Page A3 July 4. 2 00 7 Gordly to Retire in ‘09 launched her po litical ca reer in 19 9 1 w hen she se rv e d th re e term s in the O r eg o n H o u se o f R epresentatives. Sen. Avel G ordly, an In 1996 she made independent represent ing northeast and south state history by becoming the first east Portland, has an nounced she w on’t seek w oman elected to reelection next year and the Senate, and in w ill fin is h h e r te rm Sen. Avel Gordly 2006 renounced through January o f 2009. partisan politics in As the 2007 L egislative Session the Legislature by switching her wrapped up last w eek, Gordly said party affiliation from D em ocrat to she plans to transition her work in the lone Independent. G ordly will return to Salem in public policy to her alm a mater Port land State U niversity, where she’ll February o f 2008 when legislators serve as an adjunct associate pro are planning to return for a month fessor in the D epartm ent o f Black long session, marking the first time Studies. the state legislature will meet on an G o rd ly , a P o rtla n d n a tiv e , annual basis. Senator w ill teach at PSU Summer Scholars com prom ise the bill's supporters agreed to rem ove a portion that would open up limited public access to grand jury transcripts in deadly use o f force cases. SB 111 -C is considered a victory for Rep. Chip Shields, a Democrat representing north and northeast Portland, and Senators Avel Gordly (¡-Portland) and M argaret C arter (D- Portland). Dear Deanna! I feel th ere'sadifferencebetw een honesty and not telling the whole truth in a relationship. My hus band has the tendency to leave out im portant facts. I’ve learned that he’ll tell me what he wants me to know and when I find out other things, he claim s he forgot. How do you forget that you have a child, how do you forget that you got fired and how do you forget you have a wife. In other words, h e’s living a double life and I d o n ’t know what to do? —Carol; Shooting Suspect W anted tives believe he is in the An arrest w arrant Portland area, but he is was issued T uesday for 25 -year-old Chri s- also known to frequent Sandy. topher Blaine Gaston in connection w ith P olice say G aston may be using a m otor the June 15 shooting cycle for transportation o f five individuals in the 9600 block o f and should be consid N o rth C la re n d o n ered arm ed and danger A venue. ous. A nyone w ith infor G aston is charged with attem pted m ur mation in the investiga Christopher Gaston der and assault with tion is asked to call D e a firearm. He is described as a 5- tective Mark Slater at 503-823-9319 foot-9,160-pound w hite male with or D etective Jon Rhodes at 503- brown hair and hazel eyes. Detec- 823-0559. diversity Charleston, S.C. Dear Carol: Y our marriage is m issing trust and com m unication which are the strongest staples for a solid rela tionship. There are also some is sues with you that may cause your husband to be intim idated so h e’s forced to lie about every thing. However, there are no e x cuses for his double life in which he has com m itted adultery. The both o f you need to invest in a therapist to sort out your issues, organize your m ess and clear the ‘"Print Participate in Democracy Vote ~ I Return your ballot by mail or drop ifo ff at any designated voter dmpsite. Call 1-866-673-8683 to find a location near you. “ ’^Linrtlatxb (O h sm w r 'C ity of R o « t ’ I st.iblishcd m 1970 tfdumr XXXIV • \ . .Inch-. • October ¡1 2004 C o m m iilcJ to C d h ra l P i t io Election 1 Ballots On Way Week in lheRcview 1e«n Itef c« *4 JftrrVhiM i A I7y»< ild S«Ntta pri M u <br < « he <« ee U d «rf tutofctad 100 W at »blood < k* to harhnto. d»« tan <«M Ln. H*d> ■ toul» had dtoort <w*he 4»«d. •rf <tapAl»< >«d «UM » ■<n«e»he-4»- «r*«wty Tb* R n m on o R i \ i > i km w / T iik P o k i i w n O n si m i k Students take a break between Summer Scholar classes that started last week at Benson High School. Charging between $155 and $205 a half credit, the Portland Public Schools program gives students a chance to make up a class, improve a grade or receive special tutoring. Bill Addresses Deadly Force A .•.tale bill affecting police offic ers' use o f deadly force narrowly passed in both the house and senate just one hour before the 2007 legis lature adjourned. 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