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Newspaper Page Text8 TIIE MORNING OltEGONIAN, SATURDAY. FEBRUARY 21, 1914. " I Jty Gtsr&urcfeJ? 'Cosfiett, -I - . - jj; AN engagement of unusual interest, which unites two prominent fami lies of Portland, is that of Miss Kan Wood Robertson and George A. War Ten. The announcement was made yesterday at an elaborate reception, for which Mrs. Donald Ranney Munro was hostess. Several hundred of Portland's society matrons and maids thronged the rooms between the hours of 3 to S o'clock and the floral decorations made a charming setting for the lovely (owns of the guests. The news of the engagement has been whispered about for sometime among the bride-elect's closest friends, and it was with eager anticipation that they attended the tea yesterday to hear a confirmation of the rumor. Miss Robertson is one of the most lovable girls-in the younger set; she has a charming personality and a gracious manner that has endeared her to every body. She is a graduate of Portland Academy, her fiance also being a grad uate of the same school, and later she accompanied her family on a tour of the world. She has made a trip around the world twice and is most interesting. Miss Robertson has also distinguished herself in the athletic world, by her splendid tennis playing. This wedding will connect several of the most prominent families in Port land, as Miss Robertson is the grand niece of Mrs. Henry W. Corbett and niece of Mrs. David Robertson, cousin of the Misses Etta and May Failing, Mrs. Henry C. Cabell and of Mrs. Helen Ladd Corbett. 'She is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. W. E. Robertson, sister of Miss Mary Robertson and her broth ers are Thomas, who married into the Burns family, with their lengthy line of relatives in the Couch and Wilson families; David And Jack, who is at present in Lawrenceville School. Mr. Warren and Thomas Robertson, who have been life-long friends, made a tour of the world together. Mr. Warren is the son of Mrs. Frank M. Warren and brother of Frank M. Jr., Miss Frances and Mrs. Munro. After his graduation from Portland Academy, he entered Princeton College and grad uated shortly before making the trip around the world. He is a member of all the leading clubs in the city, In cluding the University, Waverly Coun try, Arlington and Multnomah. He is also very popular socially and the wed--ding will be one of the most Interest ing and important of the year. No definite plans have been made as yet. Mrs. Munro and her honor guest were particularly attractive in their pretty gowns. Mrs. Munro wore a handsome gown of lavender charmeuse with a ' crystal beaded chiffon over dress, and a corsage of violets. Miss Robertson was charmingly gowned in pastel pink charmeuse, elaborately embroidered in crystal and silver, and she also wore a corsage of orchids and lilies of the valley. The rooms were adorned with a pro fusion of lovely Spring blossoms and the tea table was most artistic. A huge silver basket was filled with pink Kil larney roses and narcissus. About the room, arranged in pretty baskets and bowls, were branches of cherry blos soms and combined with narcissus and daffodils. Presiding at the table were: Mrs. William Henry Skene, Mrs. War ren F. Houghton, Mrs. William C. Al vord and the mother of the bride-elect, Mrs. W. E. Robertson. At another table Mrs. Marion F. Dolph 'and Mrs. Warren P. Noble served Ices. Assisting about the rooms were Mrs. George K. Went worth. Jr., Mrs. Edmund King, Miss Mary Robertson,-Miss Adele Dyott, Miss Claire Houghton. Miss Isabella Gauld and Miss Hazel Dolph. Receiving with the hostess, who wore a handsome im ported gown of lavender charmeuse with over-drape of crystal. beaded chif fon, were: Mrs. Frank M. Warren, Jr., Mrs. Thomas Talbot and Miss FranceB Warren. Many charming affairs will mark their pre-nuptlal days. Mr. and Mrs. Walter Bowne were hosts last night for a delightful in formal dance at their home on Coun cil Crest Drive. The rooms were adorned attractively with branches ol pussy "willow and clusters of Spring blossoms. Enjoying Mr. and Mrs. Bowne's hospitality were Mr. and Mrs. John K. Kollock. Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth Beebe, Mr. and Mrs. Gerald Beebe. Mr. end Mrs. J. Andre Fouilhoux. Mr. and Mrs. Lloyd Smith, Mr. and Mrs. Harry Sharp and Mr. and Mrs. Edmund King. . Mr. and Mrs. James D. Honeyman en tertained a few friends informally at dinner, preceding the annual ball at the Army Post last night. Several of the prominent officers and women of the poet also were dinner hosts before the dance, their guests Including a num ber of Portland's smart set. Miss Mary Campbell, a bride-elect, was a guest of honor yesterday aft ernoon when Miss Greata Butterfield entertained a few guests at tea. The hostess was assisted by Miss Jean Mar tin and Miss Ruth Roeenfeld. m The Catholic Woman's League enter tained with an elaborate ball and card party at Hotel Multnomah last night The mezzanine floor was screened for the card players and a feature of the evening was the well-patronized candy t booth. The decorations were unusually ' artistic and effective and made a charming setting for the handsome gowns of the fair sex. The ballroom was thronged with merry dancers and the affair proved one of the most bril liant the League has attempted. Re ceiving the guests were Mrs. John Manning, president of the league; Mrs. H. C. Bowers, Mrs. J. C. Costello, Mrs. .Tames D. Coffey, Mrs. Edward Boyce, Mrs. Wilbur E. Coman. Miss Dunne, Mrs. Thomas Erskine, Miss Katherine Glle. Mrs. J. J. Hogan, Mrs. J. A. Hughes, Mrs. P. J. Flynn, Miss Mar garet Flaherty, Mrs. F. H. Isherwood, Mrs. B. Gildner, Mrs. J. P. Kavanaugh, Mrs. R. A. Kirk, Mrs. J. II. Kern. Miss Mary Mackay, Mrs. D. J. Maher, Mrs. John Maginnis, Mrs. J. F. O'Donnell, Mrs. AndreV C. Smith, Mrs. Robert Teegan, Mrs. D. Sullivan, Mrs. J. R. Wiley and Mrs. M. F. Brady. A .floor committee consisting of members of the Catholic Men's Guild of Portland. J. Audre Fouilhoux, chair man, was in charge of the dancing. Mrs. Wilbur E. Coman and Mrs. An drew Smith were in charge of the can dy table and were assisted by the Misses Katherine Kern. Margaret Ma- larkey, Inej Barrett, Gladys and Helen Dunne. Mrs. B. Gildner and Mrs. J. A. Hughes were in charge of the cardroom. IfyjEdi'fiAnyTfJfomef. MARCH IS will be the 25th birth day of the Baby Homo and In celebration of the event a large tea will be given at the home. The annual meeting of the board and mem bers of the organization will be held on March 9, when officers will be Fleeted and reports will be priven. The home is caring efficiently for a large number of babies and the boarti. jlias SMART STRAW CHAPEAU, PARISIAN Jeanne Due has sent to America from Paris the smartest, the most unique Spring model for a charming chapeau. The hat is built of straw, but has a silk gauze braid edge that softens the otherwise severe effect. Long quills adorn each -side of the model. Tne straw used in fashioning the hat is- df two tones, and the crown Is of a looser weave than the brim. the assistance of a capable corps of nurses and under the direction of Miss Morse, the matron of the Home. Sev eral prominent physicians give gen erously of their time and skill and the public co-operates frequently in help ing the home to maintain its high standard. Mrs.' T. L. O'Niel, a prominent club woman of Santa Cruz, who' has been visiting in Portland for several weeks, will leave tomorrow for her home. Mrs. O'Niel is a writer and a leader in club and parent-teacher work In California. She has been entertained extensively by prominent women, or this city. She was visiting her son, Ray O'Niel. who has come to Portland to reside and Is connected with the Pacific Hardware Be feteel Company. Chanter A. P. V. r Slirlmul ,m hold an all-day meeting on Monday at the home of Mrs. C R. Davis, 727 ocnuyier street. The members will saw fnr phdritv T.nni)iAnn n-n vA served at 12:30 o'clock. m Mrs. Alvah Lemeur Carr, president Divorced Life By Helen HessongFuessIe. Copyrieht The Adams Newspaper Service. A Stranger's Eyes. THAT divorce could stand In the way of securing employment had never occurred to Marian. The point of view of the elderly woman who refused to employ her as her companion struck her as absurd. Yet, the other's word's rankled. They filled Marian with . a surging sense of defiance against the forces of convention which seemed to be arrayed against her. She boarded- a streetcar and was whirled down town. She bought cop ies of two morning papers and entered one of the hotels to make a fresh study of the want-ads. She found "a chair in the balcony overlooking the lobby, and began her search, checking off the most attractive advertisements for office help. Seated thus, she soon became aware that a man was repeatedly passing her chair. In casual glances she perceived a man of perhaps 40, well-dressed and dapper. Later she saw him seated near by, and was astonished to see him look ing fixedly at her. An utter stranger to her, she did not at first understand CALENDAR FOB TODAY. Society. Thes Dansants, Hotel Benson, this afternoon. Miss Frances Dewar will entertain this afternoon with Orpheum party for Miss Evangeline Maguire. a bride-elect. Mrs. Charles J. Schnabel will enter tain with a bridge-tea this afternoon. Miss Ainsworth and Miss Varnejr will entertain at a The Dansant at the Ains worth residence. Mrs. Gilbert H. Durham will be host ess for informal tea. Clubs. Federation Council at Meier & Prank tearoom. 12:30 o'clock. Reception by Willamette Chapter Daughters of the American Revolution with Mrs. E. O. Titus. Psychology clubhouse benefit at 149 Tenth street, 8 o'clock tonight. Circle No. 7 hostesses. Parent-Teacher Associations. All circles sell flags on final, day or child welfare week. TRIMMED WITH QUILLS, IS NOVELTY i X C&n"'- j ft'".- , A y i'f of the Seattle Branch of the Associa tion of Collegiate Alumnae and coun- selor-at-large for the Northwest for the Wellesley College graduates will be entertained by Portland college women and members of the Drama League auring ner visit here next week. The seventh lecture of Mme. Henrlette L. Huilller. at the Central Library, was on Victor Hugo, the prince of French poets. The eminent lecturer spoke about the life of the famous writer and read fragments of some of his works, The next and last lecture of the season will be given on Friday at 8 o'clock, in room A, Library. Willamette Chapter, Daughters of the American Revolution will entertain this afternoon at the home of Mrs. E. G. Titus, East Seventeenth and Tilla mook streets, between the hours of and 5. The guests of the afternoon will be the members of Multnomah Chapter. All visiting daughters who are in the city and are unaffiliated will be welcomed. Each member Is privileged to invite two guests. the meaning of his gaze. Again, a little later, she looked up In time to avert his eyes. With an uncomfortable. resentful feeling, she got up, turned her chair around, and sat down facing in the op posite airecuon. soon, to her surprise, she beheld the man on the other side of the balcony, seated near the rail, and She moil became aware tbat a -nan mi - repeatedly passing; her chair. again reeardlnar Viai Rto,fQ ck. let her eyes remain upon his for a moment, coldly. Icily. "Is there anything the matter with me?" she wondered. "Why should that fellow stare at me? If he respected me, ne wouldn't do It, Is there any thing nhnnt mA tt -1v htm v, .. ; -- t. - n ' 1.110 iiupreB- sion that I'm not respectable? Do I look flighty or fast?" A ctr-lr fp(Tln(r ,Ir n .-i V, t. w rr . . . w b.Auusu uer. ine indignity of the man's offensive eyes xxmi iJviutLHuy. men naa stared at her before, but never in this obnoxious manner. Also, the -fact that she was now aione in trie world made the epi sode seem different today. Rarely during her married va v. -j ,i d, , entered a downtown hotel without her nusDand. never, before today, had sh realized thn nrntlwttlnn f,nm .. : - r v.u wiiunoi Vf3 masculine eyes which her husband's presence had meant to her. She fled from the hotel without fur ther thought of search for; work that day. Consumed with chagrin, her only thought was to escape the Impudence of the stranger's eyes. What woman has not met with similar distasteful ex periences? If married, she finds com fort in recounting the unpleasant epi sode to her husband. If an untimely divorce happens to have ridden into her life, even this crumb of comfort may no longer be resorted to, and the fires of resentment must burn themselves out as best they can. Marian wandered Into a nearby de partment store, and drifted aimlessly up and down the endless aisles with the currents of shoppers. And, as her thoughts reverted to the balcony of the hotel, the ugly memory of what had happened brought on a feeling of in dignation curiously blended with helplessness-She made no purchases, sorely though she was tempted by the arrays of mer chandise. The thought of her depleted funds stiffened her determination to maintain unyielding economy, until she succeeded in obtaining work. Work! Where? What kind? What a world she. mused in vague resent ment that fits its women primarily for the business of marriage alone! Dismayed, she scanned the army of shop girls back of the counters, toil ing atoms in the great industrial scheme. Untrained woman that she was, she marveled at the efficiency these girls displayed at their tasks. Then the thought of their low wages poked a taunting finger into her mind and her heart sank. (To be continued Monday.) TALKS ON Br Lilian- Hngle. BY LILIAN TINGLE. MORE help for the housewife is daily becoming available. Not, indeed, the kind of "help" whose scarcity, deeds and misdeeds, still form a staple topic of conversation with some housekeepers (in spite of that excellent "rule of good manners" which forbids the social discussion of the three D's dress, disease and domestics"), but the kind of help that is even more urgently needed, the knowledge of the latest reports of scientific work, shorn of all unneces sary details, and presented In a form directly suited to the needs of the home. The Journal of Home Economics, well known to all domestic science teachers as the official organ of the Home Economics Association, and the best and most reliable source of in formation regarding the latest scientic research, special publications, and edu cational movements relating to house hold and Institutional problems, begins In Its February number a new "de partment for housekeepers." This should prove of the utmost value to every woman who Is earnestly striving to Improve the standard of her homemaklng, and to solve the many, pressing problems, both new and old. that she meets in running the business whose daily output of "'.three' meals a day, with warmth, shelter, cleanliness, order, comfort and recreation" for the family, must not fail. The kind of help offered by the Journal of Home Economics is Intended to cover four main lines of work, and will be different both In kind and quality from the highly diluted popular articles and household hints" of the scattering, unorganized tpye, with which we are all Itoo familiar. There will be (1) reports on the best resources in equipment, arrange ment, - and house construction. (2) Reports and suggestions on "standard processes," now carried on in the house. the object being to bring about greater economy of materials, time and energy and at the same time to show the way to other Improvements (thus 'intro ducing motive and Interest Into what is too often monotonous drudgery), and to produce, if possible, what has been called" the efficient attitude of mind." (3) To give the scientific principles underlying questions of foundational importance, classifiable under food, clothing and shelter. (4) To show co operative resources: (a) co-operation within the household; (b) co-operation in neighborhood groups, (c) co-operation In municipal, state and Govern ment reforms. Every womtin is now, whether she wishes It or not, responsi ble for her share In the "larger house keeping," as well as for the smaller housekeeping bounded by her own four walls. Reports on this "extra" housekeep ing will Include the results of experi ments of groups in co-operative buy ing, cooking and laundry work; the sanitary condition and methods of in spection of public laundries, bakeries, markets and restaurants; laws relat ing to weights and measures and their enforcement; comparison of cost, and quality of work done in the house, with that of similar work done out of the house. Knowledge of v these "outside" problems is now as necessary to the efficient housewife as was, in former days, the knowledge of actual practice In weaving, spinning, soap and candle making, meat-curing and other arts. which the "great lady" as well as the humblest "serving maid" had to acquire. The responsibilities remain, though the place and method of pro duction has changed. Well trained and Intelligent women In the housekeeping ranks will not be content to follow an unmeaning round. simply because it was done before them. "The new unrest of the time, the growing skill that women are showing in team work, the habit of questioning all things, are leading to real discoveries concerning methods, that will make the individual home a financial, esthetic and ethical succfess." Of special interest to the housewife are two articles in the February num ber of the Journal of Home Economics "Menu Making and the Nutritive Value of Meals" and "The Dally Meals, and How to Plan Them," by Emma S. Jacobs. These, though very plain and concise In statement and practical in application, are too long for summary or quotation here, but may be obtained through the ever-helpful Public Li brary. mints 'health DrFrederckJfRbssfter. Questions pertinent to hygiene, sanita tion, and prevention of disease, if mat ters of general interest, will, be answered in this column Where space will not per mit or the subject is not suitable, let ters wlU be personally answered, subject to proper limitations and where a stamped, addressed envelops is inclosed. Dr. Rossiter wiU not make diagnoses or Individual diseases. Requests for suca service cannot be answered. A. Hardware Store in the Stomach. METAPHORICALLY speaking, there are times when we feel that we is only seldom tbat anyone actually tries to do this stunt. Surgeons fre quently have to operate upon people who have swallowed hair, Ifntves and other objects. Such a case was reported by a phy sician in Massachusetts. A man of 40 odd years had for some time amused his friends by Juggling coins in his throat. Finally, he took to swallowing nails, knives, cigars and, as a special attraction, he would swallow four feet of one-inch dog chain, or a woman's neck chain of the same length. The chains were usually -withdrawn later . ' This man could swallow caetiron, but" In time he discovered that his stomach was not made of that material, for at least he began to experience pain and other bad symptoms. A surgical operation revealed that a nail had already perforated the wall of the stomach. After this organ had been opened up the surgeon removed two keys, two twelve-penny nails and 130 other nails and pieces of wire. Alto gether the hardware weighed three quarters of a pound. From time to time surgery has re vealed some very Interesting things, concerning the various centers in the brain. Tumors in the brain substance and injuries have" produced changes in the dispositions of individuals, in mem ory, in emotions, in the power of atten tion and in many other mental states. The report of a recent surgical oper ation reveals the close relation that existed between the tumor and the center for mental Imagery. The patient was a' young woman of 22 who gave the history of having been hit-on the right side of the head with a croquet mallet when 10 years old, the blow being severe enough to cause a nosebleed. She had been a student up to within a year or so, having been graduated from a college In Boston. She enjoyed her school work, but al ways found It difficult. About a year and a half ago this young women began to develop some special symptoms of the eyes, and pe culiar sensations in the left hand and side. Shortly, after this she had con vulsive seizures which came at inter vals of a month. Many other symp toms developed which led to a diag nosis of a tumor on the right side of the brain. An operation was performed and a small growth was removed from the gray matter of the brain beneath the portion of the skull where she had been hit 12 years before. Interesting Psychology. On the day following the operation the patient was very much excited be cause she discovered her ability to make mental pictures of the objects and persons In her room, a faculty which, she asserted, had been quite unknown to her before. It seems that during her school life she had a very poor memory and never seemea to improve, siuaies in wnicn it was necessary to draw on the imagi nation she never could become inter ested in. She did not seem to possess the ability to create a mental picture of a battle, of Individuals or of things. She liked chemistry because she could see results and could use her hands. When this young lady took up the study ' of psychology in her regular course she discovered her lack of abil ity to visualize, or to "see with the mind's eye." She found, to her aston ishment, that she was different' from her classmates. She could not carry a picture of her friends or even of her parents In her mind, so when she traveled she took their pictures with her. In thinking of them she was obliged to look at her pictures. She could not even recall a picture of her home. She could not become interested in novel-reading, for the things described seemed stupid to her. She could not see the mental picture, and so the de scriptions meant nothing to her. After the operation there seemed to take place in her brain a readjustment, which became very apparent to the patient herself, and to the physicians in charge. In a short time she could picture to herself flowers, differentiat ing colors and shapes. Having been a student the development of this lost faculty furnished her with a most In teresting new line of mental activity. She- became most enthusiastic over her ability to see things with the mind. Another singular change that took place after the operation was the oc currence of frequent visual dreams, in which she saw herself doing certain things or in which various scenes were pictured out to her mind. This class of dreams was entirely new to her. In our imagination we can recall things we have heard, things we have tasted, smelled or felt, as well as things we have seen. In this instance the young lady could not recall, before she was operated upon, the things she had seen. The tumor removed from this young woman s brain was of considerable size. weighing about an ounce and a third. Evidently it was so situated that it interrupted the connection between the memory centers for seeing and the In tellectual centers, so that she could not call a visual Impression into conscious ness. This case suggests -many interesting facts for consideration in connection with psychology, and throws some side lights on various phases oT mental de velopment. The public school system of the present day is revealing the fact that there are many children who seem to be very deficient In one or in many faculties of the mind. It may be more than probable that in many instances there is a. partial lack or a complete absence of certain centers in the brain, just as there are other physical de ficiencies. bittle Discussions OF boveApMarriaqe -BY BARBARA BOYD. Washington and First Love. WONDER why Washington didn't win ' his first love," said the newly-made Benedict, thinking of his own success in securing the finest woman in the land. "Perhaps he was just a trifle cold and austere." replied the new bride. "Seems to me a man who would say grandiloquently, "I cannot tell a lie," would give one a bit of a chill." "Does that mean you would like me to fib occasionally?" "Not a bit of it. Don't you dare. But I mean a person who would take that virtuous attitude toward human foibles not that I think dear old Georgey ever did would - be about as pleasant to live with as a marble statute from the Hall of Fame. I guess, though, the real reason Is that his first love wasn't his real love. Do you think it ever is?" The Benedict regarded her sus piciously. "If you salt it down and preserve it. I think it is." "But love is love," objected the new bride. "And it ought just to- remain love, no matter what one does or what happens." "That Is all right theoretically. But In this practical world of ours, that theory won't work. If you want love to grow and thrive, you've got to watch it. and tend It, and feed it on the right kind of love food." "The fault, then, is not with love, but with the soil it grows in," said the new bride musingly. "People say that you can't tell whether you will love 'a person ten or fifteen years from now because love may die or grow cold.; in fact, that you can't control love. But If you keep the soil right in which love grows, you can always count on what love will do. If y,ou put on sufficient fuel, the fire will burn. So if first love Is real love, it will never die out, pro vided tne tnings to feed love on are given It thoughtfulness. and consid eration, and unselfishness, and cour tesy, . and tender regard, all these things that are the nourishment and moisture the little rootlets of love need. Of course, what Is thought to be love, and what many call first loye, is often not love at all. No amount of right soil will change it into love. And In time it shows itself for what it is." "All the same," persisted the new Benedict, "two people can take this that is called first love, and marry on it, and go on loving each other more and more as the years go. Yet If they hadn't married, each would have even tually married some one else, and been Just as happy.- It Just depends, as I have said, whether you salt It down." "I can't eay I just think so," object ed, the bride gently, - "You make too This Store Is Until 9:30 for Your Convenience g-ta---ani-a--rai-- 6 to 9:30 P. 1VL Saturday Extra special for those of our patrons who find it impossible or dif ficult to trade during the day. Take advantage of the big bargain. 1000 Doz. Large Navel Oranges, Doz. 15c From 5 to 9:30 P. M., Saturday night, 1000 dozen best sweet. Cali fornia Navel Oranges, 150 and 176 sizes, regular value 30c 1C a dozen. On sale tnese hours at the low price, dozen, only iOC Men's Pajamas lc Men's Flannelette Pajamas made of splendid quality material, good fitting, full cut, well finished neat striped effect; regular $1.23 garments, from 6 to QJ 9:30 o'clock, at 2 for P A O $2.00 Silk Hose lc 200 pairs of Women's pure thread silk Hose, medium weight, all silk, with high spliced heels, double sole and toe, elastic tops, regular $2.00 values, sizes 9Y2- 3!0 10, priced two for 15c Handkerchiefs lc From 6 to 9:30 P. M. Women's fine Swiss Handkerchiefs, narrow hemstitched borders, embroidered in neat designs, 15c vai- "I ues, on sale at two for AOC 10c Shoe Polish at 4c From 6 to 9:30 P. M. Shinola Shoe Polish, regular standard' 10c size boxes, on sale limit 2 boxes Saturday at the very low price the box, only "C sweeping an assertion. Lots of those who marry on the foundation of first love are the very ones who are filling: our divorce courts. The feeling- wasn't love at all. It was propinquity, attrac tion, a mere friendly liking, or some thing: of that sort. On the other hand, those who marry their first love and actually are happy ever after, really love, and then keep In a good condi tion the soil in which love grows." "Well, at any rate." said the new Benedict, kissing the New Bride, "ours is first love, true love, and love all the time, isn't It?" The New Bride nodded. "And we'll keep the garden In which love grows, raked and weeded and epic and span, won't we?" "Where is the garden?" laughed the New Renedict. "I'll begin right now." '.'The garden is just our two selves." said the New Bride, her face at bit serious. DorjsJ3IaAe!s Advice- JfyjDojv's J3teke. Winning Him Back. BY DORIS BLAKE. o SE of the bitterest moments in a woman's life is when the convic tion is forced upon her that her lover is growing cold and is gradually break ing off with her. "What can I do to win him back?" she sobs. If there is no other girl in the case there is a chance of his being won back. And sometimes not so often when there is another girl his affec tion may he regained. In either case, however, it is a chance. One thing you must never do if you would be successful with the recreant lover; don't upbraid him for staying away! Make light of or treat with in difference his disappointing you on the evening he was wont to call. Keep the secret burled deep down In your heart of how you waited and watched for his coming. Never let him know how you cried yourself to sleep and how desolate the whole world seemed without him. Think of what attracted him to you In the first place and be as you were then to him. It may have been your wit, your dainty costumes, your way of finding favor in other men's eyes (a most effeqtive prod, by the way, for the cooling lover). Redouble your sweet ness of manner toward him. 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