A p ril 27, 2005 Page A6 Dear Deanna! Racial Lines Crossed with Art, Education c o n tin u e d fro m ary, and at the sam e festival helped the Jazz Ensem ble I win second-place honors. Shoals maintains strong ties to Three-Fifths Compromise, a band formed during his years at Grant High School and named for the pre- Civil W ar legislation that counted slaves as only three-fifths o f a per­ son. The object being to diffuse the term o f its formerly negative con­ notation. Shoals said the band’s fusion of jazz, rock and funk is uppermost in his mind right now. It’s a style that serves him wherever he takes his music - even to Botswana, where he F ro n t music scene. W hether in his native Portland, at W hitman or in his s tu d y -a b ro a d d e s tin a tio n o f Botswana, each address resonates with his music. At Whitman, Shoals has partici­ pated in the Whitman Col lege Cho­ rale, the Testostertones and Jazz Ensemble I, as well as various smaller combos broken off from the larger jazz band. He won top honors as O ut­ stan d in g D rum S o lo ist at the U n iv ersity o f Id a h o ’s L ionel Ham pton Jazz Festival in Febru- jority, but the same because it’s spent a semester last fall. The study abroad was an eye- covert in both countries. O f course opener for Shoals, who studied and racism is sometimes regional, and mastered enough Setswana to com­ my understanding o f race issues municate with three “awesome” is limited to the Northwest be­ host families, researched and wrote cause that’s my personal experi­ a report on the country’s education ence.” Regardless o f his next destina­ system, and toured the country with Botswana’s best known jazz band- tion or venue, Shoals is certain to make his voice heard whether in Ndingo Johwa. 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