ianuary 18, 2006_________________________________________ íl!l ^ l o r t l a u h (© b ö C rU e r PageA5 R e e d C o lle g e C e le b r a t e s B la c k H is t o r y Series of events include lectures, performances Reed C o lleg e in vites local resid en ts to jo in its celeb ratio n o f Black H istory M onth, Jan. 24 through Feb 28. T he rich history and cultu ral h eritage o f A frican A m ericans will be honored w ith a series o f lectures and p erfo rm an ces, all free and open to the public. F eatured lectures and p e rfo r Ask ö R e a l P e o p le , R eal A d v ic e l/i ils advice allunili known fo r less “approach In reality bus a l s ubj a is! f a il Dear Deanna! The holidays are over and 1 no longer have a need for tny boy friend. We dated during the sum mer but as the New Year rolled in I realized I don’t want to be with him. The problem is the fact he gave me some expensive gifts that I d on’t feel I should return. H e’s selfish and I know h e’ll want the gifts back if I dum p him. How can 1 end this relation ship but keep the gifts? - T e e ; O klahom a City, Okla. DearTee: Y ou’re very rude and don’t have the right to discard this man like a dust cloth. You were with this man long enough to build respect even if the relationship needs to end. You need to close the rela tionship with decency and give him the courtesy o f know ing why. If he wants the gifts back, you should return them to avoid conflict. Besides, there’s noth ing too expensive that you can ’t work hard and buy for yourself. Dear Deanna! I'm in a serious relationship with a prisoner. I visit him weekly and now he wants to get married. I love him and want to be with him but I’m scared. I’ve never been married and would prefer to wait for him when he gets out in 7 years. He thinks we should marry now for benefits and income tax m ances include scholar and c u l tural critic M ichael Eric D yson, w ho d iscu sses the effe c ts o f H urricane K atrina on the black com m unity in his latest book C om e Hell or High W ater: H ur ricane K atrina and N atural, R a cial and E conom ic D isasters. A uthor Bell H ooks w ill focus atten tio n on the m yriad form s purposes but I d o n ’t see it that way. I d on’t want to lose him but I d on’t want to marry him now ju st to keep him. W hat do I do? - -Anonym ous; Riverside, Calif. Dear Anonymous: You need y our head exam ined if you d o n ’t get it. He placed his d esires for financial gain on the table in plain view . It w ould be m ore accep table if he professed faith, love and devotion but he d id n ’t. You need to w ake up and see how crazy it is to w orry a b o u t lo s in g s o m e o n e w h o c a n ’t do anything for you but talk and w rite letters. If the love is so strong, h e ’ll w ait for 7 years because h e ’s not going anyw here no tim e soon. Dear Deanna! I love going to church but I'm losing my faith. Everything in my life is going wrong at the same time. I lost my job, my girlfriend and my desire to enjoy life. I was drinking heavy for a w hile and my friends left me. Now that I’m dow n on my luck everyone has disappeared. How do I get my self together during a time like this because I’m really com ing apart. W here do I start? -N e a l; M emphis, Tenn. Dear Neal: W hen the en em y a tta c k s he seeks to kill and destroy. D ur ing perio d s o f d istress, lack o f hope and the good tim es, you need to pray and lean on your faith like th e re ’s no tom orrow . T his is a tim e o f life revelation and clean sin g so you can trust in G od as He prepares you for a new season o f blessings. At le a s t y o u k n o w w h o y o u r friends are so that when y o u ’re back on y our feet you can leave them in the cold. o f racism , from subtle to b la ta n t, e v id e n t in the U nited States. The high-energy dance g ro u p Step A frik a, w ho has p o p u la r iz e d th e p e rc u s s iv e d a n c e te c h n iq u e k n o w n as “ ste p p in g ” will perform . O ther perform ances include the avant garde ja z z group E thnic H eri tage E nsem ble, fusing tradi- tio n al A frican rh y th m ic and B ecause seating is lim ited, m elodic sensibilities w ith popu tic k e ts are re q u ire d fo r the lar A frican A m erican m usical M ichael Eric D yson and Bell expression; and "T he In cred H o o k s le c tu re s. 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