November 3, 1999
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P R IN T
Reviving Ophelia
Real Boys
H enry H olt an d C o m p an y ; 1998
By W illiam P ollack, Ph.D .
B ased on W illiam P o lla c k ’s
g r o u n d b re a k in g r e s e a r c h at
Harvard M edical School for more
than two decades, Rea! Boys ex
plores this generation’s “silent cri
sis” : why so m any boys are sad,
lonely, and confused although they
may appear tough, cheerful, and
confident. Pollack challenges con
ventional expectations about man-
hood and m asculinity that encour
age parents to treat boys as little
men, raising them through a tough
ening process that drives their true
em otions underground. Only when
w e understand w hat boys are really
experiencing, says Pollack, can par
ents and teachers help them develop
m ore self-confidence and the em o
tional savvy they need to deal with
issues such as depression and vio
le n c e , d ru g s
an d a lc o h o l,
sexuality and
love.
—I.a il Sheehv
71
Vi >rt» a new ton-w ord h» Mary Pipher, Ph.fX,
author o f RiririHÿ Op«rÌM
WILLIAM POLLACK, Ph.D.
H a z e ld e n ;
1998
By
Jean
I I I s I e y
C la rk e an d
C o n n ie
D aw son
A s tim e -
tested as it is
tim ely,theex-
pert advice in
this book has
helped thou-
sands ofread-
ers im p ro v e
on
th e ir
p a re n tin g
p ra d ic e s ,
N ow , su b -
stantially re-
B a llan tin e Books; 1994
girls’ unmuted voices from the front
By M ary P ipher, Ph.D.
lives o f adolescence, personal and
W hy are m ore A m erican painfully honest. B y laying bare
adolescent girls prey to de their harsh day-to-day reality. Re
p ression, eating disorders, viving O phelia issues a call to arms
addictions, and suicide at an d o ffe rs p a re n ts co m p assio n ,
tempts than ever before? A c strength, and strategies with which
cording to Dr. M ary Pipher, to revive these O phelias’ lost sense
a clinical psychologist who o f self.
h as tr e a te d g irls fo r
more than twenty years,
w e live in a lo o k -o b
s e s s e d , m e d ia - s a tu
rated, “girl-poisoning”
culture. D espite the ad
IO N
vances o f feminism, es
U » hui »>• • x
calating levels o f sex
«Ml HIM
nut«.
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ism and violence - from un
d e r v a lu e d in te llig e n c e to
sexual harassm ent in elem en
tary school - cau se girls to
stifle their creative spirit and
natural im pulses, w hich, ulti
mately, destroys their self-es
teem . Yet girls o ften blam e
themselves or their families for . ■■ ■ ■
. H.’
W™
this “problem with no nam e”
instead o f looking at the world
around them.
H ere, for the first tim e, are
REVIVING
OPHELIA
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Growing up again
“ Anyone »H»
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hoy, and men »kuntfil
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vised and expanded, Growing Up
A gain offers further guidance on
providing children with the struc-
tu re an d n u rtu rin g th a t are so
ciritical to their healthy develop-
m ent - and to our own.
Je a n Ills le y C la rk an d C o n n ie
D aw son provide the inform ation
ev e ry a d u lt ca rin g for ch ild ren
sh o u ld k n o w - ab o u t ag e s and
stages o f development, ways to nur-
ture our children and ourselves, and
to o ls fo r p e rs o n a l a n d fa m ily
growth. This new edition also ad-
d resses th e sp ecial d em an d s o f
adopted children and blended fami-
lies, the character o f prenatal life
and our final days, and the grow-
ing problem o f overindulgence.
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