 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