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RELIGION
SCRIPTURE OF T H E W EEK
/ THESSALONIANS: Chapters 1 & 2
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Part 2
to love are forged during the first
tw o years of life. On th is point
there is a consensus am ong scien
tis ts fro m a w id e range of
disciplines.
“ W e are living in tim es,” Pro
fessor Fraiberg continues, "w hen
there are voices w hich denigrate
the hum an fam ily and even cry for
its disso lu tio n or its recom posi
tion. I cannot identify the voices of
infant p sycholog ists am ong th e m ”
(Every Child's Birthright: In Defense
of Mothering).
It’s unnerving to visualize what
final e ffe ct the em otional near
abandonm ent of our children w ill
have upon our society.
Too long has w om en’s value as
th e p r im a r y n u r tu r e r s a n d
educators of their children been
downgraded. W om en w ho choose
to stay hom e w ith their children
should never again feel they have
to apologize for their occupation.
My question to those consider
ing day care from alm ost day once
is, should you consider having
children? If your career is at such a
critic a l stage that you can’t make
the sacrifice of a few years to give
the care every hum an being needs
fo r em otional stability, perhaps
you shouldn’t bring children into
the w orld at this tim e.
At som e point or other, careers
can be interrupted, w ith little or no
repercussions. The nurturing and
care o f your m ost personal pre
cio u s product, your infant child,
cannot.
O f course, m othering takes
sacrifice. For the first few m onths,
it’s an around-the-clock, physical
job for w hich you'll get little
praise. But what rewards!
The intense nuturing of another
human being defined as m other
ing builds a relationship like no
other. You can experience this
k in d o f d e ep, in te rp e rs o n a l
closeness in no other way. Do you
want to m iss that?
YOUR CHILD DESERVES THE BEST
For those w ith older children,
depending on the fam ily c ir
cum stances and ch ild re n ’s ages, it
may not always be as harm ful for
m others to work. But those o f you
w ith very young preschool babies
and toddlers feeling the pressure
The Soviet U nion has provided
in s titu tio n a liz e d c h ild care for
years, but use of these services
has dw idled. M any parents de
pend on friends and relatives to
care fo r children under 3, the age
Soviet preschoolers usually attend
kindergarten.
S oviet m o th e rs receive fu ll
salary fo r 1-1/2 or tw o years and 50
to 75 percent salary for the third
year, and s till have a guaranteed
place at th e ir old work.
In Britain, w om en receive 18
w eeks m aternity leave from their
em ployers. For those w ho have
w orked fo r more then tw o years,
pay fo r the first six w eeks is 90
percent o f salary, then about 33
pounds a week for the next 12
weeks.
In the late 1970’s, France in-
s titu te d supplem ental allow ances
called the com plem ent fam ilial.
These are childcare allow ances
given to fam ilies of lim ited re
sources having at least one child
under 3 years old or three children,
w hether the m other w orks or not.
In France, the w orking m other is
given 16 w eeks’ m aternity leave,
six weeks before and 10 weeks
after the birth. She is paid 90 per
ce n t of her normal wages by social
security during th is tim e. French
children from 2 to 6 years of age
may attend preschool classes.
And all th is has been made nec
essary by the grow ing num ber of
tw o-incom e fam ilies in our overex
tended debt-ridden w orld!
THE DEVELOPMENT OF LOVE
Even m ore sobering, studies are
revealing that a c h ild 's ab ility to
form a lasting attachm ent to
a n o th e r h u m a n b e in g — h is
c a p a c ity to love — is learned
before age 3. And that th is ability
to form a lasting m utual attach
m ent is inexorably tied in w ith the
form ulation of the c h ild ’s co n
science. In other words, no human
a tta c h m e n t equals no proper
sense of c o n s c ie n c e ...
From studies over the last 20 to
30 years in fa n t p s y c h o lo g is t
Selm a Fraiberg states: “ W e have
learned that the hum an qualities
of enduring love and c o m m itm e n t
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“ Before You M ust’ ’
— Make a Decision —
“ Inquire about the services we o ffe r”
COMMUNITY HAPPENINGS
WILLIS DINNER: The Mt. O livet B aptist C hurch w ill sponsor a dinner on
Nov. 11, at 6:00 p.m. Tickets are on sale for $5.00 each. The evening affair
is being given by the M iriam M issionary Circle. For further inform ation,
please call 284-1954.
Cox Funeral Home, Inc.
24 Hr. Service
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We are interested in your problems.
WAFFLE BREAKFAST: Delta M others and Patroness’ C lub — Annual
W affle Breakfast, Saturday, Novem ber 12, 1988, 9:00 a m - 1:00 p.m. at
Vancouver Avenue First B aptist Church, 3138 North Vancouver Avenue.
D onation $2.50.
Oregon
Jurisdiction No. #1
Headquarters Church C.O.G.I.C.
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The Ark of Safety
Church of God in Christ
Sunday School
7 00pm
Saxfcr,
9 15am
1115am
Morning Worship
6 30 p m .
YPW W
Evangelistic
The Holiness Preacher B is h o p U .V P e te rs o n D D . B u ild e r- P a s to r
8 00pm
Worship
Tuesday
the Bible sa y s...
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“ There’s no one answer to the
ch ild care problem , no course
th a t’s right for every fam ily. If a
m other absolutely m ust work,
then she woes her child the best
care possible. If she does have a
choice, then she ow es it to herself,
as w ell as to the child, to take tw o
or three years fo r the m ost im por
tant w ork she may ever do, nurtur
ing a new life.” (The Child Care
Crisis — The Real Costs of Day Care
for You — and Your Child, by
Fredelle Maynard).
Tìsnday
Choir Rehearsal
FOUNDER
to m ake a decision you may regret,
q u it fe e lin g in fe r io r — y o u ’re
indispensable!
In trial and adversity
Let not your faith grow dim,
But say a fervent prayer to God
And keep your trust in Him
Let hope not wither on the wire
Of sorrow and despair,
Remember God knows everything
And He is everywhere
However dark the day may seem
Or frightening the night.
All troubles fade and disappear
And life turns out all right
Provided you maintain your faith
And do not yield to tear
The while you pray for courage with
A heart that is sincere
Resign yourself most humbly now
To do God's holy will
And He will surely bless you and
Your least request fulfill
7 30p m
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" A w a rm s p ir it o f f e llo w s h ip a lw a y s ”
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The World’s Child Care Needs
(Excerpt from the Plain Truth)
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Noon Day Prayer
follow peace with
all men& holiness
without which no
man shall see the
The Pastor Speaks'
Morning Payer
7 30pm
9 00a m
Lord
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Jesus Loves You!
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(comer of 8th & Skidmore)
Portland, Oregon 97211
(503) 287-0261
.Phillip S. Nelson, Pastor
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November 14th, 1988 to the Bishopship for the Church Of God In Christ (COGIC) in Memphis, Tenn.
FELLOWSHIP
CHURCH
640-3646
W e are a new church in Oregon City, recruiting
in all areas of the church. Come to a church where
God can do something for you! We are a healing
ministry.
Sunday School -10:00 a.m.
Morning Worship - 11:30 a.m.
Evening Services - 6:30 p.m.
Tuesday - Bible Study
Rev. Ernest Thompson - Pastor
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CHURCHES IN DISTRICT
Jurisdiction #1
Headquarters Church
Greater Solid Rock
Bishop A R. Hopkins
1705 N E DekumSt
Portland. OR 97211
283-1524
Greater Peace
Supt
E Wilson
4009 N Missouri St
Portland, OR 97227
249 7335
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McKinney Temple
Elder E C . Suell
1737 N E Alberta St
Portland. OR 97211
282-8522
St Luke Memorial
Elder L. Adams
2700 N E Sumner St
Portland. OR 97211
284-0710
Light House C O G I C
Elder T Moore
1123 N.E Fremont
Portland. OR 97211
281-3875
Christ Memorial Church
Elder' R L Tate
1552N Killingsworth St
Portland. OR 97217
286-9624
Williams Temple
Elder M Walker
241 N E Hancock
Portland. OR 97212
281 1340
Nazarene C O G I C
Supt
L Dolsey
9119N Drummond SI
Portland. OR 97217
286-4272
Cornerstone Comm Church
Supt
B E Johnson
2216 N E Killingsworth St
Portland. OR 97211
281-4587
Bethel Temple
Supt
A Shankle
1545 South Brooklyn Ave
Eugene. OR 97403
343-7303
Free Will Church
For All Nations
Elder Thurman Holmes
420 Market St
Klamath Falls. OR 97603
882-1303
La Grande C O G I C
Elder. I D . Lowe
1303 T Street
La Grande, OR 97850
963-4736
Salem Mission C O G I C
Supt A Shankle
4308 Hill Rose St
Salem, OR 97309
399-0088
Church Of God In Christ
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