A p ril 27, 2005 Page A6 Dear Deanna! Racial Lines Crossed with Art, Education c o n tin u e d fro m ary, and at the sam e festival helped the Jazz Ensem ble I win second-place honors. Shoals maintains strong ties to Three-Fifths Compromise, a band formed during his years at Grant High School and named for the pre- Civil W ar legislation that counted slaves as only three-fifths o f a per son. The object being to diffuse the term o f its formerly negative con notation. Shoals said the band’s fusion of jazz, rock and funk is uppermost in his mind right now. It’s a style that serves him wherever he takes his music - even to Botswana, where he F ro n t music scene. W hether in his native Portland, at W hitman or in his s tu d y -a b ro a d d e s tin a tio n o f Botswana, each address resonates with his music. At Whitman, Shoals has partici pated in the Whitman Col lege Cho rale, the Testostertones and Jazz Ensemble I, as well as various smaller combos broken off from the larger jazz band. He won top honors as O ut stan d in g D rum S o lo ist at the U n iv ersity o f Id a h o ’s L ionel Ham pton Jazz Festival in Febru- jority, but the same because it’s spent a semester last fall. The study abroad was an eye- covert in both countries. O f course opener for Shoals, who studied and racism is sometimes regional, and mastered enough Setswana to com my understanding o f race issues municate with three “awesome” is limited to the Northwest be host families, researched and wrote cause that’s my personal experi a report on the country’s education ence.” Regardless o f his next destina system, and toured the country with Botswana’s best known jazz band- tion or venue, Shoals is certain to make his voice heard whether in Ndingo Johwa. The racial issues in Botswana music, poetry, leadership, or aca- have similarities to those found in demic achievements. 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